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Title: I lost my transfriend :(
Post by: xXRebeccaXx on January 12, 2012, 09:25:20 PM
Post by: xXRebeccaXx on January 12, 2012, 09:25:20 PM
Tonight I got a message from her...well him I guess, this is what it said " yea I'm done with the TS stuff for now, I guess it was a phase. I will however, continue to support you and your life choices."
Title: Re: I lost my transfriend :(
Post by: Kreuzfidel on January 12, 2012, 10:04:14 PM
Post by: Kreuzfidel on January 12, 2012, 10:04:14 PM
Seems like they're still a friend, though, as they are offering to support you. Truth is, it can be a phase for some - doesn't mean you've no longer got transfriends...you're at Susan's still :)
Title: Re: I lost my transfriend :(
Post by: Anon on January 13, 2012, 12:20:18 AM
Post by: Anon on January 13, 2012, 12:20:18 AM
It's sorta weird she called it a 'life choice', but I agree with Kreuzfidel and you've still got all of us! :P
Title: Re: I lost my transfriend :(
Post by: Cindy on January 13, 2012, 02:02:01 AM
Post by: Cindy on January 13, 2012, 02:02:01 AM
Seems odd, maybe she is having a panic attack after meeting someone else with similar problems. Sort of: OMG I don't want anyone to know.
Title: Re: I lost my transfriend :(
Post by: AbraCadabra on January 13, 2012, 02:11:40 AM
Post by: AbraCadabra on January 13, 2012, 02:11:40 AM
Well even trans-'friends' come and go.
In what I'm seeing it often can be the only REAL thing you have in common - being trans - ...
I have pretty well lost two, the only two I KNOW! in my life environment. They too busy with their own issues it seems.
They don't seem to care much for me unless they NEED something. Trans-folks are not THAT different from most other folks in this regard.
Need something... see Axélle. Otherwise, getting on with my own show. These in the end are simply acquaintances, whether you like it or not.
Axélle
In what I'm seeing it often can be the only REAL thing you have in common - being trans - ...
I have pretty well lost two, the only two I KNOW! in my life environment. They too busy with their own issues it seems.
They don't seem to care much for me unless they NEED something. Trans-folks are not THAT different from most other folks in this regard.
Need something... see Axélle. Otherwise, getting on with my own show. These in the end are simply acquaintances, whether you like it or not.
Axélle
Title: Re: I lost my transfriend :(
Post by: Natkat on January 13, 2012, 09:47:47 AM
Post by: Natkat on January 13, 2012, 09:47:47 AM
hmm I know people like that who seam to claim they want to be boys or girls but later seam to "grow out of it"
its sorta confussing but if i like them then it dosen't matter what gender they are anyway.
its sorta confussing but if i like them then it dosen't matter what gender they are anyway.
Title: Re: I lost my transfriend :(
Post by: Constance on January 13, 2012, 10:06:53 AM
Post by: Constance on January 13, 2012, 10:06:53 AM
Quote from: Kreuzfidel on January 12, 2012, 10:04:14 PMI think this pretty much sums it up.
Seems like they're still a friend, though, as they are offering to support you. Truth is, it can be a phase for some - doesn't mean you've no longer got transfriends...you're at Susan's still :)
I stopped and restarted transition. It could happen in this case, too.