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girls :) pls help me find a doctor  in South Africa who does Adams apple shaves i am not the best at finding surgeons maybe you can help :) will be much appreciated :)

Google is your best friend. Try searching "south africa tracheal shave". ;)

Quote from: JenJen2011 on October 06, 2011, 03:11:05 PM
Google is your best friend. Try searching "south africa tracheal shave". ;)

i have many times

I can't find any. You'll have to contact all plastic surgeons you can find and ask.

I really hate when people respond to people asking for help, "google is your friend" or some variation of that. It's so condescending and snarky, not to mention absolutely useless.  I guess I'm trying to understand why someone would respond in this fashion, and instead just not respond at all.  Someone's asking for help.  Tell them of your personal experiences or knowledge.  EVERYONE knows about google.  If you feel like giving this answer, stop, think, and just don't answer, or at least be original about it.  I expect this sort of response on the nasty craigslist forums, not here.

As my ex used to say, "If you're not going to help, get the ->-bleeped-<- out of the way!"

Quote from: sonopoly on October 06, 2011, 07:50:05 PM
I really hate when people respond to people asking for help, "google is your friend" or some variation of that. It's so condescending and snarky, not to mention absolutely useless.  I guess I'm trying to understand why someone would respond in this fashion, and instead just not respond at all.  Someone's asking for help.  Tell them of your personal experiences or knowledge.  EVERYONE knows about google.  If you feel like giving this answer, stop, think, and just don't answer, or at least be original about it.  I expect this sort of response on the nasty craigslist forums, not here.

I'll do it when I can find what the person is looking for by doing a simple search and the result I'm looking for is one the first page..

I don't think this is the case here, though.

Quote from: sonopoly on October 06, 2011, 07:50:05 PM
I really hate when people respond to people asking for help, "google is your friend" or some variation of that. It's so condescending and snarky, not to mention absolutely useless.  I guess I'm trying to understand why someone would respond in this fashion, and instead just not respond at all.  Someone's asking for help.  Tell them of your personal experiences or knowledge.  EVERYONE knows about google.  If you feel like giving this answer, stop, think, and just don't answer, or at least be original about it.  I expect this sort of response on the nasty craigslist forums, not here.
As my ex used to say, "If you're not going to help, get the ->-bleeped-<- out of the way!"

actually, your post was more condescending and snarky than JenJen's was. You disrupted the flow of info and you assumed the worst in her post. I read it entirely differently.

JenJen wasn't trying to be condescending at all. Do you know how many times I asked someone "did you Google it?" And they responded "oh, actually I didn't." It is not a bad thing for the person asking or the person receiving by that question.

Try not to assume the worse in someone just because of a forum post.

Zoe,

This is what I found for you (on google):

Dr. Lance P Maron
practices larynogology, voice box, and tracheal surgeries
in Johannesburg, South Africa.


Good luck on your search.

Quote from: sonopoly on October 06, 2011, 07:50:05 PM"If you're not going to help, get the ->-bleeped-<- out of the way!"

And your response to the OP's question was relevant how? I think you need to take your own advice.

The OP's question was simple. Help find her a doctor that performs tracheal shaves in South Africa. I did a quick search with "south africa tracheal shave" and on the first page, there were multiple doctors listed.

You can't expect people to hand feed you all the way through your transition. Google is a very useful tool which has the answers to most, if not all, of your questions. The answer could be a couple clips away but some people are too lazy to search.

Btw, thanks Annah for taking my post the way it was intended to be taken.

JenJen sorry but your first post was just needed sorry and thanks Annah your amazing mwa!

I'm sorry, JenJen, obviously I was wrong and overreacted and misread your intentions.  I'm not going to delete my post because I want to account for it.  Anyway, I hope there are no hard feelings.

My intentions are good, and wish the best for all of you.

So, you all don't forgive me?

Quote from: sonopoly on October 14, 2011, 07:30:30 PM
So, you all don't forgive me?

Of course we forgive you.
It's just that LilKittyCatZoey has left the forums.
:(

Quote from: LilKittyCatZoey on October 07, 2011, 12:13:36 PM
JenJen sorry but your first post was just needed sorry and thanks Annah your amazing mwa!

notice that zoey agreed with you  i mean she did mean unneeded not needed

Aww, thank you, Renate!  I think I had a few too many that night.  Sorry, Jen-Jen, I misunderstood you.  I've always wanted to tell you how beautiful you are.

Quote from: LilKittyCatZoey on October 06, 2011, 02:51:24 PM
girls :) pls help me find a doctor  in South Africa who does Adams apple shaves i am not the best at finding surgeons maybe you can help :) will be much appreciated :)

you're transitioning in africa? I always thought transsexualism was a death sentence there.

Lol not in South Africa, Scarlet.

Quote from: ~RoadToTrista~ on October 15, 2011, 08:50:11 PM
Lol not in South Africa, Scarlet.

i know

Quote from: xxScarlettxx on October 15, 2011, 07:52:41 PM
you're transitioning in africa? I always thought transsexualism was a death sentence there.

lol because your so young i will forgive that comment sweetie but understand this south Africa has everything a 1st world country has and just more poverty that to apartheid which is not pronounced -a part tide- btw its -a part tay t- lol :) i sure how don't also believe we have lions in our gardens XD i can't over the fact that every time someone from south Africa goes over seas that they are asked 'Do you have lions as pets' 'LOL' :) SCARLET joeburg is a world class city :) so yes i need ppl to help me find doctors because honestly sorry Annah turns out the guy you found only does womyn he doesn't do it on guys

Quote from: LilDevilOfPrada on October 16, 2011, 01:19:06 AM

lol because your so young i will forgive that comment sweetie but understand this south Africa has everything a 1st world country has and just more poverty that to apartheid which is not pronounced -a part tide- btw its -a part tay t- lol :) i sure how don't also believe we have lions in our gardens XD i can't over the fact that every time someone from south Africa goes over seas that they are asked 'Do you have lions as pets' 'LOL' :) SCARLET joeburg is a world class city :) so yes i need ppl to help me find doctors because honestly sorry Annah turns out the guy you found only does womyn he doesn't do it on guys

lol Sorry

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