Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 12, 2011, 09:01:17 AM Return to Full Version
Title: How to come out to friends but not the community?
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 12, 2011, 09:01:17 AM
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 12, 2011, 09:01:17 AM
Hello i am a brand new person to Susan's place :D :D :D
Well i have noticed random but happy to have changes but this one i didn't expect, i have suddenly become quite needy to tell my girl friends but not the guy friends to be honest never was gonna tell them... they are very sexist boys i don't think they need to know. OK so before i carry on i am 17 and well i have told 4 of my girl friends but well only one of them is still my friend in act shes like my super friend now ;D anyways the other 3 were out of town friends who i didn't know well so that's all good. OK so the image everyone has ever known of me is this always wants to fight tough guy >:-)( complete act that here and there work break down when a boy actually hit me i always burst into tears) never the less i am nothing like the boy they knew :angel:and well how do i tell them because i love them and i want them to stay my friends.
I was just wondering what suggestions and ideas you girls have to help me be excepted and forgive for completely lying about who i was. Ah yes note that this crazy boy act came along because when i started at the school i was just like any other girl in the way i did anything but then EVERYONE bullied :(me so i became Mr tough boy lol ::).
Please be kind and helpful in your replies and i hope Susan's place is as helpful and accepting as i hear it is MWA thanks in advance! ;) :D :D
Well i have noticed random but happy to have changes but this one i didn't expect, i have suddenly become quite needy to tell my girl friends but not the guy friends to be honest never was gonna tell them... they are very sexist boys i don't think they need to know. OK so before i carry on i am 17 and well i have told 4 of my girl friends but well only one of them is still my friend in act shes like my super friend now ;D anyways the other 3 were out of town friends who i didn't know well so that's all good. OK so the image everyone has ever known of me is this always wants to fight tough guy >:-)( complete act that here and there work break down when a boy actually hit me i always burst into tears) never the less i am nothing like the boy they knew :angel:and well how do i tell them because i love them and i want them to stay my friends.
I was just wondering what suggestions and ideas you girls have to help me be excepted and forgive for completely lying about who i was. Ah yes note that this crazy boy act came along because when i started at the school i was just like any other girl in the way i did anything but then EVERYONE bullied :(me so i became Mr tough boy lol ::).
Please be kind and helpful in your replies and i hope Susan's place is as helpful and accepting as i hear it is MWA thanks in advance! ;) :D :D
Title: Re: How to come out to friends but not the community?
Post by: Julie Marie on July 12, 2011, 09:25:58 AM
Post by: Julie Marie on July 12, 2011, 09:25:58 AM
Have you ever seen this commercial?
80'S FABERGE ORGANICS SHAMPOO COMMERCIAL W HEATHER LOCKLEAR WAYNE'S WORLD SPOOF (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mcskckuosxQ&playnext=1&list=PL1144BB6E31926269#)
Well, that's what happens.
80'S FABERGE ORGANICS SHAMPOO COMMERCIAL W HEATHER LOCKLEAR WAYNE'S WORLD SPOOF (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mcskckuosxQ&playnext=1&list=PL1144BB6E31926269#)
Well, that's what happens.
Title: Re: How to come out to friends but not the community?
Post by: A on July 12, 2011, 09:33:27 AM
Post by: A on July 12, 2011, 09:33:27 AM
Hard to understand, but I think... You want to come out to only a few friends without the rest knowing? Well, the only way to attempt this is to do it one by one and select your most trustworthy friends and have a sit-down talk with them, mentioning and insisting that it is important that they do not publish the info, that it's a private matter.
But keep in mind the best you can achieve is some CHANCE that your secret will remain secret. Even the best friend with the best intentions might let it slip, and such things can spread like dropped mercury...
But keep in mind the best you can achieve is some CHANCE that your secret will remain secret. Even the best friend with the best intentions might let it slip, and such things can spread like dropped mercury...
Title: Re: How to come out to friends but not the community?
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 12, 2011, 09:39:39 AM
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 12, 2011, 09:39:39 AM
Thanks ladies but gosh i am a bit scared now i guess one friend is good enough for me ^^