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"You're a MAN, you were born a MAN and you will die a MAN. You can go and pay yourself a neo-vagina but for me you'll just be handsome 'CASTRATED-MAN'. You can be the most beautiful ->-bleeped-<- in the world with a vagina and appear 200% female and a bombshell diva but for me you'll always be a MAN. And me I'll NEVER HAVE SEX WITH YOU, NOR WILL I LOVE YOU, AND EVEN WORSE WILL NEVER MARRY WITH YOU, I CAN OFFER YOU ONLY FRIENDSHIP MAXIMUM, SORRY. And me I prefer go do it with a 'natural born woman' who might be plain and less beautiful than you as long as she has a natural vagina"  :embarrassed:

Sisters, did a man ever tell you something horrible like this?  :embarrassed:

What's sad, MAJORITY of men I hit into are 'strict straights'. Here majority of men think typically like this one. How do you generally deal with this type of atrocious situations? No wonder why some of us prefer to hide their past and live in denial.

Someone that thinks like that isn't worth being acquainted with. They'd be pretty egotistical if they think that you'd want to marry them let alone have anything to do with them after saying that.

Quote from: Sad Girl on August 14, 2011, 08:13:24 AM
I'll NEVER HAVE SEX WITH YOU, NOR WILL I LOVE YOU, AND EVEN WORSE WILL NEVER MARRY WITH YOU, I CAN OFFER YOU ONLY FRIENDSHIP MAXIMUM, SORRY.

From my perspective I would tell him, "That' right, you never will, because you aren't worth my time of day."

I would have no interest in a person like that? Stupid is a big turnoff for me. I surround myself with intelligent and open minded people... I wouldn't even be interested in him as a friend.

Do you think you deserve someone like that? Don't be a broken victim that clings to the scrap of humanity that he is... he isn't rejecting you, you don't have the problem, he is the one with issues and you should be the one wanting to back away.

Be confident in what you are. Being trans is beautiful (if even simply in how it opens your eyes to view the world in a more peaceful way). How does a human justify the hate and violence we face? That is what "normal people" are... but we, as a general community, aren't such trash... we don't want to cause pain to those that are different... and that, in itself, is plenty of reason to support that what we are better than they are.

Have you ever watched the twilight zone where the beautiful woman wakes up in the society of pig-people? Just because society is backwards doesn't change what you are.

Quote from: Sad Girl on August 14, 2011, 08:13:24 AM
I'll NEVER HAVE SEX WITH YOU, NOR WILL I LOVE YOU, AND EVEN WORSE WILL NEVER MARRY WITH YOU, I CAN OFFER YOU ONLY FRIENDSHIP MAXIMUM, SORRY.

Did they shout it as the caps suggest?

Cos if not they are offering friendship and an apology.

Someone with a mental block, a possibly insurmountable mental block - a bunch of too simplistic, probably unthought out and reactionary ideas - true, but not a terrible person. Could be they need a bit of time.

This is going to sound totally backwards and destructive (because it probably is).

But myself, I take comfort in knowing that nobody, anywhere, will ever hate me more than I do, and I have the advantage of knowing more about me than anyone. So there! ;D

You think you hate me? Well I hate me more than you will ever know, so there!

I'll NEVER HAVE SEX WITH YOU, NOR WILL I LOVE YOU, AND EVEN WORSE WILL NEVER MARRY WITH YOU,

Whoo there partner with the 'even worse' part.  I'm having a hard time thinking of anything that would be 'even worse' than being married to someone like that.

The irony of that statement is that some day he will meet a girl in a bar, and after enough alcohol won't notice or care that her vagina is "after-market"  :)

Hmmm so someone you were trying to have a relationship with said that to you?

Personally I wouldn't want a guy who wants sex above anything else from me anyway :) What's with this emphasis on having sex and vagina and stuff...

"you were born a man"
Born A full sized hairy deep voiced man. sure why not. i've gotten the first part yes... not the second part.

I don't see it as living in denial... Invisiblity is for those of us lucky enough to be passable and stealthy our best defense.

I would have (and have) said, "You're right!  I'm the best piece of a$$ you'll NEVER have!"

Obviously the bar or casual scene is not the best place to Mr/Ms Right.  And for that one to be so hyper egotistical that you would even WANT someone who is so close minded and bigoted that it boggles the mind!

I too have been similarly accosted by such alcohol besotted cretins.  They have masculinization/homo-transphobia issues that make fear anyone who challenges their world view.

I would not want their friendship or any sort of relationship with them.

You are better than them and deserve better than them.

BTW: Most of these phobic nits blather on about how your genes/DNA will never change.  And that you will always have the DNA that you were born with and, of course ignore any sort of genetic intersex condition.  However they never understand that ONLY an expensive DNA test or electron microscope could ever tell.  Every cell of your being is transformed by the cross gender hormone therapy and by any modern test that is performed down to the cellular level will show that you ARE the gender that you know yourself to be!  By taxonomy, you ARE FEMALE!

So, buck up kid, they are losers!

-Sandy

Born a man?

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Yeah sure -_-

I would have punched him in the face.

Quote from: Zee on August 14, 2011, 06:35:40 PM
Born a man?

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Yeah sure -_-

ROFLMAO
that was funny

sorry but it was

oh forget that man or any like him

your worth more than that.

hey maybe find a nice WOman  ;)

Quote from: Zee on August 14, 2011, 06:35:40 PM
Born a man?

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Yeah sure -_-

Hilarious... And I would have tazed the guy.

You deserve better than that.
And i will never get the "you were born a man " thing guys have. Are they worried that being whith a person that for some time used to have male features makes them gay all of a sudden? Quite a sad excuse for a stable, male,straight identity imho.
[irony]
Besides, i for my part was born as a baby. Later, i used to be a child. So,if i apply the same logic to this situation, wouldn't being with.me turn the average joe into a pedofile?
wait. Everyone i know has been a child at some point. OMG. Babyf****s and sexual predators. They're  everywhere...... [/irony]