Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 22, 2012, 03:57:25 AM Return to Full Version
Title: I love my Sister.
Post by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 22, 2012, 03:57:25 AM
Post by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 22, 2012, 03:57:25 AM
So I came out to my sister and this was our conversation.
Zylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
Hiya sis!
29 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Hey brothah man!
26 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
So you know I'm Trans right?
26 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
I guess, yeah
25 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
You know what it means, right?
24 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Tell me
21 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
It means I don't want to be your brother, but rather your sister. I've never really felt comfortable as a boy (I'm sure you noticed that) and well I have to tell people so that they can learn to accept me, it's like coming out of the closet.
If you want you can go on a forum. I can give you a link.
If you are into forums that is.
19 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
What for?
17 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
Eh, discussion, thoughts, and such. I'm on a forum for support really, and to talk to some other trans girls and guys. I know you're accepting and loving though. The forum is really just a place to chat with people, or offer advice.
You know, get a better understanding of what transgender means. : p
16 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Oh, I dunno if I'll go on it. But I'm on my phone right meow
15 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
Ah, I see, the forum I am on has some really cool people, and I like to talk to some of them. Also you could offer a lot of the girls advice on how to pass better! You're really good with makeup and clothes, I bet they'd love you.
13 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Haha well gimme the link and next time I go on a computer I'll check it out.
13 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php)
12 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Alright
12 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
You'll have to sign up and stuff, but I'm sure you could be a big help and in your introduction you can tell them you're my sister.
12 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Haha okay
5 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
Sweet, you probably have a few tips for some people they will really appreciate.
: )
I hope she joins. :)
Now I just need to come out to my brothers, and well I told my mother already.
A couple of my friends, an one of my best is working hard to refer to me as a girl and use Zylphia now.
Ah I'm a lot happier now.
Zylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
Hiya sis!
29 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Hey brothah man!
26 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
So you know I'm Trans right?
26 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
I guess, yeah
25 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
You know what it means, right?
24 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Tell me
21 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
It means I don't want to be your brother, but rather your sister. I've never really felt comfortable as a boy (I'm sure you noticed that) and well I have to tell people so that they can learn to accept me, it's like coming out of the closet.
If you want you can go on a forum. I can give you a link.
If you are into forums that is.
19 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
What for?
17 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
Eh, discussion, thoughts, and such. I'm on a forum for support really, and to talk to some other trans girls and guys. I know you're accepting and loving though. The forum is really just a place to chat with people, or offer advice.
You know, get a better understanding of what transgender means. : p
16 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Oh, I dunno if I'll go on it. But I'm on my phone right meow
15 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
Ah, I see, the forum I am on has some really cool people, and I like to talk to some of them. Also you could offer a lot of the girls advice on how to pass better! You're really good with makeup and clothes, I bet they'd love you.
13 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Haha well gimme the link and next time I go on a computer I'll check it out.
13 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php)
12 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Alright
12 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
You'll have to sign up and stuff, but I'm sure you could be a big help and in your introduction you can tell them you're my sister.
12 shots o' rum agoJulianna Red
Haha okay
5 shots o' rum agoZylphia Lionelle Simone Armstrong
Sweet, you probably have a few tips for some people they will really appreciate.
: )
I hope she joins. :)
Now I just need to come out to my brothers, and well I told my mother already.
A couple of my friends, an one of my best is working hard to refer to me as a girl and use Zylphia now.
Ah I'm a lot happier now.
Title: Re: I love my Sister.
Post by: Padma on January 22, 2012, 04:12:34 AM
Post by: Padma on January 22, 2012, 04:12:34 AM
Quote from: Zylphia on January 22, 2012, 03:57:25 AM
26 shots o' rum ago
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Ah I'm a lot happier now.
Really pleased for you - but this tickled me, I hope not all your coming out conversations require that much rum ;D.
Title: Re: I love my Sister.
Post by: Keaira on January 22, 2012, 04:16:13 AM
Post by: Keaira on January 22, 2012, 04:16:13 AM
Sounds like she did it over Facebook. I love Pirate speak too ^_^
Title: Re: I love my Sister.
Post by: Padma on January 22, 2012, 04:28:49 AM
Post by: Padma on January 22, 2012, 04:28:49 AM
Ah, silly me ::).
Title: Re: I love my Sister.
Post by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 22, 2012, 04:40:31 AM
Post by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 22, 2012, 04:40:31 AM
Yeah, I wish i could handle that much rum, I can barely handle a couple shots of rum and not be tipsy!
But yeah, my sister has decided to call me by the name "Woman" LOL!
But yeah, my sister has decided to call me by the name "Woman" LOL!
Title: Re: I love my Sister.
Post by: Padma on January 22, 2012, 04:47:24 AM
Post by: Padma on January 22, 2012, 04:47:24 AM
Nice - my brother has just started calling me "sis", it's good, innit? :)
Title: Re: I love my Sister.
Post by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 22, 2012, 05:06:56 AM
Post by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 22, 2012, 05:06:56 AM
Yeah, makes me laugh every time though since she said it so bluntly.
Haha well you know you're always gonna be my brother right?
I may change your point of view. You know it really bothers me to be referred to as a boy right?
Asdfghjkl.
lol
I'm just gonna call you woman.
Haha well you know you're always gonna be my brother right?
I may change your point of view. You know it really bothers me to be referred to as a boy right?
Asdfghjkl.
lol
I'm just gonna call you woman.
Title: Re: I love my Sister.
Post by: Padma on January 22, 2012, 05:14:32 AM
Post by: Padma on January 22, 2012, 05:14:32 AM
The people who know us well (*especially* the people who know us well) are transitioning with us - they can't change how they see us overnight any more than we're going to change overnight. It's all good, slow change is better than jerky change with reactions.
Title: Re: I love my Sister.
Post by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 22, 2012, 05:41:17 AM
Post by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 22, 2012, 05:41:17 AM
My sister is very understanding. :3