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Title: Post-Op
Post by: LanaJohn on November 27, 2011, 11:45:52 PM
Post by: LanaJohn on November 27, 2011, 11:45:52 PM
Right now I am a no-op because of family issues but I had a question for post-ops. I was wondering if once everything heals, if we can auto-lubricate in excitation or state of arousal or if it a sacrifice we make and have to do it ourselves? Just curious.
Title: Re: Post-Op
Post by: Melody Maia on November 28, 2011, 12:03:10 AM
Post by: Melody Maia on November 28, 2011, 12:03:10 AM
I'm not post-op yet (very soon!), but my roommate and others have told me that they do lubricate. Like ciswomen, some more than others.
Title: Re: Post-Op
Post by: Thriss on November 28, 2011, 03:09:41 PM
Post by: Thriss on November 28, 2011, 03:09:41 PM
It seems to vary a bit. Some get more, some get less.
I got less... I can self lube to some extent but I usually need to use additional lube to really enjoy sex. I found some things that helps, like using products meant for women post-menopause.
I got less... I can self lube to some extent but I usually need to use additional lube to really enjoy sex. I found some things that helps, like using products meant for women post-menopause.
Title: Re: Post-Op
Post by: annette on November 28, 2011, 06:01:17 PM
Post by: annette on November 28, 2011, 06:01:17 PM
Hi, I'm a 27 years post op and I should say, don't worry.
In the first two years after srs there was just a little lubricant but after the years go by, it's more and more.
It all depends on the mood you're in.
After a while the skin in the vagina will become some kind of mucosa, that's a natural reaction of the body.
As we all know, mucosa is wet, so, no problem.
As far as I know and experience, there is no sacrify to make after srs, despite giving birth.
In the first two years after srs there was just a little lubricant but after the years go by, it's more and more.
It all depends on the mood you're in.
After a while the skin in the vagina will become some kind of mucosa, that's a natural reaction of the body.
As we all know, mucosa is wet, so, no problem.
As far as I know and experience, there is no sacrify to make after srs, despite giving birth.
Title: Re: Post-Op
Post by: LanaJohn on November 30, 2011, 10:40:00 PM
Post by: LanaJohn on November 30, 2011, 10:40:00 PM
Thank you all. I've been doing a lot of reading but that subject never really comes up... :icon_yikes:
Title: Re: Post-Op
Post by: noleen111 on December 01, 2011, 11:16:35 AM
Post by: noleen111 on December 01, 2011, 11:16:35 AM
nice to know..
Enjoying sex as a woman is something I am looking forward to when I am post op.
I want to be made love to :-)
Enjoying sex as a woman is something I am looking forward to when I am post op.
I want to be made love to :-)
Title: Re: Post-Op
Post by: AndromedaVox on December 01, 2011, 11:55:53 AM
Post by: AndromedaVox on December 01, 2011, 11:55:53 AM
I am 3 years post-op and I always always always need lube. There have been a few instances where I've gotten really excited and produced a bit of wetness, but never enough to have sex comfortably without lube. I don't think it's really that big of a deal. Just keep a bottle by your bed or in your purse so you always have it just in case! :)
Title: Re: Post-Op
Post by: Bishounen on December 01, 2011, 11:56:05 AM
Post by: Bishounen on December 01, 2011, 11:56:05 AM
The following link goes to a good thread on this very topic and with several personal accounts aswell: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=41563.0 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=41563.0)
Title: Re: Post-Op
Post by: LanaJohn on December 01, 2011, 05:36:00 PM
Post by: LanaJohn on December 01, 2011, 05:36:00 PM
Quote from: Bishounen on December 01, 2011, 11:56:05 AM
The following link goes to a good thread on this very topic and with several personal accounts aswell: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=41563.0 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=41563.0)
Very good. Thank you Hugs, LanaB