Susan's Place Transgender Resources

My name's Tyler, and I'm new here (duh lol).
I've been having these feelings of becoming a female for, I don't know, maybe since 1st or 2nd grade. I still haven't decided whether I want to go through with it or not, I know, if I really wanted to become one, I wouldn't have doubts, but I just kinda can't help it. I've told my mom about these feelings (as well as a couple of internet friends on another forum) and none of them was really happy about it, and just clearly didn't want to talk about. One day, as I was trying to figure out how much the surgery cost, I came across this site. I debated it for awhile; I needed someone to talk to about this, yet, I just felt a little nervous about doing it. So, here I am, I guess lol.

Sorry if that's too much info o_O

Hey Tyler, it's fine, say as much or as little as you're comfortable with, we've heard it all :). Welcome, and I just wanted to say that it's perfectly fine not to be certain - it's such a big deal, and we have a lifetime of gender reinforcement to work our way around that's trying to tell us "stay right where you are - then everyone else knows where they are" but you don't have to pay any attention to that.

This is a great place to take your time exploring who you are, as there's such a diverse range of people here with different experiences.

Quote from: Padma on June 18, 2011, 03:30:52 AM
Hey Tyler, it's fine, say as much or as little as you're comfortable with, we've heard it all :). Welcome, and I just wanted to say that it's perfectly fine not to be certain - it's such a big deal, and we have a lifetime of gender reinforcement to work our way around that's trying to tell us "stay right where you are - then everyone else knows where they are" but you don't have to pay any attention to that.

This is a great place to take your time exploring who you are, as there's such a diverse range of people here with different experiences.

Thanks for the welcome and reassurance   ;D

I've noticed that from browsing a little on here myself.

Quote from: Tyler92 on June 18, 2011, 03:41:21 AM
Thanks for the welcome and reassurance   ;D

I've noticed that from browsing a little on here myself.

Like she sed!
its ok nothing is normal in life am sure you will figure it out.! actually no one call tell you YES be a women or NO be a man. its your decision but you can always ask for help make friend with the same type of doubts that you have and just share your life with us! see ya around ;D

Hi Tyler, welcome to Susans! This is a great place for figuring things out. We share our experiences and everyone learns. See you around, hugs, Tracey

Welcome to Susans!! 

    You came across a great resource and also a diverse group of people to bounce things off of when you need it. There are lots of folks here in the same boat as you, still
trying to figure things out.

   Jump right in!

Hi Tyler, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 7200 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

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Hugs and Love,
Janet

Hi Tyler and welcome to the site. We've all gone through these feelings so your not alone.
You're among friends.

Gennee

:)

Hi Tyler nice to meet you :) and don't worry about being uncertain, you need to ask questions to know yourself.

Welcome to the family, see ya.

~Taylor

Thanks everyone, I feel so much more welcome and invited now :D
I hope I can get to the bottom of my feelings and get it all sorted out.