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Title: just wanted to share
Post by: Elijah3291 on March 07, 2012, 10:53:19 PM
Post by: Elijah3291 on March 07, 2012, 10:53:19 PM
I work in retail and I am stealth.
I have a few friends there, and I have come out as gay to a few of them.
I was talking to my friend and she said she was talking to Sarah at work and sarah had said (about me) "hes so cute" and I said "she thinks I'm cute?" and my friend said, "yeah, oh and she knows you are gay" and I'm like "whattt? she knows??"
and then my friend says "oh and ___ knows too" (MY MANAGER!)
and she says "oh and Justin knows too" and I freak out for a second, cause I am more carful about guys finding out I am gay, and I always try to act more butch around him and my friend says "yeah, well he was suspicious but didnt want to ask you, so he asked me and when he found out he said "wow, i have a gay friend and I didnt even know it' "
pretty cool for a small town in TN right?
I am pretty razzed, feels a little weird to know that my boss knows, but hell, they dont seem to mind at all, and Sarah the lower manager said I was allowed to paint my nails for work. I have been wanting to paint them black again, but never did because of work, it would be to annoying to only paint them on my days off.
anyway, just sharing, so i am pretty excited.
also, i turned 21!
I have a few friends there, and I have come out as gay to a few of them.
I was talking to my friend and she said she was talking to Sarah at work and sarah had said (about me) "hes so cute" and I said "she thinks I'm cute?" and my friend said, "yeah, oh and she knows you are gay" and I'm like "whattt? she knows??"
and then my friend says "oh and ___ knows too" (MY MANAGER!)
and she says "oh and Justin knows too" and I freak out for a second, cause I am more carful about guys finding out I am gay, and I always try to act more butch around him and my friend says "yeah, well he was suspicious but didnt want to ask you, so he asked me and when he found out he said "wow, i have a gay friend and I didnt even know it' "
pretty cool for a small town in TN right?
I am pretty razzed, feels a little weird to know that my boss knows, but hell, they dont seem to mind at all, and Sarah the lower manager said I was allowed to paint my nails for work. I have been wanting to paint them black again, but never did because of work, it would be to annoying to only paint them on my days off.
anyway, just sharing, so i am pretty excited.
also, i turned 21!
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: lexical on March 07, 2012, 11:34:27 PM
Post by: lexical on March 07, 2012, 11:34:27 PM
that's really cool about how everyone took it so well and also, happy belated bday... hope it was a great one :)
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: Hayzer12 on March 08, 2012, 12:51:44 AM
Post by: Hayzer12 on March 08, 2012, 12:51:44 AM
Quote from: Elijah on March 07, 2012, 10:53:19 PM
I work in retail and I am stealth.
I have a few friends there, and I have come out as gay to a few of them.
I was talking to my friend and she said she was talking to Sarah at work and sarah had said (about me) "hes so cute" and I said "she thinks I'm cute?" and my friend said, "yeah, oh and she knows you are gay" and I'm like "whattt? she knows??"
and then my friend says "oh and ___ knows too" (MY MANAGER!)
and she says "oh and Justin knows too" and I freak out for a second, cause I am more carful about guys finding out I am gay, and I always try to act more butch around him and my friend says "yeah, well he was suspicious but didnt want to ask you, so he asked me and when he found out he said "wow, i have a gay friend and I didnt even know it' "
pretty cool for a small town in TN right?
I am pretty razzed, feels a little weird to know that my boss knows, but hell, they dont seem to mind at all, and Sarah the lower manager said I was allowed to paint my nails for work. I have been wanting to paint them black again, but never did because of work, it would be to annoying to only paint them on my days off.
anyway, just sharing, so i am pretty excited.
also, i turned 21!
That's awesome. You live in TN? Whereabouts? I live in middle TN myself.
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: justmeinoz on March 08, 2012, 01:15:24 AM
Post by: justmeinoz on March 08, 2012, 01:15:24 AM
Absolutely cool day!
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: Elijah3291 on March 08, 2012, 02:09:21 AM
Post by: Elijah3291 on March 08, 2012, 02:09:21 AM
Quote from: stiltsk on March 08, 2012, 12:51:44 AM
That's awesome. You live in TN? Whereabouts? I live in middle TN myself.
its murfreesboro
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: Hayzer12 on March 08, 2012, 02:20:00 AM
Post by: Hayzer12 on March 08, 2012, 02:20:00 AM
Quote from: Elijah on March 08, 2012, 02:09:21 AM
its murfreesboro
My dad lives there. I live like an hour away
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: Elijah3291 on March 08, 2012, 02:42:36 AM
Post by: Elijah3291 on March 08, 2012, 02:42:36 AM
oh cool, yeah its kinda boring town, not much to do here
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: Adio on March 08, 2012, 05:44:16 AM
Post by: Adio on March 08, 2012, 05:44:16 AM
That's awesome, Elijah. I've been struggling with coming out as gay to my coworkers as I live in a small Southern town as well. Still not sure what's best for me right now. It's good to hear you had such a positive experience.
Happy birthday! :D
Happy birthday! :D
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: Ayden on March 09, 2012, 12:40:00 AM
Post by: Ayden on March 09, 2012, 12:40:00 AM
Happy late International Elijah day! Your post made me happy. I am glad that you have awesome co-workers. :)
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: King Malachite on March 09, 2012, 12:53:47 AM
Post by: King Malachite on March 09, 2012, 12:53:47 AM
Sweet you had a good day and I hope your birthday was a good one! :)
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: Val on March 09, 2012, 01:08:21 AM
Post by: Val on March 09, 2012, 01:08:21 AM
Sounds like you had a pretty exciting day, hope you had a good birthday.
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: Kameryn on March 17, 2012, 11:29:54 AM
Post by: Kameryn on March 17, 2012, 11:29:54 AM
Awesome!
Also, I was born and raised in Murfreesboro! I lived there for 20 years before moving up to the NW 2 years ago. Are you from there?
Also, I was born and raised in Murfreesboro! I lived there for 20 years before moving up to the NW 2 years ago. Are you from there?
Title: Re: just wanted to share
Post by: Felix on March 17, 2012, 05:36:38 PM
Post by: Felix on March 17, 2012, 05:36:38 PM
That is really happy stuff, Elijah. :)
I've only ever been to Tennessee to go hiking and caving, but I have a sister in Chattanooga.
I've only ever been to Tennessee to go hiking and caving, but I have a sister in Chattanooga.