Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: lovleylisa on March 13, 2012, 02:11:44 AM Return to Full Version
Title: So who am I?
Post by: lovleylisa on March 13, 2012, 02:11:44 AM
Post by: lovleylisa on March 13, 2012, 02:11:44 AM
Since I was young I wish I was a girl. I started trying on girls clothes in Junior High. Started dating girls in college but still always wished I was a girl. After college started dressing again and still wish I was a girl. I would be willing to date a guy but only straight guys and only when I'm dressed as a girl. I often wonder what it would be like to take hormones and go through transition, I've actually even played around with hormones but stopped because I was told it was dangerous. I love girls and I did enjoyed sex and being close to them but I'd also like a guy someday to treat me like a women.
Title: Re: So who am I?
Post by: Sephirah on March 13, 2012, 02:17:03 AM
Post by: Sephirah on March 13, 2012, 02:17:03 AM
On the surface, the answer to your question seems largely self-evident. But only you can answer that for yourself with the highest accuracy. So rather than me give a definitive answer or even an opinion, I would advise looking at other people's experiences here and seeing if there are any similarities between them and your own. Common thoughts and feelings that you can empathise with and draw comparisons from.
It's my guess that the answer to your question will present itself to you fairly quickly. :)
It's my guess that the answer to your question will present itself to you fairly quickly. :)
Title: Re: So who am I?
Post by: niamh on March 14, 2012, 04:53:33 AM
Post by: niamh on March 14, 2012, 04:53:33 AM
Thankfully only we ourselves know who we ourselves are. It's no one else's business to say otherwise.
Title: Re: So who am I?
Post by: nicole99 on March 15, 2012, 03:20:24 AM
Post by: nicole99 on March 15, 2012, 03:20:24 AM
Just keep in mind that who you want to sleep with does not have a lot to do with your gender.
It is ok to love girls and be the girl you are.
The big question for you is what do you want?
It is ok to love girls and be the girl you are.
The big question for you is what do you want?
Title: Re: So who am I?
Post by: annette on March 15, 2012, 04:11:08 AM
Post by: annette on March 15, 2012, 04:11:08 AM
Agree with Nicole and Beverly.
From my own expirience, there are girls who treat you like an adorable woman, no doubt about that.
The only thing you got to do is ..be that adorable woman.
So, it's not a strange thing to be attracted to women when you are a woman.
From my own expirience, there are girls who treat you like an adorable woman, no doubt about that.
The only thing you got to do is ..be that adorable woman.
So, it's not a strange thing to be attracted to women when you are a woman.
Title: Re: So who am I?
Post by: patstar on March 15, 2012, 08:33:56 PM
Post by: patstar on March 15, 2012, 08:33:56 PM
From what you said, I would agree with the belief that who you are is pretty self-evident. Forget sexual preferences; who (what) do you really want to be? I don't see any urgency for you to make a decision ... unless you see or feel some urgency--which would also likely be a telling factor(?). Let me say too that hormones are only particularly dangerous if you take them on your own and not under the supervision of a doctor.