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Yep. Vince returned.
Anyway.

I just lost my only friend.
She was my closest friend ever.
We were crazy close.
I literally have NO real life friends, except her.

She is cool with me being trans.
Her dad is not.

Her dad just banned us from talking/hanging out because I'm a guy.

[2:20:14 PM] Her: i wish i never told my parents you where a guy, i cant spend the night anymore and you cant spend the night here, i cant go over your house anymore either
[2:20:25 PM] Me: Wtf/
[2:21:19 PM] Me: Why.
[2:21:33 PM] Her: because your a guy

Her dad doesn't even care that I am gay.

Dudes, I just don't even know anymore...

i know what thats like. it will work itself out. i had something similar happenl but my freinds mum yelled at me the whole street heard it. i dont know what to say but from personal experience i know its tough having that happen. hopefully you can find a way around the situation. best of luck

You can't hang during the day or without her folks knowing?

Does her dad let other guys spend the night with her or let her spend the night at other guys' houses?  Probably not.  It seems as if he's viewing you as a male and treating you like one.  Sucks that she's your closest friend, but that's generally how the "rules" are for teenagers.

I'm gay.
I like guys.
Don't like girls.
no issue.

Quote from: Adio on September 11, 2011, 08:43:23 PM
Does her dad let other guys spend the night with her or let her spend the night at other guys' houses?  Probably not.  It seems as if he's viewing you as a male and treating you like one.  Sucks that she's your closest friend, but that's generally how the "rules" are for teenagers.

Without more information, I don't think I would argue that the father is treating him like a regular guy. Sleeping over is one thing, but she's not even allowed to go over to his house to socialize? My parents were super conservative, but I could have a boy visit me at home as long as we didn't go into my room and close the door. Unless this father prohibits his daughter from visiting ALL boys (which is quite possible, but we don't know), he's treating Vince differently from all the others.

Quote from: Arch on September 11, 2011, 09:06:04 PM
Without more information, I don't think I would argue that the father is treating him like a regular guy. Sleeping over is one thing, but she's not even allowed to go over to his house to socialize? My parents were super conservative, but I could have a boy visit me at home as long as we didn't go into my room and close the door. Unless this father prohibits his daughter from visiting ALL boys (which is quite possible, but we don't know), he's treating Vince differently from all the others.

My parents would not let me socialize with boys AT ALL growing up, so it is possible.

Quote from: Arch on September 11, 2011, 09:06:04 PM
Without more information, I don't think I would argue that the father is treating him like a regular guy. Sleeping over is one thing, but she's not even allowed to go over to his house to socialize? My parents were super conservative, but I could have a boy visit me at home as long as we didn't go into my room and close the door. Unless this father prohibits his daughter from visiting ALL boys (which is quite possible, but we don't know), he's treating Vince differently from all the others.

He lets her socialize with other dudes, anywhere, as long as it doesn't turn sexual.
Nother thing, her dad is kinda homophobe-ish...so it might have to do with that.
Iunno.

Quote from: Vince1995 on September 11, 2011, 09:43:58 PM
He lets her socialize with other dudes, anywhere, as long as it doesn't turn sexual.
Nother thing, her dad is kinda homophobe-ish...so it might have to do with that.
Iunno.

Would her dad let her socialize with gay guys?  Would he let her spend the night at a gay guy's house? 
I know the fact that he's gay makes it a non-issue. but sometimes parents still don't like the idea of "boy and girl" together, even though there should be no issue.

Hmph.

I think Imma demolish this topic. :D