Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Ayden on November 20, 2011, 02:15:30 AM Return to Full Version
Title: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Ayden on November 20, 2011, 02:15:30 AM
Post by: Ayden on November 20, 2011, 02:15:30 AM
Hey gals,
I just wanted to share something with you. I'm FtM, but I think this may be nice for you all to to read. I worked in a pharmacy a few years ago, and we had a MTF patient. Fast forward to 4 years in the future. On my way to class I ran into the same patient at my pharmacy. At first, I did not know for sure if that was her, but I took a chance and walked up to her to check. Come to find out, it was my old patient. She looked so wonderful.
We talked for a while, and I learned that she had gotten married to a nice man, got a job offer, and was even looking into adopting kids. While I was talking to her, I was struck by how beautiful and happy she was. She was a far cry from the person I had met four years ago. If I had never met her before, I would have never guessed that she was a trans lady. We talked for a while, and during this time, and she gave me hope for the future. She told me her story and gave me a hug and a kiss at the end.
I guess, my whole point of this was that to all the ladies who are going through rough times now, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't be afraid of who you are. Don't worry about who will love you. You are lovely, beautiful women, and you will find happiness one day.
I just wanted to share something with you. I'm FtM, but I think this may be nice for you all to to read. I worked in a pharmacy a few years ago, and we had a MTF patient. Fast forward to 4 years in the future. On my way to class I ran into the same patient at my pharmacy. At first, I did not know for sure if that was her, but I took a chance and walked up to her to check. Come to find out, it was my old patient. She looked so wonderful.
We talked for a while, and I learned that she had gotten married to a nice man, got a job offer, and was even looking into adopting kids. While I was talking to her, I was struck by how beautiful and happy she was. She was a far cry from the person I had met four years ago. If I had never met her before, I would have never guessed that she was a trans lady. We talked for a while, and during this time, and she gave me hope for the future. She told me her story and gave me a hug and a kiss at the end.
I guess, my whole point of this was that to all the ladies who are going through rough times now, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't be afraid of who you are. Don't worry about who will love you. You are lovely, beautiful women, and you will find happiness one day.
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Cindy on November 20, 2011, 02:30:21 AM
Post by: Cindy on November 20, 2011, 02:30:21 AM
:icon_bunch: :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch:
Thanks honey.
Cindy
Thanks honey.
Cindy
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Ayden on November 20, 2011, 02:38:37 AM
Post by: Ayden on November 20, 2011, 02:38:37 AM
Hey, no worries!
I want to tell so much of her story. She is such a wonderful human in so many ways. I have been so worried about everything in regards to my transition, but she gave me so much hope. I hope that one day I can be half the man that she is as a woman. I hope that makes sense.
I want to tell so much of her story. She is such a wonderful human in so many ways. I have been so worried about everything in regards to my transition, but she gave me so much hope. I hope that one day I can be half the man that she is as a woman. I hope that makes sense.
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Ayden on November 20, 2011, 02:47:16 AM
Post by: Ayden on November 20, 2011, 02:47:16 AM
On a total side note: Cindy, I love your dress in your avatar! And your legs are absolutely beautiful. <3
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Cindy on November 20, 2011, 02:49:28 AM
Post by: Cindy on November 20, 2011, 02:49:28 AM
There was a quote from Carletta who founded the Les Girls male female drag troupe in Sydney. " I'm more of a woman that you will ever have, and more of a man that you will ever be.' It still rings true from both sides.
I have met several FtM in Adelaide they have been great, fortunately T works well on them. I hope it works very well on you.
You sound a very nice man and I send you my love and my thanks.
Cindy
I have met several FtM in Adelaide they have been great, fortunately T works well on them. I hope it works very well on you.
You sound a very nice man and I send you my love and my thanks.
Cindy
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Cindy on November 20, 2011, 02:52:16 AM
Post by: Cindy on November 20, 2011, 02:52:16 AM
Guys looking at my legs :embarrassed: :embarrassed: :embarrassed: :embarrassed:
Cindy
Cindy
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Mahsa Tezani on November 20, 2011, 02:52:40 AM
Post by: Mahsa Tezani on November 20, 2011, 02:52:40 AM
Transition is an evolution. My early attempt at it were barfable and laughable.
Now I am the mayor's wife of Bonerville to some LOL
Now I am the mayor's wife of Bonerville to some LOL
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: V M on November 20, 2011, 04:14:52 AM
Post by: V M on November 20, 2011, 04:14:52 AM
Thank you Ayden :)
Hugs
- Virginia
Hugs
- Virginia
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Catherine Sarah on November 20, 2011, 04:25:04 AM
Post by: Catherine Sarah on November 20, 2011, 04:25:04 AM
An enormously BIG Thank you Ayden.
That is just such an inspiring experience. Just goes to prove; you don't have to see it, to have it.
You can create your future. It further proves such goals are not impossible or unrealistic, but well within our scope of understanding and DESIRE.
Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
Ayden; I wish you such success in your quest for your desires. And again, a heartfelt thanks for relating this meeting.
Be safe, well and happy
Lotsa luv
Catherine
That is just such an inspiring experience. Just goes to prove; you don't have to see it, to have it.
You can create your future. It further proves such goals are not impossible or unrealistic, but well within our scope of understanding and DESIRE.
Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
Ayden; I wish you such success in your quest for your desires. And again, a heartfelt thanks for relating this meeting.
Be safe, well and happy
Lotsa luv
Catherine
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Torn1990 on November 20, 2011, 01:10:51 PM
Post by: Torn1990 on November 20, 2011, 01:10:51 PM
Thank you so much for passing this story along!
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: PinkCloud on December 06, 2014, 09:01:56 PM
Post by: PinkCloud on December 06, 2014, 09:01:56 PM
Thank you. After 5 years, I can tell that it takes time.
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Beth Andrea on December 06, 2014, 09:11:49 PM
Post by: Beth Andrea on December 06, 2014, 09:11:49 PM
OMG! This is a 2011 thread!
It was still a good read though.
It was still a good read though.
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: April_TO on December 06, 2014, 09:41:17 PM
Post by: April_TO on December 06, 2014, 09:41:17 PM
Amazing story even if its almost 5 years ago :)
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Jo-is-amazing on December 06, 2014, 09:44:07 PM
Post by: Jo-is-amazing on December 06, 2014, 09:44:07 PM
Great story
Thank you so much for sharing :)
Thank you so much for sharing :)
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Newgirl Dani on December 06, 2014, 10:05:33 PM
Post by: Newgirl Dani on December 06, 2014, 10:05:33 PM
Very Nice, I hope you come back and see this, I'm sure your light shines bright.
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: anjaq on December 07, 2014, 05:39:27 AM
Post by: anjaq on December 07, 2014, 05:39:27 AM
Now who here was in 2011 still thinking it will not work out and now is in the same position as the lady in the story? :)
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: lindagrl on December 07, 2014, 05:54:57 AM
Post by: lindagrl on December 07, 2014, 05:54:57 AM
Inspiring story. i liked this reply also. "Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending."
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: katrinaw on December 07, 2014, 07:10:08 AM
Post by: katrinaw on December 07, 2014, 07:10:08 AM
Still, very encouraging, this is how I dream of my not to distant future...
L Katy
L Katy
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Alysinspace on December 08, 2014, 03:26:30 PM
Post by: Alysinspace on December 08, 2014, 03:26:30 PM
This story means so much to me
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much!
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: suzifrommd on December 09, 2014, 07:57:12 AM
Post by: suzifrommd on December 09, 2014, 07:57:12 AM
Quote from: Ayden on November 20, 2011, 02:15:30 AM
I guess, my whole point of this was that to all the ladies who are going through rough times now, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Don't be afraid of who you are. Don't worry about who will love you. You are lovely, beautiful women, and you will find happiness one day.
Thank you. I am going through a rough time now - realizing how small is the pool of people who might be romantically interested in me. Nice to hear things are going much better elsewhere.
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Rachel on December 09, 2014, 05:36:55 PM
Post by: Rachel on December 09, 2014, 05:36:55 PM
Thank you.
3.5 years to go :)
3.5 years to go :)
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: Ayden on December 10, 2014, 01:00:35 AM
Post by: Ayden on December 10, 2014, 01:00:35 AM
Wow! :D
To update this story, she officially adopted her second child about three months ago. Her and her husband have a boy and girl, and oh my goodness those two kids are insanely adorable. They really are a beautiful family.
I'm glad this made so many of my lovely sisters happy. You all are awesome! Don't forget that!
To update this story, she officially adopted her second child about three months ago. Her and her husband have a boy and girl, and oh my goodness those two kids are insanely adorable. They really are a beautiful family.
I'm glad this made so many of my lovely sisters happy. You all are awesome! Don't forget that!
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: V M on December 10, 2014, 01:25:25 AM
Post by: V M on December 10, 2014, 01:25:25 AM
That's awesome Ayden 8)
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: anjaq on December 15, 2014, 11:16:53 AM
Post by: anjaq on December 15, 2014, 11:16:53 AM
Wow - thats lovely. I am happy for everyone who makes it that way - marriage and kids. Pretty cool. I never thought I would say that when I was younger ;)
Title: Re: A bit of encouragement to all the ladies...
Post by: AnnaCannibal on December 15, 2014, 12:59:32 PM
Post by: AnnaCannibal on December 15, 2014, 12:59:32 PM
Amazing story! Worth the necro post! XD