Susan's Place Transgender Resources

A good friend of mine recommended this site as a friendly, helpful place where I could ask questions, access information, and just generally hang out with other trans people.  So, here I am.  I'm really happy to be here.

I'm from New Zealand.  I'm an analyst and, in my spare time, a sculptor.  I was assigned female at birth, and have reached a point in my life where I can't ignore the fact that I'm male anymore.

I really don't know how I define myself yet.  I have obvious somatic mosaicism, and because of that I suspect I may be intersex.  I'm pretty clear that my gender is male, but I'm not pursuing transition for a number of reasons and actually don't object to living as a woman.  It's physically being a woman that gives me dysphoria.  My body's just not what my brain expects it to be.

*hugs*

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^reference I'm sure no one but me still remembers

It's nice to meet you! =] This place is all of that, plus it washes your dishes. Or so I've been told, not sure what profile option I have to tick for that to start happening.

Hi Mosaic dude  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's  :)  I'm sure you'll find several friends with great experiences and advise to share

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V M

Welcome from southern California!

I had to look "somatic mosaicism" up.  Yes, I think that could be an intersex condition.

Welcome Mosaic dude,

Greetings from Sydney.
In under 24 hours I've already met some lovely people.  You're in good hands and it looks like this circle will always protect you :)

Keep warm,
G

p/s: Yes I too had to look up 'somatic mosaicism'.

Hi Mosaic dude, despite what you may have heard, all dishwashing here is done by hand.....my hands! So don't make a big mess in the kitchen. Nice to meet you, I'm from Boston. Hugs, Devlyn

Hi Mosaic,

Yet another big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. I'm so pleased you're dropped in to have a look around and possible call it home. You have a remarkable friend obviously, who is doing the right thing by you. Friends like that are priceless.

Hey, and just because you are on the other side of theTasman, (the Creek) we won't hold that against you.  ;D  The land of the long white cloud is a mighty land. It's so special you see the sun 4 hours before we do. In fact by the time it reaches us in Sydney, it's already second hand. Treat it well for us please :laugh:

How proactive is your community there? Is it supportive and progressive? In my overall research for GCS surgeons, I actually rang the centre at I think it was Auckland hospital. From the information I gathered, I felt there may have been a lack of community support. It was very pricey too, over 35,000NZD.

Susan's is a good place for resources, information and friendships, and they abound here for YOU. Hope you enjoy your stay, and it's long. I look forward to hearing more from you in time to come, so in the meantime, be safe, well and happy

Lotsa huggs
Catherine

Thanks for the warm welcome everyone!

Catherine Sarah;
To answer your questions, I'm not aware that we have a commuinity as such.  I haven't encountered anything like that - not that that means it's not there, of course.  I'm in Wellington, which is a pretty progressive kind of place generally, but there's no visible TS community AFAIK.  Your estimate for surgery seems fairly accurate from my own investigations.  I have looked into it, but can't afford it.

Hi Mosaic , :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 7473  strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-5.gif&hash=cfc7a68438be4575d8493dfbe65d1b3586f10b81)
Janet  (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fupload.wikimedia.org%2Fwikipedia%2Fcommons%2F3%2F32%2FPentacle_1.svg&hash=99e763d33bc5c4d79014cb34bf6acb3dfec8befb)

damn it why do these women always beat me to welcoming people anyways welcome from far north queensland

Quote from: Justin 21 on July 09, 2012, 04:03:17 AM
damn it why do these women always beat me to welcoming people anyways welcome from far north queensland

Hi Justin,
You handsome man. We get the sunshine before you do, that's why  :laugh:   :laugh:   ::)

Lotsa huggs
Catherine

Quote from: Mosaic dude on July 08, 2012, 07:04:06 PM
Thanks for the warm welcome everyone!

It's the very least we can do for such a lovely Kiwi.

Quote from: Mosaic dude on July 08, 2012, 07:04:06 PM
I'm not aware that we have a community as such.  I haven't encountered anything like that - not that that means it's not there, of course.  I'm in Wellington, which is a pretty progressive kind of place generally, but there's no visible TS community AFAIK.

Is it worth contacting your area public health service who may know of such groups? I think the Seahorse Society have an outreach in NZ, although they are traditionally a CD network, they may know of local TG groups that would be essential for your development and social outlets. Have you tried the resources page here? I know there is a mountain of information and resources here, surely there must be something available for you. This is not the sort of journey you want to take a 'Robinson Crusoe' outlook on.

Quote from: Mosaic dude on July 08, 2012, 07:04:06 PM
Your estimate for surgery seems fairly accurate from my own investigations.  I have looked into it, but can't afford it.

I did that, just to cover all bases. Obviously cheaper in the States, but I'm not sure how your dollar converts to USD. Just a 'tad' cheaper in Thailand, but then again I don't know how your dollar shapes up there either.

Let us know your thoughts and feelings. Can't be a good place for you to be in psychologically.

Be safe, well and happy
Lotsa huggs
Catherine

QuoteIs it worth contacting your area public health service who may know of such groups? I think the Seahorse Society have an outreach in NZ, although they are traditionally a CD network, they may know of local TG groups that would be essential for your development and social outlets. Have you tried the resources page here? I know there is a mountain of information and resources here, surely there must be something available for you. This is not the sort of journey you want to take a 'Robinson Crusoe' outlook on.

Yeah, contacting the public health service is probably a good idea, and what with one thing and another I haven't yet got around to really looking into the resource pages here.  I need to do that.

QuoteObviously cheaper in the States, but I'm not sure how your dollar converts to USD. Just a 'tad' cheaper in Thailand, but then again I don't know how your dollar shapes up there either.

Overall, I'd think Thailand would work out cheaper when you factor in the exchange rate and travel/accommodation costs.  I must admit I don't quite see why top surgery has to be so expensive.  Surely it's just a matter of removing some tissue and rearranging the nipples a bit?  But then, I'm no surgeon.  It's probably a lot more complex than that.

Welcome Mosaic dude from a fellow new comer.