Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Cindy on December 31, 2011, 05:18:27 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: Cindy on December 31, 2011, 05:18:27 AM
Post by: Cindy on December 31, 2011, 05:18:27 AM
I'v had a roller-coaster year.
At the beginning of 2011 I hurt people I love.
They helped me back.
I managed to help the occasional person in the occasional post, and I managed to find new friends and people who I respect just popped out of the woodwork.
I really really cannot even contemplate the love that most of us share.
I am so sorry for those who cannot find that link to fit in as their unique selves and enjoy the fact of being here.
We are human. We are so fragile, we hide behind layers or protection, scared to even say, I love you. In case we are seen as some pervert.
What is perverted in telling people you love them?
What is wrong in saying I respect your belief, religion, race etc. but I disagree and what to have it explained to me , so I can understand you, respect you and love you.
What is wrong in accepting someone first and disagreeing after, but with a friendly attitude?
What is wrong in not posting stupid confrontational posts.
What is wrong in saying Hi! and sending a pm. I get heaps and I send heaps, I send then because I know my friends will like them, and I love and respect and am concerned about them. For some silly reason they like me as well.
Uh DUUD, it is called friendship.
So many of us complain about being alone.
I was so isolated but I made some friends here, and it allowed me to go out and meet people. Why? Because for the first time in my sorry life I had friends who could help me. I was not alone. I could go out and tell my friends here, of my adventure. Goddess most seem so small, but at the time they were earthquakes.
You know something? It really helps.
It really helps when a girl or guy go out for their first shopping thingy. It is terrifying; for them. It is nothing when you have done it a few times. Why not tell people your adventure, your experience, good and bad. I helps. You have no idea how much it helps.
There was a thread recently talking about the site no longer being friendly. I locked and posted on it.
Tomorrow is 2012. It is a New Year. The slate is clean.
This is your site.
It is as good or a s bad as you make it.
You have an owner of the site who has sacrificed a lot to keep it going.
You have Admins who do long jobs and then come here.
You have global mods who are career professionasl but still spend hours trying to keep you going.
You have Mods who do the same. You have News staff.
You have people who care.
Oh that sounds cute.
Let's make 2012 the care for each other year.
Goddess bless to you all.
Take care and I do not need or want any acknowledgements for being me. Even though it makes me love you all even more.
Happy New Year for 2012
Cindy James
:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*
Oh BTW It's my birthday on Jan 1, so I give you all a public holiday to celebrate :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
At the beginning of 2011 I hurt people I love.
They helped me back.
I managed to help the occasional person in the occasional post, and I managed to find new friends and people who I respect just popped out of the woodwork.
I really really cannot even contemplate the love that most of us share.
I am so sorry for those who cannot find that link to fit in as their unique selves and enjoy the fact of being here.
We are human. We are so fragile, we hide behind layers or protection, scared to even say, I love you. In case we are seen as some pervert.
What is perverted in telling people you love them?
What is wrong in saying I respect your belief, religion, race etc. but I disagree and what to have it explained to me , so I can understand you, respect you and love you.
What is wrong in accepting someone first and disagreeing after, but with a friendly attitude?
What is wrong in not posting stupid confrontational posts.
What is wrong in saying Hi! and sending a pm. I get heaps and I send heaps, I send then because I know my friends will like them, and I love and respect and am concerned about them. For some silly reason they like me as well.
Uh DUUD, it is called friendship.
So many of us complain about being alone.
I was so isolated but I made some friends here, and it allowed me to go out and meet people. Why? Because for the first time in my sorry life I had friends who could help me. I was not alone. I could go out and tell my friends here, of my adventure. Goddess most seem so small, but at the time they were earthquakes.
You know something? It really helps.
It really helps when a girl or guy go out for their first shopping thingy. It is terrifying; for them. It is nothing when you have done it a few times. Why not tell people your adventure, your experience, good and bad. I helps. You have no idea how much it helps.
There was a thread recently talking about the site no longer being friendly. I locked and posted on it.
Tomorrow is 2012. It is a New Year. The slate is clean.
This is your site.
It is as good or a s bad as you make it.
You have an owner of the site who has sacrificed a lot to keep it going.
You have Admins who do long jobs and then come here.
You have global mods who are career professionasl but still spend hours trying to keep you going.
You have Mods who do the same. You have News staff.
You have people who care.
Oh that sounds cute.
Let's make 2012 the care for each other year.
Goddess bless to you all.
Take care and I do not need or want any acknowledgements for being me. Even though it makes me love you all even more.
Happy New Year for 2012
Cindy James
:-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*
Oh BTW It's my birthday on Jan 1, so I give you all a public holiday to celebrate :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: justmeinoz on December 31, 2011, 05:57:15 AM
Post by: justmeinoz on December 31, 2011, 05:57:15 AM
Happy Birthday sis.
I hope 2012 is a better year for you. Lots of people here are happy to have your opinion, and regard you as a dear friend.
Karen.
I hope 2012 is a better year for you. Lots of people here are happy to have your opinion, and regard you as a dear friend.
Karen.
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: kelly_aus on December 31, 2011, 06:09:36 AM
Post by: kelly_aus on December 31, 2011, 06:09:36 AM
Quote from: justmeinoz on December 31, 2011, 05:57:15 AM
Happy Birthday sis.
I hope 2012 is a better year for you. Lots of people here are happy to have your opinion, and regard you as a dear friend.
Karen.
I'll second that..
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: Cindy on December 31, 2011, 06:16:41 AM
Post by: Cindy on December 31, 2011, 06:16:41 AM
Thanks Doll,
We have moved mountains this year
Love
CJ
We have moved mountains this year
Love
CJ
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: tekla on December 31, 2011, 06:53:32 AM
Post by: tekla on December 31, 2011, 06:53:32 AM
Hey, the Mayans say the world is going to end so lets' just run up our credit cards and hope for the best.
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: Devlyn on December 31, 2011, 07:03:25 AM
Post by: Devlyn on December 31, 2011, 07:03:25 AM
Happy New Year Cindy! I'm glad to call you friend. Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: Cindy on December 31, 2011, 07:30:13 AM
Post by: Cindy on December 31, 2011, 07:30:13 AM
Someone has to be the the first. Why not you we are on the last seconds.
Happy New Year
Happy New Year
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: tekla on December 31, 2011, 07:35:24 AM
Post by: tekla on December 31, 2011, 07:35:24 AM
Well I have 18 hours and 20 minutes left to go, have to be at work at 1pm, will get off around 2am.
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: Bishounen on December 31, 2011, 08:33:25 AM
Post by: Bishounen on December 31, 2011, 08:33:25 AM
Quote from: tekla on December 31, 2011, 06:53:32 AM
Hey, the Mayans say the world is going to end so lets' just run up our credit cards and hope for the best.
They never said specifically that the World is truly going to end the coming year, they merely stated that the gods would return and the current age stop and a new begin in its place. :P
Regardless of what type of adventures may come; Happy 2012. ;D
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: spacial on December 31, 2011, 09:37:43 AM
Post by: spacial on December 31, 2011, 09:37:43 AM
Quote from: Bishounen on December 31, 2011, 08:33:25 AM
They never said specifically that the World is truly going to end the coming year, they merely stated that the gods would return and the current age stop and a new begin in its place. :P
Regardless of what type of adventures may come; Happy 2012. ;D
That's worse. We don't need another religion.
Like everyone I wish all of us a really successful New Year. I made it through another year, with everyone on Susans'.
Cindy, your're amazing.
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: Felix on December 31, 2011, 10:10:54 AM
Post by: Felix on December 31, 2011, 10:10:54 AM
Nice post, Cindy. Thank you. And Happy Birthday! :D
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: Lee on January 01, 2012, 12:30:21 AM
Post by: Lee on January 01, 2012, 12:30:21 AM
You made me think of this song. I hope the new year treats everyone kindly.
Counting Crows - A Long December (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1D5PtyrewSs&ob=av2e#)
Counting Crows - A Long December (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1D5PtyrewSs&ob=av2e#)
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: Catherine Sarah on January 01, 2012, 01:29:13 AM
Post by: Catherine Sarah on January 01, 2012, 01:29:13 AM
Quote from: justmeinoz on December 31, 2011, 05:57:15 AM
Happy Birthday sis.
I hope 2012 is a better year for you. Lots of people here are happy to have your opinion, and regard you as a dear friend.
Karen.
All those in favour say I, IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII (How many members here?)
Make it a day of great celebration. Hon. You deserve it. You are one of our national treasures. Embrace and enjoy
Be safe, well and happy
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: pidgeontoed on January 01, 2012, 03:13:38 AM
Post by: pidgeontoed on January 01, 2012, 03:13:38 AM
Happy birthday to Cindy! Continue being awesome 8)
Lee, I have been singing that song all day. This December, for me, has seemed quite long. Here's to this year being better than the last! ;D
Just want to share a piece of new year advice that was shared by a musician I follow named Allison Weiss. She wrote:
She has no idea how much that helps me. I'm thinking about getting it printed out in big letters and hanging it over my bed so I can wake up and see it each morning. Simple, to the point, makes me want to get up and go for it. Finally make my life what I need it to be. So, I'm hoping that these overly capitalized letters can inspire you to make this year the best, for you.
Much love and luck for the year to all.
Lee, I have been singing that song all day. This December, for me, has seemed quite long. Here's to this year being better than the last! ;D
Just want to share a piece of new year advice that was shared by a musician I follow named Allison Weiss. She wrote:
QuoteTHIS IS THE YEAR TO BE WHO YOU ARE AND DO WHAT YOU MUST. MAKE IT HAPPEN. 100%!!!!!
She has no idea how much that helps me. I'm thinking about getting it printed out in big letters and hanging it over my bed so I can wake up and see it each morning. Simple, to the point, makes me want to get up and go for it. Finally make my life what I need it to be. So, I'm hoping that these overly capitalized letters can inspire you to make this year the best, for you.
Much love and luck for the year to all.
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: annette on January 01, 2012, 05:37:24 AM
Post by: annette on January 01, 2012, 05:37:24 AM
Wise words Cindy.
Let's start this year in a positive way and let's end it like we start it, positive.
Happy Birthday hun.
love
Annette
Let's start this year in a positive way and let's end it like we start it, positive.
Happy Birthday hun.
love
Annette
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: justmeinoz on January 01, 2012, 05:54:01 AM
Post by: justmeinoz on January 01, 2012, 05:54:01 AM
I have plans for 2012 and it had better learn to like it! Hopefully involving anatomy and surgeons, all being well. Here's hoping everyone else's goes to plan too.
Don't worry about the credit card Tekla, you can always say someone stole it!
Kaz,
Don't worry about the credit card Tekla, you can always say someone stole it!
Kaz,
Title: Re: Bye Bye 2011, Hello 2012
Post by: Catherine Sarah on January 01, 2012, 11:13:53 AM
Post by: Catherine Sarah on January 01, 2012, 11:13:53 AM
Hi Karen,
I just love your outstandingly firm and positive attitude towards 2012. It's those differences that make everything work the way you want it.
I wish you every success with your anatomy and surgeons. please keep us in touch, we want to know how you are coping.
Where are you considering having the anatomy stuff done?
Keep up your awesome attitude, and be safe, well and happy
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
I just love your outstandingly firm and positive attitude towards 2012. It's those differences that make everything work the way you want it.
I wish you every success with your anatomy and surgeons. please keep us in touch, we want to know how you are coping.
Where are you considering having the anatomy stuff done?
Keep up your awesome attitude, and be safe, well and happy
Lotsa huggs
Catherine