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Title: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: MsDazzler on November 24, 2011, 01:06:25 PM
Post by: MsDazzler on November 24, 2011, 01:06:25 PM
Happy Thanksgiving!!! :icon_boogy:
Since it is a holiday today and flowers are everywhere on the dining tables in the households all over America....
It has made me yearn for a man to send me flowers as a romantic gesture - since the last time it happened was... NEVER! :-\
I confess that am a romantic sucker!
Since it is a holiday today and flowers are everywhere on the dining tables in the households all over America....
It has made me yearn for a man to send me flowers as a romantic gesture - since the last time it happened was... NEVER! :-\
I confess that am a romantic sucker!
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: Lily on November 24, 2011, 04:27:55 PM
Post by: Lily on November 24, 2011, 04:27:55 PM
I've never been the recipient of a gift like that before, I've just always been the one to give.
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: Sunnynight on November 24, 2011, 05:14:14 PM
Post by: Sunnynight on November 24, 2011, 05:14:14 PM
Is this like the new way of checking if you pass? Lol, that would be so difficult. "OMG a man hasn't sent me flowers yet. I wish I could pass."
Anyway, my wife gives me flowers and I love her for it. I hope everyone can find people that bring them as much joy in their lives.
Anyway, my wife gives me flowers and I love her for it. I hope everyone can find people that bring them as much joy in their lives.
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: Princess of Hearts on November 24, 2011, 06:01:05 PM
Post by: Princess of Hearts on November 24, 2011, 06:01:05 PM
I would love a man to send me flowers and I am not attracted to men. :)
I wouldn't mind being a man's girlfriend, and in certain circumstances I could even perform those things that most women do to a male lover. I could with the right guy give and receive, if you get my meaning. However, it wouldn't be fair on him as I would only be going out with him for the satisfaction of being seen and treated as a woman by a man.
As sex only plays a smallish part in relationships you have to find someone that you not only can talk to but you actually feel a need to reveal your inner most self. I have no interested in knowing a man like this. I want to be intimate and loving with another woman.
I wouldn't mind being a man's girlfriend, and in certain circumstances I could even perform those things that most women do to a male lover. I could with the right guy give and receive, if you get my meaning. However, it wouldn't be fair on him as I would only be going out with him for the satisfaction of being seen and treated as a woman by a man.
As sex only plays a smallish part in relationships you have to find someone that you not only can talk to but you actually feel a need to reveal your inner most self. I have no interested in knowing a man like this. I want to be intimate and loving with another woman.
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: MsDazzler on November 24, 2011, 06:02:11 PM
Post by: MsDazzler on November 24, 2011, 06:02:11 PM
That is why I hate Valentines whenever it rolls around... Nobody sends me flowers. :icon_bunch: lol
To add insult to injury, my birthday is a week right before Valentines, so if no flowers on my birthday :icon_birthday: followed up by Valentines, I :icon_cry2: !
An interesting factoid about myself:
I've had relationships or DATES during every month of the year in my life history - BUT NEVER during my birthday or Valentines month, which happens to be February! The closest I ever came to was that I had a boyfriend through past the holidays until mid-January, then he dumped me. :icon_blah:
So it is always a double-punch :icon_boxing: whenever February lolls around and I m single on my birthday leading into being single on Valentines again, heh
To add insult to injury, my birthday is a week right before Valentines, so if no flowers on my birthday :icon_birthday: followed up by Valentines, I :icon_cry2: !
An interesting factoid about myself:
I've had relationships or DATES during every month of the year in my life history - BUT NEVER during my birthday or Valentines month, which happens to be February! The closest I ever came to was that I had a boyfriend through past the holidays until mid-January, then he dumped me. :icon_blah:
So it is always a double-punch :icon_boxing: whenever February lolls around and I m single on my birthday leading into being single on Valentines again, heh
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: stldrmgrl on November 24, 2011, 06:05:55 PM
Post by: stldrmgrl on November 24, 2011, 06:05:55 PM
QuoteHas a man sent you flowers yet?
No :(
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: EmmaM on November 25, 2011, 12:27:07 AM
Post by: EmmaM on November 25, 2011, 12:27:07 AM
I've been called madamoiselle by a complete stranger, and I think that counts.
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: Meshi on November 25, 2011, 12:30:22 AM
Post by: Meshi on November 25, 2011, 12:30:22 AM
Ive received flowers on a date, but not sent to me, cause i dont tell anyone where I live unless i know them well. Right now..i havent had any in awhile,. as im not seeing anyone.:(
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: annette on November 25, 2011, 01:47:31 AM
Post by: annette on November 25, 2011, 01:47:31 AM
That's a while ago, but yes, that happend several times.
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: Keaira on November 25, 2011, 04:53:47 AM
Post by: Keaira on November 25, 2011, 04:53:47 AM
Nope, never happened to me. If it did, I know a few guy's who would have sent them and I'd probably never hear the end of it at home. lol
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: V M on November 25, 2011, 05:23:38 AM
Post by: V M on November 25, 2011, 05:23:38 AM
Yes actually, but it was years ago before I decided to knew about transition... I feel bad because I thought it was a joke, I didn't understand that he could be in love with me and saw me as his girlfriend :-\ Even worse, I was in love with him as well but didn't know how and was afraid to express it
The main deterrent was that he had a tendency to be disrespectful and violent... He eventually got deported back to Europe for getting in fights, particularly with the police
The main deterrent was that he had a tendency to be disrespectful and violent... He eventually got deported back to Europe for getting in fights, particularly with the police
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: Keaira on November 25, 2011, 05:56:16 AM
Post by: Keaira on November 25, 2011, 05:56:16 AM
BUT, I have had a man send me some lingerie and jewellery. The lingerie was a silky red gown and robe. It was very pretty. And the jewelery is a small pewter-looking box of a teddy bear holding a heart. Inside the box is a matching necklace. The two smaller bears on the lid are actually matching earrings and the lid itself is a pin. The lingerie was pre-HRT the jewellery was at 6 months HRT. And I had tears in my eyes when I saw it.
He said he got it in an antique store and I've been trying to find out about where it came from but there is nothing I can find on it
He said he got it in an antique store and I've been trying to find out about where it came from but there is nothing I can find on it
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: eli77 on November 25, 2011, 08:52:09 AM
Post by: eli77 on November 25, 2011, 08:52:09 AM
Man? No. My ex used to get me flowers fairly regularly though.
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: shortNsweet on November 25, 2011, 10:10:53 AM
Post by: shortNsweet on November 25, 2011, 10:10:53 AM
Not from a man. But my girlfriend gets me flowers on occasion. It's really sweet and I usually end up with a few tears.
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: Lynn on November 25, 2011, 11:43:19 AM
Post by: Lynn on November 25, 2011, 11:43:19 AM
I've never received any flowers period, which makes me a bit sad.
But I know that someday someone special will give me flowers and then I'll be happy and give a massive hug without letting go for a few hours. Yup, that's what I'll do then.
But I know that someday someone special will give me flowers and then I'll be happy and give a massive hug without letting go for a few hours. Yup, that's what I'll do then.
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: mowdan6 on November 25, 2011, 01:08:29 PM
Post by: mowdan6 on November 25, 2011, 01:08:29 PM
Hope you don't mind my writing. I had a relationshipe with a transwoman that I was hoping would turn into something serious. I was the first man to send her a dozen roses. And, that's the man I am. I love doing that. You want a man that will send you flowers....why not look to a transman?
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: Mahsa Tezani on November 25, 2011, 01:45:47 PM
Post by: Mahsa Tezani on November 25, 2011, 01:45:47 PM
Often.
Title: Re: Has a man sent you flowers yet?
Post by: MsDazzler on November 25, 2011, 03:27:30 PM
Post by: MsDazzler on November 25, 2011, 03:27:30 PM
Quote from: mowdan6 on November 25, 2011, 01:08:29 PM
Hope you don't mind my writing. I had a relationshipe with a transwoman that I was hoping would turn into something serious. I was the first man to send her a dozen roses. And, that's the man I am. I love doing that. You want a man that will send you flowers....why not look to a transman?
Nothing wrong with receiving flowers from a transman, either :icon_flower: :icon_flower: :icon_flower: