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Title: Huge yuk!
Post by: iris1469 on July 02, 2011, 10:33:06 AM
Post by: iris1469 on July 02, 2011, 10:33:06 AM
I dont know if anyone else is annoyed by this. Have you ever known a person whose mere presence weighs heavily (negatively) and can suck energy from a room while replacing it with a garbage atmosphere? An example would be that you find yourself in a room with several people, including the person of point. Impossible it is to not notice, putting distance between them and you, the only solution?
I guess an online example could be that you log onto a site and go to the forums, and immediately that presence is there, just ewwww, maybe im just weird
I guess an online example could be that you log onto a site and go to the forums, and immediately that presence is there, just ewwww, maybe im just weird
Title: Re: Huge yuk!
Post by: lifemorewistful on July 02, 2011, 10:46:07 AM
Post by: lifemorewistful on July 02, 2011, 10:46:07 AM
I know exactly what you mean! There is a girl at work that is like this for me. Constantly negative, never a nice word for anyone, really rude. Just bein g in the same room with her makes my skin crawls and my blood pressure climb.
Title: Re: Huge yuk!
Post by: Hikari on July 02, 2011, 11:51:54 AM
Post by: Hikari on July 02, 2011, 11:51:54 AM
Emotions are contagious, negativity breeds negativity, positivity breeds positivity. If someone is negative enough they can even bring down a whole room of people of a neutral and sometimes even positive disposition.
I have been doing my best to embrace positive influences and either rid myself or distance myself from the negative influences around me. This means there are some people I just have to stay away from for my own good. I want to be happy, and I won't let other people bring me down.
Sadly, I think this is all a natural part of the human experience.
I have been doing my best to embrace positive influences and either rid myself or distance myself from the negative influences around me. This means there are some people I just have to stay away from for my own good. I want to be happy, and I won't let other people bring me down.
Sadly, I think this is all a natural part of the human experience.
Title: Re: Huge yuk!
Post by: lifemorewistful on July 02, 2011, 01:24:42 PM
Post by: lifemorewistful on July 02, 2011, 01:24:42 PM
Quote from: Hikari on July 02, 2011, 11:51:54 AM
Sadly, I think this is all a natural part of the human experience.
I agree. Unfortunately, the world is full of negative people like that and it is something we all have to get used to. I make it a point to distance myself from it whenever possible, or try my best to continue my positive outlook no matter my surroundings. Its sometimes difficult to do though.
But, in a wicked sort of way, I find that there is nothing more annoying to a negative person than someone who is very positive and happy no matter what is going on, and love nothing more than to be that way around them whenever possible. :P *insert evil, maniacal laugh here*
Title: Re: Huge yuk!
Post by: Sage on July 17, 2011, 10:28:26 PM
Post by: Sage on July 17, 2011, 10:28:26 PM
Sadly, I used to be one of these people. I'm doing better at it now that I'm getting more confident with my androgyny. Now I'm happy, and I try to make others happy, too. :D