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Title: secret consultations
Post by: LilDevilOfPrada on October 25, 2011, 10:01:32 AM
girls :) i need a few tips :) my mom claims to ppl i am very supportive and etc but in reality i bring up i like a dress and she gets very angry and verbally abusive. now i have secretly been talking to my endo and he agrees that we should up my dose so we are but first my mom has to give legal permission :(  anyone got an idea how i can make her agree ?
Title: Re: secret consultations
Post by: A on October 25, 2011, 03:28:38 PM
Explain to her that you're in the boat now; there's no going back. There is no logical reason to keep you from increasing the dose. It will only "prolong the agony" before the boy is dead and the girl is healthy.
Title: Re: secret consultations
Post by: BrokenCode on October 25, 2011, 09:56:11 PM
Hey, I would just talk it out with her. My mom does the same thing; she says she supports me, but she doesn't agree with it. lol. The trick is to do small changes in front of her and not all at once. If you do dress up in front of her, it's a big change and she needs some time to adjust to that.  Again talk it out, try not to get too emotional about it. If you feel that she is starting to get heated up, calm her down a little bit before you continue.  If she still doesn't understand the point of the medication, explain its a dysphoria and your transitioning to treat this. That you need to increase because your levels are low and the effects (and affects lol.) aren't going to work 100%.

I wish you luck.