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i am very angry. i hate my genitals as they dont belong. but they are also really abnormal firstly i have a really small dick, i have really large labia, and i have fordyce spots. which is annoying because people will think that i have an STD but i dont and i cant get rid of them. i just needed to vent.

On a previous thread you said you were gonna get a prosthetic. So maybe just get a harness and wear boxers while having sex and it won't be such an issue. I'm really sorry that you feel this way. I know there's pretty much nothing anyone can say right now to fix things but hopefully things do get better. Try not to focus so much on your bottom half. I know for a fact, a penis does not make a man. It's what's inside as corny as that sounds. Embrace that and try to ignore what you might consider an imperfection.

This really sucks. I mean, I think trans men have it so rough in this department. I applaud your courage, if the MTF SRS was as primitive as the FTM variety, I doubt that I would be able to transition.

Bouncing off of Nick, a penis does not in fact make a man. Honestly I would imagine your dick is many times more senate than mine is, I can literally slap mine against brick walls and not feel a thing.

Like all the women say, it's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean  ;). Personally, I've been with a man before who had a micropenis- I can honestly say that he was the best lover I've ever had.

If it makes you feel any better, If science were to invent a genital switching machine- I'd be the first in line to donate my little guy to a deserving home

I hate my junk too. I got really large ones as well. They are so big I've actually injured them a few times. The last time was really bad I probably should of gotten stitches, but that seemed like it would suck a lot.  At first the school nurse thought it was a prank then she seemed traumatized. When she called home to have my parents come get me she didn't know what to say so I grabbed the phone and said "You have to come get me because I hurt my junk!" LOL. Luckily it was the last day before spring break so I didn't have to walk for about a week. I Googled fordyce spots, forgot I had those. No one has ever said anything to me about it. 

Quote from: Guantanamera on November 08, 2011, 07:28:58 PM
This really sucks. I mean, I think trans men have it so rough in this department. I applaud your courage, if the MTF SRS was as primitive as the FTM variety, I doubt that I would be able to transition.

Bouncing off of Nick, a penis does not in fact make a man. Honestly I would imagine your dick is many times more senate than mine is, I can literally slap mine against brick walls and not feel a thing.

Like all the women say, it's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean  ;). Personally, I've been with a man before who had a micropenis- I can honestly say that he was the best lover I've ever had.

this entire post made me feel better, especially the end part.  thanks :)

but yeah, you just have to try and come to terms with it, everyone has moments like you are having.  I had a bad once pre T when I took a bath and looked down. I would try to distract yourself, go do something, watch a horror movie.

Yea, it sucks for all of us trans people. Comparatively speaking, Cis gendered folks get to drive a Beamer to our '73 Pinto.

Even worst is when they feel entitled to complain about their junk in front of you '.... but my penis is only 5 inches.' or 'I hate having periods so much!'
I'm sure that anyone on this forum would trade their right arm and their mother's left in order to be cis-gendered.