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Apparently, I'm not welcome here..


*** runs out crying ***

I think people might feel differently toward you if you explained yourself.

When you post things like "*** runs out crying ***" it makes it harder to take you seriously....

But, as I said in my other posts to you... I don't think you are a troll... simply someone who is extremely confused.

You really need to step back and focus on yourself a bit (instead of trying to bring acceptance to all trans people?). Please go see a therapist... that should be your number 1 priority... you really need someone to sit down with you and help you sort things out.

The trans feelings aren't your only issue... you also seem to resist taking responsibility for your life and are stuck in some child-like state (all the "my parents won't let me" stuff).

Again...you really need to find a professional to sit down with so you can start to sort things out and maybe everything will become a lot more clear....

I don't even know who you are, any more than anyone here knows, me to be honest. I can't say I don't like you, because I don't know anything about you anyway ?! :D

I also think you need to learn that when you ask a question the answers you get may not always be the same as the answer you were hoping to hear.

I think a therapist is really what would be best to help you sort out how you truely feel about yourself and your really sexuality.

As for the commenting thats been going on:

IN ALL HONESTY, I THINK WE SHOULD JUST DROP THE PAST AND MOVE ON. NO MATTER WHO WAS WRONG TO BEGIN WITH. STOP THIS HATE, IT IS UNECESSARY AND JUST GOING TO START THE VICIOUS CYCLE ALL OVER AGAIN.

Don't be silly Bebe.

However you feel, the only people you need to worry about are the mods. They only react to people breaking posting rules. You don't do that.

Quote from: Rabbit on May 06, 2012, 05:54:13 PM
When you post things like "*** runs out crying ***" it makes it harder to take you seriously....

But, as I said in my other posts to you... I don't think you are a troll... simply someone who is extremely confused.

You really need to step back and focus on yourself a bit (instead of trying to bring acceptance to all trans people?). Please go see a therapist... that should be your number 1 priority... you really need someone to sit down with you and help you sort things out.

The trans feelings aren't your only issue... you also seem to resist taking responsibility for your life and are stuck in some child-like state (all the "my parents won't let me" stuff).

Again...you really need to find a professional to sit down with so you can start to sort things out and maybe everything will become a lot more clear....

yup. Also, BebeLyss you said you were 24(?) and in college which seems a little late and you also haven't gotten a job yet? If you're serious about transition you need a job and a way in which to seperate your income and livelihood from your parents pronto. I would do the same but I'm still a minor and my parents are accepting which apparently yours are not.  These are all things you should write down to talk about with that therapist you need...

Yes a job will help with stress. It allows you to use your body to release stress. Too much talking (posting online about your problems) isn't healthy. You need a balanced approach to life. ;)

hugs Danielle

Quote from: Rabbit on May 06, 2012, 05:54:13 PM
When you post things like "*** runs out crying ***" it makes it harder to take you seriously....

But, as I said in my other posts to you... I don't think you are a troll... simply someone who is extremely confused.

You really need to step back and focus on yourself a bit (instead of trying to bring acceptance to all trans people?). Please go see a therapist... that should be your number 1 priority... you really need someone to sit down with you and help you sort things out.

The trans feelings aren't your only issue... you also seem to resist taking responsibility for your life and are stuck in some child-like state (all the "my parents won't let me" stuff).

Again...you really need to find a professional to sit down with so you can start to sort things out and maybe everything will become a lot more clear....

I couldn't agree more.

Sweetheart you told us that you found jesus and were cured and that we just needed to find him. Then came back and wanted help again, you need to get a little help.. :) It freaks people out when you jump around like that.

Just to reinforce what everyone else here said.

Honestly, I am not entirely too sure what to make out of all of this. Part of me thinks you are doing this to incite discord in the forums. Part of me thinks you are just a very confused individual and parts of me (which can relate to the first part) is you post for attention only, not taking into consideration what advice has been given to you.

I am posting these not to "rub it in" but try to show you why many here are hesitant to take what you say seriously.

You did tell others you found Jesus and then cited scripture to tell us we need to stop crossdressing lest we go to hell. This wasn't too long ago. You posted the same thing on my youtube account..and many other transgender youtube accounts.

You also posted in the FtM I look badass section and posted your pics as a FtM. You are not FtM..you are a genetic male. This can be seen as very condescending to FtM. That would be like a genetic girl posting pics in the MtF "You look fabulous Darling."

You post numerous threads about how your parents do not understand your issues and will fight back against your convictions. We have given you some really good advice. But you never listen to the advice. You never respond to the advice given and you never acknowledge the helpful comments for you. Rather, you will post the same thread weeks later. Again, helpful advice has been given to you each and everytime....but you just dismiss them...then post another thread.

That tells me you just want attention but care not for the advice given to you.

Many of us have express our concerns and worry for you. Being a girl does not mean putting a bow in your hair, wrapping a belt around your long shirt and make it a dress and then talk about your favorite make up stores or committing to a life long dream of being a cute cheerleader.

Being a girl is so far beyond that. Bows in the hair, make up, etc are some things that may come from being a woman but that is not what a woman is. A woman is the fundamental understanding and knowing who you are both inside and out. It is not an extrinsic set of fulfilled female stereotypical actions. It is so much more complicated than that, and at the same time, it is all too simpler than that.

Being a woman is γνῶθι σαυτόν. It means to "know yourself." It is a inner look of who you are and knowing who you are. When you make videos of you squealing about your makeup choices may be part of knowing yourself but your videos feel like you are trying to convince yourself.

I am not here to say whether or not you are woman. Only you know that. However, I think it is safe to say that you are very confused.

You may think your parents are evil suppressors of your gender but based on your actions and thought processes here, there are many things I agree with your parents. I do agree with you that they should not dismiss your gender presentation but if i was your parent I would beyond frustration with you.

You are also 24 and upset to be under the law of your parents. When I was 24, I had already graduated college and had my job. Now, I am not saying every 24 year old should be at the same lineage as me but if you are 24 and having these issue then you need some serious retrospect. You are an adult. You need to seriously consider making your own paths. You are not a child anymore.

Also, you need therapy. It's only going to get worse for you if you don't (but we've said this to you 5000 times already)

All of the things I say, I know you wont read. It's just in your nature to ignore everything here. However, maybe my optimistic side is hoping you at least look at it.