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Title: I just have to ask
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 27, 2011, 01:34:32 PM
just forget it
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: PixieBoy on July 27, 2011, 01:44:06 PM
Yes, I can giggle at crude sex jokes. But I'm a young lad, so I suppose I can do such things without it being seen as incredibly perverted/bizarre. I'm also a master at accidentally saying double entendres, and such things.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: malinkibear on July 27, 2011, 01:47:29 PM
What, saying boner is perverted now?
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Constance on July 27, 2011, 01:48:07 PM
My 19yo daughter is most definitely a cis-girl and laughs hysterically at boner/sex jokes whereas her 22yo brother who is most definitely a cis-guy just shakes his head and sighs.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: kyril on July 27, 2011, 01:49:03 PM
What's wrong with sex jokes?
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 27, 2011, 01:50:55 PM
never mind
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: N.Chaos on July 27, 2011, 01:54:04 PM
I laugh at crude jokes because I'm a crude person, but my girlfriend, and even my mom also laugh at the same jokes.

Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 27, 2011, 01:55:59 PM
never mind
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Noah G. on July 27, 2011, 02:02:56 PM
In person, unless I'm in a bad mood or don't really hear it, at the least I'll try (and usually fail) to keep from smirking. Or, at the opposite end of the spectrum, I'll laugh and keep laughing when I think about it for hours or even days.

I don't know as it's a choice, because it's kind of reflexive for me and I have to actively fight the response -- and as I said, quite often I fail at effectively doing so. But I don't think it's inherent to males (whether cis or trans) because I too know of several women who get just as much of a kick out of it all.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Natkat on July 27, 2011, 02:08:37 PM
like when you where little and said penis and everyone where like
thihi.... he said penis...? :laugh: well it depends on the contest, I can giggle of these things but it depends on the contest.
I do giggle of these kind of thing -> Sandy Balls TV ad (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEyKFkkcHAc#)
but not if people say "she also said that last night" or "he came" jokes.. there just to boring -__-
--
Actually it more my female friends who turn everything I say into a pervert contest and giggle about it,
I am not the type who talk about sex that much actually (not compared to so many I know) I think it can be pretty annoying to hear every little details of what people did last night or what they got into there minds.

but I got a big sense of pervert humour.^^ so if people tell me a pervers joke I would probebly laugh.
=D
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: kyril on July 27, 2011, 02:16:42 PM
penis :-P
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: ~RoadToTrista~ on July 27, 2011, 02:23:21 PM
^LOL

Quote from: Natkat on July 27, 2011, 02:08:37 PM
Actually it more my female friends who turn everything I say into a pervert contest and giggle about it

I agree, women are pervs. >.<
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 27, 2011, 02:27:57 PM
never mind
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Constance on July 27, 2011, 02:35:16 PM
I think it varies wildly. As I mentioned, my cisgender son doesn't find these things funny. Penis is nothing more than an anatomical term to him, not a source of humor.

I've certainly encountered men who will be crude with sex jokes, etc, but I've also encountered an equal amount who aren't.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Brendon on July 27, 2011, 02:39:47 PM
Quote from: kyril on July 27, 2011, 02:16:42 PM
penis :-P
I read this and laughed, so I guess that's my answer. haha
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Lee on July 27, 2011, 02:40:12 PM
I think it depends a lot more on the person than the gender.  In my group of friends the girls are at least as bad as the guys.  My brother often gives me the "You're an idiot" look whenever I say something immature.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Natkat on July 27, 2011, 02:42:11 PM
little kitty;
well I just say it more women than men for me XD I know guys a pervert, I know...
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To be honest I think it because men don't put so many fellings into it like women do,
this is pretty stereotyped but men tend to just talk about sex more in a fun/everyday-life spirit where women get it personal.

of corse this not EVERYONE, but in general I felt like going into more private details with guys(who's only friends) than I have with girls because they didn't put so many thoughts into it.










Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: bojangles on July 27, 2011, 02:42:49 PM
Life is short.
I laugh as much as possible and don't much care who thinks what I'm laughing at is immature.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: bojangles on July 27, 2011, 02:43:50 PM
Quotepenis :-P
I read this and laughed, so I guess that's my answer. haha

Me too.  >:-)
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Silas on July 27, 2011, 02:45:10 PM
"Sandy balls." XDD The accent makes it even better.

What she says is boring to me, and coming jokes are very boring a lot of times. Some sex jokes can be amusing, but a lot of them are stupid. (Example: my boyfriend showed me this "tig ol' bitties" video on youtube, I thought it was completely idiotic and unfunny.)

For some reason, it's easier for me to find it funny if it's not completely juvenile ("OMG PENIS LULULULZ") and if a girl delivers it. For some reason it's more amusing. But anatomy-words aren't really hilarious, and if one skirts around it like it's a bad word ("his 'you-know-what'/uhm, down, uh, there") it immediately becomes stupid.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: malinkibear on July 27, 2011, 02:46:12 PM
Quote from: N.Chaos on July 27, 2011, 01:54:04 PM
I laugh at crude jokes because I'm a crude person, but my girlfriend, and even my mom also laugh at the same jokes.
My mum's favourite joke is:
What do you call three naked men sitting on each others' shoulders?
A scrotum pole.


Now that's crude ::)
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: MaxAloysius on July 27, 2011, 02:54:59 PM
^ LOL!

I guess there's my answer. :P Still though, I don't think this in an inherently male thing. Perhaps it's more socially acceptable for men to laugh at these kind of jokes than it is for women to, so we see more men doing it on a daily basis. Generally speaking though I've found my female co-workers to be just as crass as myself and the other male employee when the situation allows. :P
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Natkat on July 27, 2011, 03:11:13 PM
once I where with my friend going down to lunch she stopped me out of sudden pointing like "LOOK!!"

me: "what?"
her; "ITS A PENIS"
me; "where?"
her; "ON THE FLOOR"
me; "I dont see anything?"
her; "IT LOOKS LIKE A PENIS ON THE FLOOR!!!!"

well seam like there where a a funny shape on the floor who looked like a penis it didn't look much like it but it where pretty funny..
sorry to go of topic just felt like sharing this extremly important moment of my life..
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: kyril on July 27, 2011, 03:12:05 PM
Just in my own defense, I'm perfectly capable of having an intelligent, serious conversation...but if somebody's going to call me immature, I might as well have fun with it :)
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: JohnAlex on July 27, 2011, 03:32:05 PM
Quote from: LilKittyCatZoey on July 27, 2011, 02:27:57 PM
The case at point is men i know we get perverted girls but i dont care about them because i am asking about boys. Girls can be perverted but i havnt been forced into conversations on useless stuff like that with girls only boys, please keep to topic

Since we're talking about pervertism being an act or a behavior, including girls is still on topic.

It's perfectly fine for you to think that crude behavior is sad and pathetic.  But don't be sexist by only wanting to focus on the faults of men.  Women and men have a lot more in common than stereotypes allow for.
Like just because you coincidentally haven't "forced into conversations on useless stuff" by girls, doesn't mean they don't do it just as much as guys.

I think talking about girls being perverts is just as much on topic as talking about guys doing it.
And seeing as girls can be just as perverted as guys, there's really no meaning in trying to figure if FTMs are perverted also.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Ryno on July 27, 2011, 03:48:54 PM
Everyone has a different sense of humour. Some find racial and blatantly sexist jokes funny while I personally cringe and snap when I hear them. Sex jokes? Depends on who's delivering and how. Seeing a shape or a company logo that looks like a cock and balls, I'll probably point it out. "Haha, dude, it's a cock!"

Having a sexual sense of humour doesn't make a person immature. That's the same as saying "you have to have the same sense of humour as me and my friends, otherwise you're not funny at all, to anyone." The fact that you don't find those jokes is fine, but it doesn't make you any better - or worse- a human being.

As for whether or not FtMs have the same crude, sexual sense of humour as -some- cisguys, well, that depends. It's the same with chicks, some have a perverted sense of humour and some do not. There are a lot of guys out there who couldn't care less about crude sexual innuendo.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: MaxAloysius on July 27, 2011, 04:20:48 PM
I think it's probably safe to say that coming onto the guys section of the forum and asking us if we're all crude, immature, perverted men who have nothing better to talk about than sex jokes (like all cis men), is not very likely to net you the kind of responses you seem to be looking for Zoey. ;)
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Sharky on July 27, 2011, 04:28:12 PM
As soon as I read boner I started laughing.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Wolfsnake on July 27, 2011, 05:28:42 PM
A friend of mine said, "What is it you aren't supposed to talk about? Politics, religion, and sex?"

I stared for a sec and then replied, "Dude, that's all I ever talk about."
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: RyGuy on July 27, 2011, 08:53:41 PM
Quote from: MaxAloysius on July 27, 2011, 04:20:48 PM
I think it's probably safe to say that coming onto the guys section of the forum and asking us if we're all crude, immature, perverted men who have nothing better to talk about than sex jokes (like all cis men), is not very likely to net you the kind of responses you seem to be looking for Zoey. ;)

this
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: tekla on July 27, 2011, 09:07:40 PM
It's pretty safe to say that all those boys around you have an adolescent sense of humor because, like you, they are adolescents.  Hopefully they will grow up at some point, and so will you.  And when you do you'll find the only thing worse than an adolescent sense of humor is no sense of humor, and, at that, it's worse by exponential degrees.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: hwytoaster on July 27, 2011, 09:17:12 PM
I've been told before, in the distant past, that I'm like Beavis & Butt-Head because I chuckle at anything & everything that could possibly be taken as something sexual or crude. 
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: tekla on July 27, 2011, 09:22:01 PM
My kids turned me on to B&B when they were in Jr. High/High School, they were cracking up, and started laughing even harder then they were.  They asked me why and I said: 'Because the joke is on you and your not even getting that.'
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: hwytoaster on July 27, 2011, 09:31:47 PM
B&B was on back in high school for me. I'm not stupid, but I like stupid humor. lol
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: tekla on July 27, 2011, 09:37:36 PM
B&B gave Mike Judge the money so he could do King of the Hill, possibly the warmest, most humane and touching cartoon show I've ever seen.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Ryno on July 27, 2011, 09:50:41 PM
^ which is evidence that a mature sense of humour develops once all the penis-giggles get old. :)
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: tekla on July 27, 2011, 10:26:44 PM
Or not, it's really evidence that most people have a sense of humor that operates on many levels at the same time.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 27, 2011, 11:49:45 PM
never mind
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: LilKittyCatZoey on July 27, 2011, 11:51:24 PM
never mind
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: tekla on July 27, 2011, 11:55:34 PM
Well the funniest part of it is that it really annoys people, until it starts to infuriate them, then it becomes hysterical.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: JohnAlex on July 27, 2011, 11:57:47 PM
Quote from: tekla on July 27, 2011, 11:55:34 PM
Well the funniest part of it is that it really annoys people, until it starts to infuriate them, then it becomes hysterical.

^ this.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: RyGuy on July 28, 2011, 12:51:52 AM
Quote from: LilKittyCatZoey on July 27, 2011, 11:49:45 PM
Oki Doki i wont be sexist why do you all enjoy being crude? thats the new main part this thread

honestly not only is this thread really unnecessary but since it has nothing to do specifically with FTMs or transitioning, i don't know why you posted here. on top of that, you're being sexist, assuming, and offensive. we can agree to disagree on senses of humor and it should end there.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: ~RoadToTrista~ on July 28, 2011, 01:01:58 AM
Ugh.......
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Mr.Rainey on July 28, 2011, 02:37:59 AM
Whats wrong with boner jokes? Sex jokes are hilarious.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: ravij on July 28, 2011, 02:49:20 AM
Quote from: RyanThomas on July 28, 2011, 12:51:52 AM
honestly not only is this thread really unnecessary but since it has nothing to do specifically with FTMs or transitioning, i don't know why you posted here. on top of that, you're being sexist, assuming, and offensive. we can agree to disagree on senses of humor and it should end there.

Qfe.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: Da Monkey on July 28, 2011, 09:25:30 AM
Damn, I'm too late.
Title: Re: I just have to ask
Post by: NathanW on July 31, 2011, 03:42:06 AM
Quote from: Natkat on July 27, 2011, 02:08:37 PM
I do giggle of these kind of thing -> Sandy Balls TV ad (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEyKFkkcHAc#)

I just realised i've been to sandy balls. XD
haha me and my friend did get a laugh or two out of it's name.
and with my group of friends I have found it's my female friends that made them jokes , then again i haven't had many male friends.