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Title: Finally met someone at the bar i can relate to.
Post by: jainie marlena on October 22, 2011, 02:11:31 PM
I went to the same bar i usually go to this time I saw someone that I wanted to talk to but did not know how to approach her. I waited until she went up to the bar area looked over at her and said, hi. she walked over to me and introduced herself to me. I told her who I was and she said that it was nice to meet me andwhen back to her table and sat down.

It took me a minute to think of a reason to walk over there. I tried to write something on paper but it was unreadable from drinking to much. lol. so I gave up on that and said, f**k it and walked over to her pulled out chair and set down beside her. She looked at me like she was not expecting me to come over. Anyway we talked about the various things that we have been going through. It was a good hour long conversation until the bar closed.

we exchange information so we could keep in contact with each other. All this time going there and finally made a friend that understands all this and it was great.
Title: Re: Finally met someone at the bar i can relate to.
Post by: Amazon D on October 22, 2011, 02:33:34 PM
Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaa  thats so great...  i hope all else is going good too :)
Title: Re: Finally met someone at the bar i can relate to.
Post by: jainie marlena on October 22, 2011, 04:54:32 PM
yes everything else is going great, and thinks.
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Post by: Jen-Jen on October 23, 2011, 03:36:43 AM
Its always nice to make a friend especially one who you can relate with and understands. Happy for you!
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Post by: Cindy on October 23, 2011, 03:40:06 AM
Excellent, well done.
First time is the worst

Hugs

cindy
Title: Re: Finally met someone at the bar i can relate to.
Post by: jainie marlena on October 28, 2011, 12:58:27 AM
@cindy james, I added her to my facebook. She took a picture of us together at the bar. She is suppost to let me know when she is coming back to town so we can hang out together. She has been looking for a support group online.yes,told her about susan's place.
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Post by: JenJen2011 on October 28, 2011, 08:32:06 AM
That's cool. Did the alcohol help you come up with the courage needed to approach her? I suspect, yes. ;)
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Post by: jainie marlena on October 29, 2011, 05:42:47 AM
Lol. Yes it did. I usually just sit and think of what to do and do nothing.