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Title: My Mama lied to and insulted me.
Post by: heatherrose on February 05, 2012, 10:16:49 AM


Between 3 and 5 years ago, my mother insisted that she be the one to tell one of my brother's.
When I asked her how he had reacted when she told him, she said, and I fuggin' quote,
"He said, "I never want to see that ->-bleeped-<-got again!"." Now I find out she never told him and
she left instructions with my youngest brother that he was not to be told until after her death.


Title: Re: My Mama lied to and insulted me.
Post by: AbraCadabra on February 05, 2012, 11:17:21 AM
Just ever so sad to hear/read that...

So much more to this but I guess you will know and so do I.

Try to forgive, people are just imperfect - yet so are we also.

Hug,
Axélle
Title: Re: My Mama lied to and insulted me.
Post by: Constance on February 05, 2012, 10:59:57 PM
Oh my, Heather, I cannot imagine the hurt you must be experiencing.

{{{{HUGS}}}}
Title: Re: My Mama lied to and insulted me.
Post by: Cindy on February 06, 2012, 01:22:54 AM
Hugs Darling,
We will never know what was going through her mind. She also told you that she loved you. Hold onto the beauty and forgive the weakness. You are a fine woman and your Mum was proud of you.

Peace and Comfort My Sister

Cindy
Title: Re: My Mama lied to and insulted me.
Post by: Felix on February 06, 2012, 02:20:15 AM
My gosh heather. That has to hurt. You didn't do anything wrong. People are funny creatures. Try not to let them hurt you too much.
Title: Re: My Mama lied to and insulted me.
Post by: justmeinoz on February 06, 2012, 02:35:29 AM
That was a spiteful thing to do to you Heather.  I hope your brother has reacted well, or will react well, when told.
Big Hugs sis.

Karen.