Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Cindy on July 17, 2011, 01:47:13 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Tough Day
Post by: Cindy on July 17, 2011, 01:47:13 AM
Post by: Cindy on July 17, 2011, 01:47:13 AM
I just need a hug.
Brought my wife home for a few hours. She was in so much pain she was crying.
I massaged her, used heat blocks, tried everything but her neck and shoulders were in agony.
Puts my problems into perspective.
Cindy
Brought my wife home for a few hours. She was in so much pain she was crying.
I massaged her, used heat blocks, tried everything but her neck and shoulders were in agony.
Puts my problems into perspective.
Cindy
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: heatherrose on July 17, 2011, 01:58:08 AM
Post by: heatherrose on July 17, 2011, 01:58:08 AM
Seeing I can't be there,
I am here.
:icon_hug:
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: LordKAT on July 17, 2011, 02:17:08 AM
Post by: LordKAT on July 17, 2011, 02:17:08 AM
wish I could ease her pain and calm your mind.
Hugs
Hugs
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: justmeinoz on July 17, 2011, 03:04:43 AM
Post by: justmeinoz on July 17, 2011, 03:04:43 AM
Wish there was something more concrete I could do too. Big hugs Sis. Thinking of you both.
Karen.
Karen.
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: Jennie on July 17, 2011, 03:24:04 AM
Post by: Jennie on July 17, 2011, 03:24:04 AM
Hi Cindy, many Hawaiian Hula Hugs dancin your way.
I wish also that I could help, I know that the part that hurts the most is seeing your loved one in pain and not being able to do much about it. Please understand that your doing all you can do and there will be days like this, when you have a day like this come here and get your hugs and kisses and know that there are a lot of people and prayers for you ;)
Hang in there, aloha nui loa.
Jennie
I wish also that I could help, I know that the part that hurts the most is seeing your loved one in pain and not being able to do much about it. Please understand that your doing all you can do and there will be days like this, when you have a day like this come here and get your hugs and kisses and know that there are a lot of people and prayers for you ;)
Hang in there, aloha nui loa.
Jennie
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: annette on July 17, 2011, 03:49:39 AM
Post by: annette on July 17, 2011, 03:49:39 AM
Dear Cindy
So sorry to hear the tough times you and your wife are going trough, I wish you will have better times.
You deserve better, but that's life, we can only take it as it comes, sadly.
Please accept my virtual hug and I hope one day I can give you a real one.
hugs and kisses
Annette
So sorry to hear the tough times you and your wife are going trough, I wish you will have better times.
You deserve better, but that's life, we can only take it as it comes, sadly.
Please accept my virtual hug and I hope one day I can give you a real one.
hugs and kisses
Annette
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: spacial on July 17, 2011, 07:56:29 AM
Post by: spacial on July 17, 2011, 07:56:29 AM
Thank you for telling us dear Cindy.
I am pretty sure that, even though she was so uncomfortable, your wife did appreciiate returning to her own environment, however breiefly.
I am pretty sure that, even though she was so uncomfortable, your wife did appreciiate returning to her own environment, however breiefly.
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: JulieC. on July 17, 2011, 10:15:38 AM
Post by: JulieC. on July 17, 2011, 10:15:38 AM
I feel for you. I find it so much easier to handle my own pain than it is to handle someone else's pain.
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: RachaelAnn22 on July 17, 2011, 10:36:04 AM
Post by: RachaelAnn22 on July 17, 2011, 10:36:04 AM
I'm thinking of you Cindy.many Hugs,Rachael.
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: ninjaboi on July 17, 2011, 12:48:36 PM
Post by: ninjaboi on July 17, 2011, 12:48:36 PM
Virtual hug from me too. My other half was in pain last night with her RA and it kills me to see her like that. I feel for you.
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: kate durcal on July 17, 2011, 01:19:22 PM
Post by: kate durcal on July 17, 2011, 01:19:22 PM
More virtual HUGS!
Kate D
Kate D
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: JessicaH on July 17, 2011, 01:38:17 PM
Post by: JessicaH on July 17, 2011, 01:38:17 PM
Big hug to you sis. Feeling helpless is a terrible feeling. :(
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: bethw on July 18, 2011, 06:04:44 AM
Post by: bethw on July 18, 2011, 06:04:44 AM
I'm so sorry Cindy. You're in my thoughts and prayers. If i were there I would hold you for as long as you needed.
Hugs
Beth
Hugs
Beth
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: Cindy on July 18, 2011, 06:30:37 AM
Post by: Cindy on July 18, 2011, 06:30:37 AM
Thank you dear people.
I was sad and hurting and my friends came through.
Thank you.
For some reason I am popular? When I cry the tissues are thrust forwards, And I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
You keep me alive.
But
Lets forget Cindy James.
Let's remember and help the other people both male, female and androgyne that cry for a hug. They are just names, but they are beautiful people who cry in the night. They do not have my rep. But they deserve every second of care and support.
No they deserve more. I am a very strong person. I weep and I cry (thank you HRT :laugh:) But I am a very person in control, and I have learned so much. And I learn quickly. And I adapt.
I had a few posts that cried and said they had 20 odd viewings and no hugs. Why would we do that? This is a support site. All you need to do is send a hug. No big message. If you cannot spell send an emoticon.. Send both, I can't give a rats arse if you cannot spell, can you communicate?
I love and enjoy hugs, lets make sure we hug the ones in need as well
l
Love does not have a language. Ah but it does.
Cindy
I was sad and hurting and my friends came through.
Thank you.
For some reason I am popular? When I cry the tissues are thrust forwards, And I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
You keep me alive.
But
Lets forget Cindy James.
Let's remember and help the other people both male, female and androgyne that cry for a hug. They are just names, but they are beautiful people who cry in the night. They do not have my rep. But they deserve every second of care and support.
No they deserve more. I am a very strong person. I weep and I cry (thank you HRT :laugh:) But I am a very person in control, and I have learned so much. And I learn quickly. And I adapt.
I had a few posts that cried and said they had 20 odd viewings and no hugs. Why would we do that? This is a support site. All you need to do is send a hug. No big message. If you cannot spell send an emoticon.. Send both, I can't give a rats arse if you cannot spell, can you communicate?
I love and enjoy hugs, lets make sure we hug the ones in need as well
l
Love does not have a language. Ah but it does.
Cindy
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: AbraCadabra on July 18, 2011, 06:42:12 AM
Post by: AbraCadabra on July 18, 2011, 06:42:12 AM
Honey, one more hug (big'on) for the road.
Yeah, it seems odd that some folks look in on these situations and move on without further ado.
Maybe some are all out of tears? --- it does happen and we will forgive them also :-)
Axelle
Yeah, it seems odd that some folks look in on these situations and move on without further ado.
Maybe some are all out of tears? --- it does happen and we will forgive them also :-)
Axelle
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: caitlin_adams on July 18, 2011, 09:04:05 AM
Post by: caitlin_adams on July 18, 2011, 09:04:05 AM
Hugs
Title: Re: Tough Day
Post by: Melody Maia on July 18, 2011, 09:25:13 AM
Post by: Melody Maia on July 18, 2011, 09:25:13 AM
Hey Cindy, hugs to you. Sorry they didn't come sooner. I haven't been on here as often lately.