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Title: My first date!!
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:06:23 AM
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:06:23 AM
So things are moving so fast! First I get fired, then I start laser and start full time, then my name change, now a date! I love my life!
Anyways, starting off he knew I'm trans. He's fine with it. At first he was worried somebody would see us together, then he kinda started to calm down, especially after the waiter came back with a single ticket and straight up handed it to him lol!
I'm hoping he dropped his fears of being seen with me. I think he has. We were at Walmart picking out a movie and he was pretty touchy in public. It was sweet and refreshing :) He didn't mention anything sexual the whole night at all. At the end he gave me a nice hug and kinda held my hand as he walked off.
So is it too dangerous to hang out at his house alone with him as we watch a movie?
Anyways, starting off he knew I'm trans. He's fine with it. At first he was worried somebody would see us together, then he kinda started to calm down, especially after the waiter came back with a single ticket and straight up handed it to him lol!
I'm hoping he dropped his fears of being seen with me. I think he has. We were at Walmart picking out a movie and he was pretty touchy in public. It was sweet and refreshing :) He didn't mention anything sexual the whole night at all. At the end he gave me a nice hug and kinda held my hand as he walked off.
So is it too dangerous to hang out at his house alone with him as we watch a movie?
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Siobhan on June 11, 2012, 01:18:07 AM
Post by: Siobhan on June 11, 2012, 01:18:07 AM
Its great you had fun, but be really carefull! Im guessing you are physically much weaker after hrt, so less able to defend yourself.
if you do go make sure somone else knows where you are, and with who, when to expect you back.etc. Make sure he knows that someone else knows where you are also.
Good luck!
if you do go make sure somone else knows where you are, and with who, when to expect you back.etc. Make sure he knows that someone else knows where you are also.
Good luck!
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:21:22 AM
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:21:22 AM
Yeah, he works with one of my good friends, so people would know what's going on.
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: ~RoadToTrista~ on June 11, 2012, 01:24:29 AM
Post by: ~RoadToTrista~ on June 11, 2012, 01:24:29 AM
Gratz Alaina, I'm happy for you. ^.^
I doubt it, but you should always be prepared to handle a potential disaster. Definitely don't forget your cellphone gurl. Maybe some pepper spray too.......
I doubt it, but you should always be prepared to handle a potential disaster. Definitely don't forget your cellphone gurl. Maybe some pepper spray too.......
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: V M on June 11, 2012, 01:36:09 AM
Post by: V M on June 11, 2012, 01:36:09 AM
Sounds like this is a new experience for him also and he's kinda nervous about it :) I get the vibe that he genuinely likes you though
Take it slow and don't be afraid but be ready for if things go bad :) I'm hoping for things to go well
Keep us posted
Hugs
V M
Take it slow and don't be afraid but be ready for if things go bad :) I'm hoping for things to go well
Keep us posted
Hugs
V M
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Michelle G on June 11, 2012, 01:42:43 AM
Post by: Michelle G on June 11, 2012, 01:42:43 AM
Congrats and enjoy yourself :)
Keep an open message "ready to send" to a friend who knows you are on a date, if you need help or just to check in the message box is there when you open the phone...saves a bit of time if needed
Keep an open message "ready to send" to a friend who knows you are on a date, if you need help or just to check in the message box is there when you open the phone...saves a bit of time if needed
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:53:40 AM
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:53:40 AM
Quote from: Michelle G on June 11, 2012, 01:42:43 AM
Congrats and enjoy yourself :)
Keep an open message "ready to send" to a friend who knows you are on a date, if you need help or just to check in the message box is there when you open the phone...saves a bit of time if needed
Good idea.
Thanks for the congrats yall! I'm excited. I know he likes me and I do like him. I'll keep it as an option if he wants to watch a movie with me :) I'm so excited!
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Butterflyhugs on June 11, 2012, 02:06:25 AM
Post by: Butterflyhugs on June 11, 2012, 02:06:25 AM
You go girl! ;D
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: justmeinoz on June 11, 2012, 04:50:44 AM
Post by: justmeinoz on June 11, 2012, 04:50:44 AM
Nice to hear a good news story. :) I hope it works out well.
Karen.
Karen.
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Alexis on June 11, 2012, 08:18:27 AM
Post by: Alexis on June 11, 2012, 08:18:27 AM
Sounds like it was wonderful! Really Happy for You ;D
Quote from: Michelle G on June 11, 2012, 01:42:43 AMIn addition to the msg, if you're still worried about it, there's a great app called 'circleof6'
Congrats and enjoy yourself :)
Keep an open message "ready to send" to a friend who knows you are on a date, if you need help or just to check in the message box is there when you open the phone...saves a bit of time if needed
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Michelle G on June 11, 2012, 12:43:16 PM
Post by: Michelle G on June 11, 2012, 12:43:16 PM
Quote from: Alexis on June 11, 2012, 08:18:27 AM
Sounds like it was wonderful! Really Happy for You ;D
In addition to the msg, if you're still worried about it, there's a great app called 'circleof6'
thats right! I forgot about that one, good suggestion Alexis :)
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Dale on June 11, 2012, 12:49:15 PM
Post by: Dale on June 11, 2012, 12:49:15 PM
Alaina I am so happy for you. Its a new experience, take it slow. Probably best advise......follow your gut feelings. They are usually right
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:53:54 PM
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:53:54 PM
My gut is positive with this guy but I can see his age being a concern. He's 22 and I'm 29.
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: CryssL on June 11, 2012, 02:01:33 PM
Post by: CryssL on June 11, 2012, 02:01:33 PM
Stay cautious but try to relax too! Congrats!
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Michelle G on June 11, 2012, 02:05:51 PM
Post by: Michelle G on June 11, 2012, 02:05:51 PM
You cougar you!!! ;)
That just means "you" are in control...boys that age have a way of listening to older girls.
when I was 22 I went out with a 29yo girl, I thought...OMG she is all grown up and old, lol I look back on it now and just laugh :)
That just means "you" are in control...boys that age have a way of listening to older girls.
when I was 22 I went out with a 29yo girl, I thought...OMG she is all grown up and old, lol I look back on it now and just laugh :)
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Angelique1994 on June 11, 2012, 02:11:35 PM
Post by: Angelique1994 on June 11, 2012, 02:11:35 PM
Quote from: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:06:23 AMcongratulations girl i hope thing work out great between u and him. but make sure u bring pepper spray wen u go to his house, just to be safe. but anyway i hope im as lucky as u are to get my first bf cause guys where i live are all country but i guess they are attracted to me since they tell me if i had a vagina they would be all over me but unfortunatly i hav the opposite so i guess i may have to wait till i get SRS to get a bf
So things are moving so fast! First I get fired, then I start laser and start full time, then my name change, now a date! I love my life!
Anyways, starting off he knew I'm trans. He's fine with it. At first he was worried somebody would see us together, then he kinda started to calm down, especially after the waiter came back with a single ticket and straight up handed it to him lol!
I'm hoping he dropped his fears of being seen with me. I think he has. We were at Walmart picking out a movie and he was pretty touchy in public. It was sweet and refreshing :) He didn't mention anything sexual the whole night at all. At the end he gave me a nice hug and kinda held my hand as he walked off.
So is it too dangerous to hang out at his house alone with him as we watch a movie?
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 02:15:14 PM
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 02:15:14 PM
Quote from: Michelle G on June 11, 2012, 02:05:51 PM
You cougar you!!! ;)
That just means "you" are in control...boys that age have a way of listening to older girls.
when I was 22 I went out with a 29yo girl, I thought...OMG she is all grown up and old, lol I look back on it now and just laugh :)
Hah! I'm really into guys in their 30s but... I figured I'd give him a chance since he was so sweet. When he first saw me, he asked his friend if I was 21 yet, lol!!
Quote from: Angelique1994 on June 11, 2012, 02:11:35 PM
congratulations girl i hope thing work out great between u and him. but make sure u bring pepper spray wen u go to his house, just to be safe. but anyway i hope im as lucky as u are to get my first bf cause guys where i live are all country but i guess they are attracted to me since they tell me if i had a vagina they would be all over me but unfortunatly i hav the opposite so i guess i may have to wait till i get SRS to get a bf
Thanks!
Baby girl you're young. You'll learn there are quite a few open minded guys out there, but you have to find the ones that don't care what others say or think. You're pretty, you'll get a man soon I'm sure :)
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: rachl on June 11, 2012, 03:12:04 PM
Post by: rachl on June 11, 2012, 03:12:04 PM
Seriously awesome. Sounds like a nice first date. :)
I'd be cautious about the age thing. That's just me; maybe he's really mature for 22, but I haven't had good experiences dating younger people.
I'd be cautious about the age thing. That's just me; maybe he's really mature for 22, but I haven't had good experiences dating younger people.
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: LadySerraphym on June 11, 2012, 03:36:40 PM
Post by: LadySerraphym on June 11, 2012, 03:36:40 PM
Quote from: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:53:54 PM
My gut is positive with this guy but I can see his age being a concern. He's 22 and I'm 29.
You cougar you. LOL
Congratulations Sweety. I am very happy for you. I think you deserve some happiness. I can say that you are a lot of fun to hang with so I am sure he thinks so as well. Let me know how things go. I want all the details...... LOL
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 03:40:28 PM
Post by: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 03:40:28 PM
Quote from: LadySerraphym on June 11, 2012, 03:36:40 PM
You cougar you. LOL
Congratulations Sweety. I am very happy for you. I think you deserve some happiness. I can say that you are a lot of fun to hang with so I am sure he thinks so as well. Let me know how things go. I want all the details...... LOL
I will baby doll. I'm glad to see you on the boards :)
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Bexi on June 11, 2012, 05:19:01 PM
Post by: Bexi on June 11, 2012, 05:19:01 PM
Congrats! I hope it goes great for you. Just remember, be aware and safe but also (if you can) relax and try to enjoy it. At the end of the day its a date, so if he's as genuine a guy as you think he is then he's probably nervous about spending time with a beautiful girl.
Damn - Im really jealous of you :P! I can't wait until im comfortable enough to go dating again!
X
Damn - Im really jealous of you :P! I can't wait until im comfortable enough to go dating again!
X
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: AbbyJamz on June 11, 2012, 08:12:22 PM
Post by: AbbyJamz on June 11, 2012, 08:12:22 PM
I really am happy for you! Actually a touch jealous! You also give me a little hope for the future, seeing as we are nearly the same age! I hope everything goes well! Be safe and have a ball!
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Dale on June 12, 2012, 08:42:15 AM
Post by: Dale on June 12, 2012, 08:42:15 AM
Quote from: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 01:53:54 PM
My gut is positive with this guy but I can see his age being a concern. He's 22 and I'm 29.
Don't worry about the age now, just go have some fun. Your not moving in with the first guy you day. "Girls just want to have fun"
Title: Re: My first date!!
Post by: Catherine Sarah on June 12, 2012, 09:52:29 AM
Post by: Catherine Sarah on June 12, 2012, 09:52:29 AM
Hi Alaina,
Congratulation. I'm just soooo happy for you. Hope it blossoms into a delightful relationship for you both. I believe you have a lot to give in that regard.
What a silver tongued fox he turns out to be. Not surprising though. You certainly don't look anywhere near your age. Perchance there's no more like him at home are there?? LOL. Just asking!!
Enjoy the experience and the wonderment of relationships in a new dimension. You lucky girl.
Be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
Congratulation. I'm just soooo happy for you. Hope it blossoms into a delightful relationship for you both. I believe you have a lot to give in that regard.
Quote from: Alainaluvsu on June 11, 2012, 02:15:14 PM
I figured I'd give him a chance since he was so sweet. When he first saw me, he asked his friend if I was 21 yet, lol!!
What a silver tongued fox he turns out to be. Not surprising though. You certainly don't look anywhere near your age. Perchance there's no more like him at home are there?? LOL. Just asking!!
Enjoy the experience and the wonderment of relationships in a new dimension. You lucky girl.
Be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine