Community Conversation => Significant Others talk => Topic started by: annie.rushden on April 14, 2007, 10:40:08 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Introducing myself
Post by: annie.rushden on April 14, 2007, 10:40:08 AM
Post by: annie.rushden on April 14, 2007, 10:40:08 AM
I am very happily married to a MtF TS soulmate. She is in transition now. The first 5 years of marriage (with her in the closet) were a bit rough. She came out to me just over a year ago and today our marriage is stronger than ever and filled with joy.
There is a lot to deal with, sure, being the wife of a TS... but I wouldn't trade this for anything. I have my soulmate here and happy, finally. I keep a blog at http://annierushden.blogspot.com is anyone would like to read it. I talk about the issues that face us as a couple in transition. It's a fairly upbeat place to visit :)
So, hiya everyone!
There is a lot to deal with, sure, being the wife of a TS... but I wouldn't trade this for anything. I have my soulmate here and happy, finally. I keep a blog at http://annierushden.blogspot.com is anyone would like to read it. I talk about the issues that face us as a couple in transition. It's a fairly upbeat place to visit :)
So, hiya everyone!
Title: Re: Introducing myself
Post by: RebeccaFog on April 14, 2007, 12:28:59 PM
Post by: RebeccaFog on April 14, 2007, 12:28:59 PM
Hi Annie,
I think your point of view is fantastic!
Welcome Welcome Welcome
hugs,
Rebecca
I think your point of view is fantastic!
Welcome Welcome Welcome
hugs,
Rebecca
Title: Re: Introducing myself
Post by: Ms Bev on April 15, 2007, 10:29:35 PM
Post by: Ms Bev on April 15, 2007, 10:29:35 PM
Annie
Welcome to Susan's!
I am a mtf in transition now for the last 2 1/4 yrs, and happily married, still to the amazingly wonderful woman I married 3 decades ago. Although a number of people here would suggest I am my wife's 'girlfriend', nothing could be further from the truth. Truth is......I am still the same person inside I always was. The person she married is still in there, smiling through a somewhat milder, softer face. We have a better relationship than any other couple I know, ts or not.
Our lovelife is private, but I will assure you, is more joyful and enjoyable than ever. It would be helpful if more people would relate their positive stories of marriage survival during and after transition.
Bev
Welcome to Susan's!
I am a mtf in transition now for the last 2 1/4 yrs, and happily married, still to the amazingly wonderful woman I married 3 decades ago. Although a number of people here would suggest I am my wife's 'girlfriend', nothing could be further from the truth. Truth is......I am still the same person inside I always was. The person she married is still in there, smiling through a somewhat milder, softer face. We have a better relationship than any other couple I know, ts or not.
Our lovelife is private, but I will assure you, is more joyful and enjoyable than ever. It would be helpful if more people would relate their positive stories of marriage survival during and after transition.
Bev
Title: Re: Introducing myself
Post by: KarenLyn on April 15, 2007, 10:34:08 PM
Post by: KarenLyn on April 15, 2007, 10:34:08 PM
Hi Annie! And welcome! It's nice to have another couple who can adapt to transition and not just survive but flourish. We'll look forward to hearing from you.
♪ Karen Lyn ♫
♪ Karen Lyn ♫
Title: Re: Introducing myself
Post by: tinkerbell on April 15, 2007, 10:36:25 PM
Post by: tinkerbell on April 15, 2007, 10:36:25 PM
Hello Annie and welcome to Susan's!
Thank you for your introduction. Please take a second to get familiar with all the forums of the site, review the site rules and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page. We look forward to your future posts and participation. Enjoy your stay!
tink :icon_chick:
Thank you for your introduction. Please take a second to get familiar with all the forums of the site, review the site rules and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page. We look forward to your future posts and participation. Enjoy your stay!
tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Introducing myself
Post by: rhonda13000 on April 16, 2007, 04:43:18 AM
Post by: rhonda13000 on April 16, 2007, 04:43:18 AM
Quote from: annie.rushden on April 14, 2007, 10:40:08 AM
I am very happily married to a MtF TS soulmate. She is in transition now. The first 5 years of marriage (with her in the closet) were a bit rough. She came out to me just over a year ago and today our marriage is stronger than ever and filled with joy.
There is a lot to deal with, sure, being the wife of a TS... but I wouldn't trade this for anything. I have my soulmate here and happy, finally. I keep a blog at http://annierushden.blogspot.com is anyone would like to read it. I talk about the issues that face us as a couple in transition. It's a fairly upbeat place to visit :)
So, hiya everyone!
I both commend you and envy you, Annie; I lost my best friend secondary to my TS.
Even so, I so wish that she had not had to suffer as she did through it all, but both God and I will continue to 'be there' for her.
Welcome to this...sanctuary. :)