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Title: Super down on myself today...
Post by: AbbyJamz on June 13, 2012, 11:53:56 AM
Post by: AbbyJamz on June 13, 2012, 11:53:56 AM
M usually pretty chipper, but today has been killing me. I can't focus on work or anything. I just keep thinking about all the negatives in my life. Not really any point to this post. Just not feeling good about being me at the moment...
Title: Re: Super down on myself today...
Post by: Brooke777 on June 13, 2012, 12:06:20 PM
Post by: Brooke777 on June 13, 2012, 12:06:20 PM
I am sorry you are feeling down. You said you are only thinking about the negatives. Can you tell me anything positive? Even something really small.
Title: Re: Super down on myself today...
Post by: Devlyn on June 13, 2012, 12:21:35 PM
Post by: Devlyn on June 13, 2012, 12:21:35 PM
Can we fix this with chocolate? I like Brookes idea, pick a positive thing and focus on that. A bright spot! Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Super down on myself today...
Post by: Catherine Sarah on June 13, 2012, 12:29:45 PM
Post by: Catherine Sarah on June 13, 2012, 12:29:45 PM
Hi Confused,
Well we all have days like this. I know for some one who is always 'up' I do have to have the odd day, not so 'up.' I'm one of these individuals who's glass is neither half full or empty. Mine is always over flowing. Yet occasionally it falls over and some spills.
However I use these moments to analyse the the not so good times and see if I can find the silver lining in the otherwise dark cloud. It's an amazing journey as well as an interesting perspective. Sometimes I learn a lot.
Hoping this will pass for you quickly, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
Well we all have days like this. I know for some one who is always 'up' I do have to have the odd day, not so 'up.' I'm one of these individuals who's glass is neither half full or empty. Mine is always over flowing. Yet occasionally it falls over and some spills.
However I use these moments to analyse the the not so good times and see if I can find the silver lining in the otherwise dark cloud. It's an amazing journey as well as an interesting perspective. Sometimes I learn a lot.
Hoping this will pass for you quickly, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
Title: Re: Super down on myself today...
Post by: Siobhan on June 13, 2012, 12:30:15 PM
Post by: Siobhan on June 13, 2012, 12:30:15 PM
I feel like this often. As others have said focus on the positives and you will start to feel better I hope.
Title: Re: Super down on myself today...
Post by: Catherine Sarah on June 13, 2012, 12:56:45 PM
Post by: Catherine Sarah on June 13, 2012, 12:56:45 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on June 13, 2012, 12:21:35 PM
Can we fix this with chocolate? Hugs, Devlyn
Did someone mention CHOCOLATE??
Chocolate FIXES everything. From flat tyres to to pancreatic cancer and everything in between.
Quick break out the chocolate. Your shout Devlyn !!!!
Be safe, well, sane, (pity I'm not) and happy (on chocolate)
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
Title: Re: Super down on myself today...
Post by: Shawn Sunshine on June 13, 2012, 01:32:07 PM
Post by: Shawn Sunshine on June 13, 2012, 01:32:07 PM
awww. CJ Don't loose hope! There is a place for you in this world.
here maybe this will cheer you up.
http://youtu.be/OFzXaFbxDcM (http://youtu.be/OFzXaFbxDcM)
here maybe this will cheer you up.
http://youtu.be/OFzXaFbxDcM (http://youtu.be/OFzXaFbxDcM)
Title: Re: Super down on myself today...
Post by: AbbyJamz on June 13, 2012, 05:06:43 PM
Post by: AbbyJamz on June 13, 2012, 05:06:43 PM
Thanks everybody. I really appreciate everyone's posts. Brooke, trying to think of something positive got me thinking about many small, yet positive things, like my eyes and whatnot. Thanks for the tip. I've just got SUPER low self esteem right now. I'm constantly thinking that I will never make it to where I know I should be. It's just such a daunting road ahead. LOL! Thanks ShawnToShawn for that video! Cracked me up pretty good. I'm sure I'll be fine as the day goes on. I'm going to see Dave Chappelle in a few hours. I'd have to be inhuman to not laugh at least a lil bit! Once again, thanks bunches for the cheer up! ...I may need it again before this road has been paced... :-)
Title: Re: Super down on myself today...
Post by: Brooke777 on June 13, 2012, 05:10:55 PM
Post by: Brooke777 on June 13, 2012, 05:10:55 PM
I am happy to help in anyway. You can always pm me if you wish. Enjoy the show.
Title: Re: Super down on myself today...
Post by: Stephanie_b on June 13, 2012, 05:37:03 PM
Post by: Stephanie_b on June 13, 2012, 05:37:03 PM
Quote from: ConfusedCJ on June 13, 2012, 05:06:43 PM
I've just got SUPER low self esteem right now. I'm constantly thinking that I will never make it to where I know I should be. It's just such a daunting road ahead.
I'm glad that the funny video and thinking about positive things has made you feel better.
About the above quote, I feel the same as you. Try to hang in there, it will take a while but you WILL get to where you want to be. :)