Community Conversation => Non-binary talk => Topic started by: shelly on August 26, 2011, 09:08:55 AM Return to Full Version
Title: A day of being my birth gender!!
Post by: shelly on August 26, 2011, 09:08:55 AM
Post by: shelly on August 26, 2011, 09:08:55 AM
Cant quite say strongly enough how much i hate coming across as being male, so its no wonder when i mentioned about getting dressed up for a recent day at the races, some people including my wife were quite amazed. Must admit putting a shirt and tie on, well i felt quite constricted as if the walls where closing in, however when i looked in the mirror and saw my reflection, well i dont mind saying i did look rather good and like the saying, if you look good, you feel good!
While walking through Brighton shopping centre, i was approached by a street canvessor try to collect money for the homeless, this alone was a first as looking like Shrek most of the time, these people normally stop me and give me money lol. Wife says it was the first time since our wedding 10 years ago that i had worn a shirt and tie and as this race meeting is going to become a yearly event i look forward to doing it all over again, maybe coming across as a male isnt so bad after all.
On the downside over the last couple of weeks i have gone full circle and my female side is now in total control, always seems to be a power struggle between the sides with the female side the stronger, but as yet i am not being made to suffer, both sides living in perfect harmony? Well we can only hope.
While walking through Brighton shopping centre, i was approached by a street canvessor try to collect money for the homeless, this alone was a first as looking like Shrek most of the time, these people normally stop me and give me money lol. Wife says it was the first time since our wedding 10 years ago that i had worn a shirt and tie and as this race meeting is going to become a yearly event i look forward to doing it all over again, maybe coming across as a male isnt so bad after all.
On the downside over the last couple of weeks i have gone full circle and my female side is now in total control, always seems to be a power struggle between the sides with the female side the stronger, but as yet i am not being made to suffer, both sides living in perfect harmony? Well we can only hope.
Title: Re: A day of being my birth gender!!
Post by: espo on August 27, 2011, 05:58:31 PM
Post by: espo on August 27, 2011, 05:58:31 PM
Making everyone happy once a year = Priceless