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Title: Unexpected on a train
Post by: Padma on December 19, 2011, 11:17:35 AM
Post by: Padma on December 19, 2011, 11:17:35 AM
I was heading back home this afternoon after meeting up in town with one of the trans women from my support group. I was sitting on the train, fiddling with my phone (like you do) and the conductor, who had already checked my ticket earlier, was making another ticket-checking pass through our carriage, stopped by me, and said "Have I seen your ticket, miss?" I looked up and she remembered she had, and smiled at me.
This fascinates me - I've quite often seen her on the train, and she me, and she's just suddenly decided to go with the female title off her own bat. As far as I'm aware, I wasn't looking any more female today than usual (I wear women's clothes, but they're at the more male end of the spectrum) so I don't know what prompted this, but I liked it :).
This fascinates me - I've quite often seen her on the train, and she me, and she's just suddenly decided to go with the female title off her own bat. As far as I'm aware, I wasn't looking any more female today than usual (I wear women's clothes, but they're at the more male end of the spectrum) so I don't know what prompted this, but I liked it :).
Title: Re: Unexpected on a train
Post by: sonopoly on December 24, 2011, 01:18:43 PM
Post by: sonopoly on December 24, 2011, 01:18:43 PM
Congratulations, Padma. Why can't more people be like this? I was kind of shocked when there was an article on Chaz Bono and his break up with his fiancee and there were only about 7 comments, but every single one was negative if not downright nasty. I was also surprised that most were from women. I don't know, but I expect women to be more understanding about trans issues.
Title: Re: Unexpected on a train
Post by: Lynne on December 27, 2011, 05:52:12 AM
Post by: Lynne on December 27, 2011, 05:52:12 AM
Always great to read about experiences like that, Padma. Maybe you didn't notice the small changes because you see yourself every day :)
Sonopoly, from my experience with women, they can be the most cruel creatures on Earth.
Sonopoly, from my experience with women, they can be the most cruel creatures on Earth.
Title: Re: Unexpected on a train
Post by: Alainaluvsu on January 22, 2012, 09:41:02 PM
Post by: Alainaluvsu on January 22, 2012, 09:41:02 PM
Aww.. that's really sweet of her :)