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Title: Voice concerns
Post by: Stephanie_b on March 17, 2012, 01:53:12 PM
Well, I was practising my voice and listened back to it on my phones recorder app (all I've got).  Its sounding really good, for the most part I think but its so darned raspy!  I don't know how to eliminate this rasp from my voice...

Have you experienced this?
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: azSam on March 17, 2012, 02:23:43 PM
Maybe your girl voice is just raspy. Practice though, that's all I can say; at least without hearing an example.
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: Stephanie_b on March 17, 2012, 02:25:51 PM
Quote from: Samantharz on March 17, 2012, 02:23:43 PM
Maybe your girl voice is just raspy. Practice though, that's all I can say; at least without hearing an example.

I would be willing to provide a sample of my voice for you to hear, if I knew how.
Am not sure how to do that
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: azSam on March 17, 2012, 02:32:12 PM
Oh :( Blah then - Can you record it on your computer?
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: Stephanie_b on March 17, 2012, 02:36:01 PM
Quote from: Samantharz on March 17, 2012, 02:32:12 PM
Oh :( Blah then - Can you record it on your computer?

I would do that, but its not running atm- needs new video card.
All I have to use right now is my android phone.  I can upload stuff, but am not sure about what kind of file my phone recordings are
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: azSam on March 17, 2012, 02:41:07 PM
Well if you figure out a way to do it, I'll listen and offer whatever support I can.
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: Stephanie_b on March 17, 2012, 02:44:16 PM
How bout this?  I will make a youtube account and upload a video of me, but you won't see me in the video, but you will hear me speak.  I would just feel embarrassed looking like a guy atm and speaking in a female voice.  Lol
just give me a day or two to make it and I will post a link on here
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: azSam on March 17, 2012, 02:46:08 PM
Ok :)
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: pretty on March 17, 2012, 10:25:50 PM
Depends on what specifically you mean by raspy but maybe it could be your voice wanting to jump between your modal and falsetto register  ;)
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: Ashazti on March 18, 2012, 11:48:55 AM
Mine has been getting raspy as well, but more so after I've been practicing for a while in one shot... I'm guessing in my case it's just because my vocal chords aren't used to it yet and I just have to keep practicing.
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: Assoluta on March 18, 2012, 02:28:30 PM
Also, you don't want to be talking in falsetto at all, if you do speak in a higher range, you want to be using mixed or head voice so your voice will sound louder, clearer and less breathy, and less sounding like a "man attempting to sound like a woman". You can read many articles on mixed and head voice, although in fact youtube videos may be better to hear the demonstration to get a feel of the concepts, as descrobing it can sound confusing.
It basically means having falsetto with vocal chord closure - the best analogy I can make is to try and impersonate a soprano opera singer - that kind of tone. Mixed voice, as it suggests, mixes modal/chest voice with the 'operatic' head voice - with this, you can speak louder and even shout in a much higher and feminine range.

And yes, this improves hugely with time and vocal muscle memory.
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: azSam on March 18, 2012, 02:31:55 PM
It's all about that muscle memory as Assoluta just said. You have to train your muscles to hold your throat at that position, it's a form of strength training. Really all you can do is practice.
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: Stephanie_b on March 18, 2012, 02:50:43 PM
Yes, they say practice makes perfect and I do need to practice more.
I am going to post my link a little later on this afternoon, but I have caught a cold; its a bad one.

It will be a little tougher today to get my voice sounding good.
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: Stephanie_b on March 18, 2012, 05:38:41 PM
Well, it took forever to get a video to upload to youtube from my phone, but it finally worked.

Please keep in mind that I have just barely begun to work on my voice.  I am open to suggestions and comments, please be kind?  I realize it needs soooooo much work bit its a start.

Here's the link of the video:
Video from My Phone (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_6en_9JuOME#)
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: apple pie on March 19, 2012, 12:08:27 AM
Stephanie I think that sounds pretty good! How long have you been practising?

And from your video, I think I know what you mean by raspy. I was like that in the beginning too. But as I used my voice more and more, the raspiness kind of slowly went away without me doing anything about it.

Actually, that's only true for the range I usually talk in (I generally talk in a fairly low voice with a baseline of around 165 Hz extending up to around 330 Hz in normal conversations), and above that range (e.g. if I have to shout down the street) it still sounds somewhat raspy! So maybe it just takes time for your voice to condition to it. So keep using it! ;) (I used to practise my voice by chatting with online friends before I transitioned, it's very good practice)
Title: Re: Voice concerns
Post by: Stephe on March 19, 2012, 02:54:54 AM
It still sounds like your voice is more from your chest rather than up in your head. Parts of a sentence will sound OK, then it dips back into male resonance. For starting out it sounds pretty good. I really think something like -sing and see- software where you can visually see what your voice is doing while you practice is a huge help.

Also a raspy voice after you practice for a while is a clue to stop practicing and rest your voice. I would nly practice about 5-10 minutes a day at first. After 6-8 months I still can't really talk all day and it stay smooth but can talk as much as I normally need to and it stays nice.