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Im being forced into a long formal gown July 14th...
Any advice to gain wait in my stomach area so I can't wear it? ^_^

taco bell?

I'm the skinny kind of person who can eat 3 McDonald's Angus burgers with everything on it and extra bacon and not gain a pound.. T_T
(the one time I'm sad that i can't gain weight)

Quote from: jasper3 on June 20, 2012, 05:20:41 AM
I'm the skinny kind of person who can eat 3 McDonald's Angus burgers with everything on it and extra bacon and not gain a pound.. T_T
(the one time I'm sad that i can't gain weight)

Oh, yeah I get it it kinda sucks. I'm the skinny kind that gets a full stomach eating a few grapes ><

The dress is evil to me.. Pink and has a ribbon on the shoulder..... And the-the push up bra....  :icon_sniff:

high heels are evil also
And the wig.. The wig that goes down my back and the pink and white make up....... TT.TT

Does it have to be so pink??

My sister LOVES pink

Her walls are pink
Her bed is pink  — it's hilarious cuz her fiancé sleeps in the bed with her and he is weirded out by all the pink
The carpet is pink
Most of her normal wardrobe is pink
Her wedding dress is white but her garter is hot pink and her make up is pinkish white with sparkles....

Her wedding is pink
Her about to be husband is going to wear a pink tie and vest hahaha xD

Normally I say let the bride have her day but can you schedule an intervention by some gay guys??!? that is an emergency.

I came out to her first and she does this.. T.T
I knew she was evil but not this evil..
I wanted to wear a tux with a pink tie (pink ties, I actually like lol)

But she said if I don't have a real penis I have to wear a dress, that's the rule at her wedding

honestly, I'd tell her that while you are very happy for her, and want to be there to support her at her wedding, you don't want to do it this way - you'd rather sit on the sidelines and watch the marriage. If she knows you're FTM, it's just really disrespectful of her to ask you to wear a dress.

I'd still have to wear a dress though, she already told me I have to because it's a Christian wedding

Accidentally burn that evil dress at wedding day  :icon_burn:
And luckily have pink tuxedo (http://www.finetuxedos.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/265x/5e06319eda06f020e43594a9c230972d/t/u/tuxedos_pink.jpg) in suit to make her happy  ;D
Or I can go instead of you, and I'll enjoy it  :angel:

I'm not allowed to have anything to do with fire for certain reasons
*looks at the backyard that doesn't dig row any grass anymore and the burn scars on my arms*

Tough one.  It might be a case of stating to all and sundry that it is the last time in your life you will ever wear a dress, and that you are doing it as a special favour to your sister only.

Or keep an eye out for a passing goat.  ;)

Haha
I may just have to wear it
I'm too short and skinny for men's suits

Making yourself fatter is-- to put it politely-- unwise. Once you form new fat cells they have a way of always wanting to stay inflated, thus you have a permanent weight problem.

It's easy to find suits made for the female figure that look very similar to men's suits. You might want to invest in one for just such occasions as this. Many G-women prefer suits over gowns, anyway, so there's no reason you can't wear one.

~ Lyric ~

I already tried to beg my sister to not make me wear a dress as her maid of honour.. I have to wear a dress....

Heck, if I were you, I'd be tempted to play it off as a campy gay guy.

Huh?

I will gladly trade days with you ;)

I would love to get all dressed up in pink and stand in for you!  and then you can go to my class reunion for me since I will have to do that in icky boy mode :(

just be the best person you can be and the day will be over before you know it


not to get off subject to much, but why are these "christian" events so non accepting and unforgiving?

"King James Bible (Cambridge Ed.)
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."

LGBT is "sin"

yikes....that doesnt sound very fair :(

That book was written by a human several hundred years after Christ and based on a person's interpretation (and it would be unreasonable to assume that none of that person's own beliefs or bias got in there whether they meant to or not).
If God exists and I ever meet him, I'll ask him what his views are. That's just my opinion though.

I'm starting to feel sorry for her fiance as well. Sorry I don't have any advice other than to stick up for yourself, but that's a conclusion you're probably going to have to come to on your own.
Out of curiosity, how old are you? Aka how long will it be until you can move out?

Quote from: jasper3 on June 21, 2012, 12:18:32 PM
"King James Bible (Cambridge Ed.)
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."

LGBT is "sin"

Without taking too much out of context on such a brief passage, then LGB, may be sin, but T, basically NO.

A full dissertation on this subject alone may take several hours and many sheets of paper. And as it's 3:35, I'm off to my beauty sleep.

Be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
And give a lot of thought and planning to your exit strategy. I'm serious. For your own health.

Quote from: Edge on June 21, 2012, 12:34:25 PM
That book was written by a human several hundred years after Christ and based on a person's interpretation (and it would be unreasonable to assume that none of that person's own beliefs or bias got in there whether they meant to or not).
If God exists and I ever meet him, I'll ask him what his views are. That's just my opinion though.

I'm starting to feel sorry for her fiance as well. Sorry I don't have any advice other than to stick up for yourself, but that's a conclusion you're probably going to have to come to on your own.
Out of curiosity, how old are you? Aka how long will it be until you can move out?

King James (king of England idk the reign) had his bishop or someone of his catholic church rewrite, editing, the bible in order to control his citizens even more so

And I'm about to be 16 in August, I can't move out legally until I have a job, high school diploma usually, and a place to reside; all of which I do not, I do not even have any friends to stay with temporarily.

Good night, Catherine :)

Quote from: jasper3 on June 21, 2012, 12:47:46 PM
And I'm about to be 16 in August, I can't move out legally until I have a job, high school diploma usually, and a place to reside; all of which I do not, I do not even have any friends to stay with temporarily.

OK. Slightly different ball game. There must be some aid agency locally, community heath, child protection agency available through you public health system, local juvenile court, school counselor, that can understand the unreasonable requests being made upon you, which in some cases could be perceived as cruelty, bullying or harassment. They will be your protection and your voice in a very dysfunctional family. Again for your own well being, seek outside assistance immediately.

With love and respect
Catherine

I can't if ive went to child protection agency and I don't want my mother thrown in jail and I don't want her to tell them anything about me (she told them my boyfriend was a paedophile, WHICH HE IS NOT) and she almost got him arrested and I can't go to the school counsellor, I don't like any of them because they've caused me to get beaten by my mother even when I told them they CANNOT call her and tell her I got a discipline referral (I got in trouble for fighting in the girls locker room because this girl started it and called me a ->-bleeped-<-got piece of sh*t and punched me in the face and I grabbed her breast and pulled her to the floor where I was and broke her nose) and I can't go to a juvenile court, it'd look horrid on my record for application to medical school

Quote from: jasper3 on June 21, 2012, 12:47:46 PM
King James (king of England idk the reign)

He was king of England right after Elizabeth I and king of Scotland before that.
I read the Macbeth was written for him. Apparently, he had an interest in witches. :/

Hmm yeah being a minor in that situation sucks. I wish I could offer advice, but I don't have any. Stay safe, take care of your needs as best you can, and hold on to your sanity as much as you can.

Quote from: jasper3 on June 20, 2012, 05:31:31 AM
My sister LOVES pink

Her walls are pink
Her bed is pink  — it's hilarious cuz her fiancé sleeps in the bed with her and he is weirded out by all the pink
The carpet is pink
Most of her normal wardrobe is pink
Her wedding dress is white but her garter is hot pink and her make up is pinkish white with sparkles....

Her wedding is pink
Her about to be husband is going to wear a pink tie and vest hahaha xD

All sounds very cute :)

Personally, it being your sis, think you should grin and bear it just for one day, after all this is HER day NOT yours ;)

Just saying hun, have fun either way !

Katherine.

Its ok I've settled on just wearing the dress and dealing with everything until my bf gets out of college and I may move in with him if we're still together, or even if we aren't, I'm sure he would let me, he's nice like that. so maybe just 2-4 more years of this left?

I suggest putting your foot down on the glasses issue though. You need those to see.

My dad just says to do what she wants I'm even getting hair extensions (which I cannot take out) and I have to dye my hair a boring brown just to match her hair and the flower girl :(