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Title: Hello, everybody.
Post by: Lavender on April 09, 2012, 12:54:54 PM
Post by: Lavender on April 09, 2012, 12:54:54 PM
My name is Lavender, or at least it will be some day, and I have been a huge supporter of trans folk, cross-dressers, drag queens... you get the idea, anyone outside of the gender and sexuality norm for years. Oh, but I did not come here to give support only. I am 25 years of age, and I have been dreaming of being a girly, attractive cross-dresser with soft features, and all that jazz, for years. I am ashamed to say that my physical appearance is quite the opposite. When I was younger I got called miss frequently, but these days I look like someone from a bear porn film. Am I allowed to say porn? I read the rules, of course. Anyway, I put on a lot of of weight, there is facial and body hair... Truth be told, I have so many thing I unwillingly admit, but I presume so many of you here are like me in more ways than one, so I should feel safe and welcome. My family caused me a great deal of sorrow and made me mentally ill in a town that is quite harsh and cruel to anyone, besides football fans. Because of that I have not been able to begin my journey, that and I quite sure we treat transgendered people as a myth that possibly exists somewhere else in the world. I decided that I had quite enough of living in someone else's body, and am going to do all I can to make it my own. I think there is not much to be done about my voice and height, as I am 6'5" or 4" with a deep voice. When I think about it, they have a lot of appeal on a cutesy, feminine figure. I have a clear picture of myself in my head. Oh, for the record, I did not come here trying to make a pity party, expecting sympathy. I came here expecting to find people with similar, brutal life stories who could use some support, and maybe give some back.
Sincerely
Lavender le Fay
Sincerely
Lavender le Fay
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: Constance on April 09, 2012, 01:02:00 PM
Post by: Constance on April 09, 2012, 01:02:00 PM
Hello, Lavender, and welcome to Susan's.
As to be resembling a "bear," I grow my own sweaters. I've been on hormones for about 10 months now, but I've been doing laser on my face for nearly 2 years. Once a week, I shave my arms and legs, I shave my chest every other day, and once a month I shave my back.
Body hair: blargh.
Sit down, get yourself something to drink, and wander around the site.
Enjoy your stay!
As to be resembling a "bear," I grow my own sweaters. I've been on hormones for about 10 months now, but I've been doing laser on my face for nearly 2 years. Once a week, I shave my arms and legs, I shave my chest every other day, and once a month I shave my back.
Body hair: blargh.
Sit down, get yourself something to drink, and wander around the site.
Enjoy your stay!
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: Devlyn on April 09, 2012, 03:48:13 PM
Post by: Devlyn on April 09, 2012, 03:48:13 PM
Hi Lavender, you have a pretty name! I live near Boston. See you around the site, hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: V M on April 09, 2012, 04:27:49 PM
Post by: V M on April 09, 2012, 04:27:49 PM
Hi Lavender :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's :)
Please be sure to review
Hugs
V M
Welcome to Susan's :)
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Hugs
V M
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: Felix on April 09, 2012, 05:58:59 PM
Post by: Felix on April 09, 2012, 05:58:59 PM
Welcome to Susan's, Lavender. :)
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: Rory on April 09, 2012, 07:25:33 PM
Post by: Rory on April 09, 2012, 07:25:33 PM
Welcome to Susan's! I think you'll find what you're looking for here in a great group of people. :)
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: Lavender on April 10, 2012, 03:48:04 AM
Post by: Lavender on April 10, 2012, 03:48:04 AM
Connie Ann, we live in an age where 70% of all our physical "defects", namely things that are ugly in our eyes are fixable. I could maybe grow socks, I have blonde hair, but evenly dispersed. I feel like crying each time I use my epilator. I rather find the bear type attractive, provided I can see the man behind the hair, or better yet, a hairless bear.
Thank you, Devlyn. I love my name. I have been thinking of a middle name recently.
Thank you all for the warm welcome. I feel very glad I decided to do this. I cannot say I have been very welcome in mainstream society, even online.
Thank you, Devlyn. I love my name. I have been thinking of a middle name recently.
Thank you all for the warm welcome. I feel very glad I decided to do this. I cannot say I have been very welcome in mainstream society, even online.
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: RachaelAnn22 on April 13, 2012, 12:09:14 AM
Post by: RachaelAnn22 on April 13, 2012, 12:09:14 AM
Welcome Lavender,Hugs,Rachael.
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: King Malachite on April 13, 2012, 12:13:21 AM
Post by: King Malachite on April 13, 2012, 12:13:21 AM
Hi welcome to Susans! :)
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: gennee on April 13, 2012, 08:36:10 AM
Post by: gennee on April 13, 2012, 08:36:10 AM
Welcome to Susan's, Lavender.
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: Lavender on April 13, 2012, 02:48:58 PM
Post by: Lavender on April 13, 2012, 02:48:58 PM
Thank you both kindly.
Title: Re: Hello, everybody.
Post by: Dominatrix ♥ on April 13, 2012, 03:15:00 PM
Post by: Dominatrix ♥ on April 13, 2012, 03:15:00 PM
Hello and welcome hopefully you enjoy it around here and I see you around ♥