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Member Blogs / Re: Allie's Blog IV: Revenge o...
Last post by imallie - Today at 09:02:03 AM
Quote from: Oldandcreaky on Today at 07:04:15 AMYesterday, in a nearby town, I saw a transwoman exiting a grocery store. She wore a long, flowered skirt and a patterned  shirt and vest. Color and pattern atop color and pattern atop color and pattern, a rudimentary fashion mistake, which invite a second look all by itself...and that second look took me to a face not sufficiently softened by estrogen, which is why I clocked her. I expect you wouldn't make that mistake, but do use your wife as a fashion consultant, which is something nearly all women do.



I've been asking my wife what to wear for years. I don't see why anything would change going forward. 😉

And the advantage I have to is, as I might have mentioned? We've slowly been migrating my wardrobe over the past six months. A time lapse video of my closet would see the color palate soften, items replaced with either gender neutral or wholly female versions, etc... so that really there are days NOW where every item of clothing I'm wearing is women's clothing, even though I'm still presenting as male.

So it really will be hair, body changes, make up (which will be minimum), some jewelry I suppose (earrings for sure at some point), and some more overtly feminine items when the script really flips. But I cannot imagine making those "fashion don't" kind of mistakes.

Partly because of how we've slow played this, and partly because my wife would never let me. 😂
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Cooking / Re: What are you having for di...
Last post by LoriDee - Today at 08:59:19 AM
Chicken in the slow cooker with Sweet Baby Ray's Original Barbeque Sauce. Yuh Ummm!
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Member Blogs / Re: Faith's Progress 2.0
Last post by LoriDee - Today at 08:56:00 AM
Hopefully, that will put an end to that.

Bullies will continue to bully as long as they can get away with it. Good for you standing up for yourself. Nobody should have to put up with that.
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Member Blogs / Re: The Story of Lori
Last post by davina61 - Today at 08:54:33 AM
I watched this at school, they put the TV on in the hall for us all to see.
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Member Blogs / Re: Gina's journey
Last post by LoriDee - Today at 08:53:03 AM
That is good news, Gina.

It is perfectly natural to be a bit anxious, and I think your anxiety is well-placed. You are not second-guessing your decision and that is a healthy attitude. We wish you all the best.
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Member Blogs / Re: The Story of Lori
Last post by LoriDee - Today at 08:44:08 AM
I have always been the outdoor type. Growing up in the California desert, we had a ranch where we raised rabbits commercially. There were about seven ranches grouped together, so all of us kids hung out together. Rockhounding, hunting snakes, lizards, and jackrabbits, riding horses or motorcycles. As a family, we did a lot of hiking, camping, fishing, and hunting.

Of course, all that sun exposure is now why I have to see the dermatologist every six months. But given the chance to do it over, I doubt I would change anything.

Interesting anecdote about my dad:

He worked for NASA as an Electronics Engineer during the Apollo program. While he was working there, two historical events occurred that had never before occurred in the history of humankind. He worked out at the Mars Deep Space communications station.

Goldstone Tracking Station

In preparation for the Moon landing, NASA needed to know things like how far away is the Moon, how much fuel is needed, etc. To measure the distance between the Earth and the Moon, they would fire a laser at the surface and see how long it takes for the light to travel there and back. It was not a very good system because the light would scatter when it hit rocks or craters on the Moon's surface. But since no one had been there before, it was all they had.

One of the many tasks my dad did was to align the telescope. Our veterans and shooters will be familiar with boresighting. My dad had to look through a small telescope up on the dish and align the dish with a point on the Moon's surface. Then the operators would set the dish's settings accordingly and they could easily move the dish to those coordinates and it would be pointing at the Moon.

During Apollo 8 when astronaut Lovell and crew were going to orbit the moon for the first time, as they traveled around the back side of the moon there was no line-of-sight and thus no communications with the spacecraft. Using geometry and knowing the distance to the Moon and its diameter, they could calculate the circumference. Knowing how fast the craft was traveling they could calculate how long the craft would be out of communication with Mission Control. It turns out that their calculations were wrong.

But the first time the craft went behind the Moon and lost communications was the first time in human history that a human being could not see Earth. Think about that.

The second event was during Apollo 11 when Neil Armstrong was the first human to set foot on the Moon's surface. One of the greatest achievements in human history and my dad worked for NASA and helped with that mission. But at the moment when that happened, my dad was not at work. He was on a camping trip with me!

We went backpacking in the Sierra Nevada mountains in California. We spent eight days hiking 53 miles of the John Muir Trail. One morning as we were having breakfast, one of the other members of our party was listening to a portable radio. He said, "Well, we have now walked on the Moon."

While the astronauts were there, one of their projects was to install large prisms to act as mirrors. Now when they fire lasers at the Moon's surface they get very accurate data and know exactly how far away it is. All the Conspiracy Theorists who say that the Moon Landing never happened can't explain how those mirrors got there. They can be seen from Earth, so we know they are there.


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Member Blogs / Re: Gina's journey
Last post by davina61 - Today at 08:42:41 AM
And the dinner! I have been trying for ages and stuck at same weight ,lack of exercise is my problem after my bad back/hip.
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Member Blogs / Re: Faith's Progress 2.0
Last post by davina61 - Today at 08:39:50 AM
Good, at lest it didnt come to a slap. Well a verbal one that she deserved !
#9
Cooking / Re: What are you having for di...
Last post by davina61 - Today at 08:36:45 AM
Well as I have said before I cook from scratch, no ready made stuff as you never know what chemicals are in them.
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Member Blogs / Re: Jenn's Journey, Part 2
Last post by Jenn104 - Today at 08:28:12 AM
Quote from: Iztaccihuatl on Yesterday at 07:38:50 PMDon't sweat the hills (well, literally, please sweat them!), it is one stroke (my term, not sure how cyclists refer to one push down on the pedal) at a time! To give you an analogy, in high altitude mountaineering you get slower the higher you climb. I typically notice that above 4,000m / 13,300ft I start moving like my grandma, like taking a 2 seconds pause between each step. However, after several hours I would still reach the summit, slow and steady wins the day. Same for your hills. And downhill, go at what speed feels comfortable and safe for you. I am sure you'll do fine!

Hugs,

Heidemarie

Thank you.

I agree about hills- at some point its a matter of your head is stronger than your legs. "Shut up legs!" right? I've told my cycling mentor I am finishing, even if I walk a bike on a hill. Her response was "you will finish and you wouldn't be the only person walking a bike up a hill." She's done the event. With luck my youngest will get to see me finish as well as meet a close friend and her SO.

Me being me department? I carry my id/credit card/health care id in a little plastic purse that reads "Bitches Get Stuff Done" with a girl in a defiant pose. It is alwauys in my back center pouch with cell phone and keys. I reach back and give her a tap when I need motivation. shhhh. our secret. ;)

Seriously-- the race has been a real positive for me. I am in the best shape of my life, bar nothing. Instead of a long, cold winter I had a goal, motivation to be active. I've made friends. I've wound up in a queer cycling group I really enjoy. Itsa kind of grand adventure. I figured out a while ago the race is a good metaphor for my own transition. I have under control what I can control... the rest is getting it done.


Off to clean my apartment before the group ride late. Getting my yoga on tomorrow, followed by a "hard 25" ish on the bike and a pizza with Mom. Mom likes a good pizza.

Happy Weekend To All,

~Jenn