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Title: Hi everyone
Post by: towee on September 16, 2011, 05:25:05 PM
Post by: towee on September 16, 2011, 05:25:05 PM
I'm new to the site (hence the introduction). I recently found that my husband is attracted to and actively seeing some transgender partners. This seems like a good place to come to terms with it, an learn a little more about it.
Title: Re: Hi everyone
Post by: Jen61 on September 16, 2011, 05:53:01 PM
Post by: Jen61 on September 16, 2011, 05:53:01 PM
If by "seeing" you mean having a sexual realtionship, then my advice is to document it, and then file for divorce on the basis of adultery.
However, if what you meanby "seeing" is just firenship, well, then it is Okj as long as you are included if you so choose.
Did he diclose his ->-bleeped-<- before you got marriage? or this is a recent development?
Jen61
However, if what you meanby "seeing" is just firenship, well, then it is Okj as long as you are included if you so choose.
Did he diclose his ->-bleeped-<- before you got marriage? or this is a recent development?
Jen61
Title: Re: Hi everyone
Post by: Princess of Hearts on September 16, 2011, 07:08:24 PM
Post by: Princess of Hearts on September 16, 2011, 07:08:24 PM
The Spanish say that there are two things you must never advise anyone to do.
(1) Go to war.
(2) Get married.
I would like to add a third: (3) Get divorced.
(1) Go to war.
(2) Get married.
I would like to add a third: (3) Get divorced.
Title: Re: Hi everyone
Post by: Devlyn on September 17, 2011, 08:00:45 AM
Post by: Devlyn on September 17, 2011, 08:00:45 AM
Hi Towee, welcome to Susans! I'm sorry you're having troubles. I can't offer marriage advice, but I know others here will help you out. Best wishes, hugs, Tracey
Title: Re: Hi everyone
Post by: gennee on September 17, 2011, 11:30:56 AM
Post by: gennee on September 17, 2011, 11:30:56 AM
Welcome to the site, Towee.
Title: Re: Hi everyone
Post by: Padma on September 17, 2011, 11:35:05 AM
Post by: Padma on September 17, 2011, 11:35:05 AM
Hi, Towee - when it comes to relationships, as my friend from Yorkshire would say, "Take my advice: don't take my advice!" So I won't offer advice, I'll ask instead: how do you feel at the moment about what your husband is doing?
Meanwhile, welcome to Susan's! We're a diverse and friendly bunch here (the head count is over 8000) - get into things as slowly or as quickly as you feel comfortable, I'm sure you'll find plenty of support here.
And be sure to check out these links for the bobby on the house rules:
Meanwhile, welcome to Susan's! We're a diverse and friendly bunch here (the head count is over 8000) - get into things as slowly or as quickly as you feel comfortable, I'm sure you'll find plenty of support here.
And be sure to check out these links for the bobby on the house rules:
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
- Standard Terms and Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
- Post Ranks ( including when you can upload an avatar/post links and photos) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
- Age and the Forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,62197.msg405545.html#msg405545)
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