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So I finally got my packer today and I posted something like this before and one guy told me that the penis is where the clitoris is but when I do that it feels weird so is that really where it is or is it up higher?

Put it where it feels comfortable for you.

it's gonna feel a little weird for a while until you get used to having something 'extra' down there

Okay. My gay friends is where the hips start and he's a bio guy so I'm going to guess that's where it is unless he has a problem down there.

Quote from: Andy8715 on September 12, 2011, 09:17:05 PM
Put it where it feels comfortable for you.

I want it to where it looks natural.

Have you tried looking at a photo or drawing? I think your friend ment pubic bone.

Oh god now it looks like I either have a really big d*** or I have an erection. It won't bother me if strangers look at me but I go to night school and they search us so they will see it and they know good and well that I wasn't born with a penis. People are so right about the extra small Mr. Limpy. Does anyone have any advice on how to make it look like I don't have an almost huge bulge.

i always try to put it so the top edge of my packer where my frontal crack starts, if you get what i meen.

Yeah, I get what you mean. Packing is harder than I thought it would be :(

I wear it a bit more down maybe than where you tried it, and you really have to get used to it, 'cause everything looks and feels big in the start. But the middle of the shaft sprouting from the clit, maybe a little bit higher but not too much. And then dress the shaft left or right of the balls, I feel it makes for a nice subtle bulge like that. No boner looking thing and not uncomfortable. I'm not a big guy, works for me.

Okay. I'm just really scared. I don't want the people at school to point it out and humiliate me. What's worse is that the girl I likes aunt works at my school and if someone points it out then it will be all over her family. 

Do what feels right for you.  You can also check out underwear ads to help you with placement.  Don't over worry too much about. 

Quote from: Caseyy on September 13, 2011, 02:24:53 PM
Check out this picture, which is NSFW. This seems to illustrate it pretty clearly to me.

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/02/Penis_flaccid_penis_erected.jpg (http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/02/Penis_flaccid_penis_erected.jpg)

very very not safe for work.

if people are looking at your crotch theyre the weirdo i just try to keep that in mind when in feel nervous when i first started packing at school.

Okay. And the picture helped a lot. My friend was going to literally put it where it's supposed to go but he decided to wait a few more days. Lol.

Quote from: Caseyy on September 13, 2011, 02:24:53 PM
Check out this picture, which is NSFW. This seems to illustrate it pretty clearly to me.

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/02/Penis_flaccid_penis_erected.jpg (http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/02/Penis_flaccid_penis_erected.jpg)

Hello new wallpaper!   :D

Oh I'm joking ... (or am I)

Packers do take some getting use to and quite often I swear people are staring at my crotch.  When wearing jeans it's usually fine but when wearing trousers it tends to be more noticeable.  Good thing is, younger men tend to get erections all day long.  So even if someone does see a bigger than expect bulge, they usually don't focus on it. 

First time I wore a packer in public it was Mr. Right.  http://www.vixencreations.com/mrright.php (http://www.vixencreations.com/mrright.php)  It should have been named Mr. Wrong because it's flipping huge and the harness it uses doesn't do jack to keep it in place.  The thing ended up basically around my waist after a few hours of wearing it.  Fortunately I was at a trans support group, so it wasn't as bad as it could have been.  Still ... really embarrassing. 

Lol. I have an extra small Mr. Limpy and I think my friend has flattened it a little so it's not sticking out but the thing is I hate wearing briefs to hold it in place. I tried the harness shoelace thing but I was worried about not being able to pee while having it on.