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Title: Passing help?
Post by: Dan G. on September 09, 2012, 11:15:53 PM
So, I have a really well...to put it bluntly, LARGE chest. It makes it IMPOSSIBLE for me to, as much as I hate the word, "pass". I've tried binding, I've tried sports bras, baggy shirts, etc., I've tried everything. I feel pretty hopeless at this point. I mean, I was at a church picnic today with my family, and some people a couple years younger, a group of them, were pointing at me, and loudly saying, "Is that a dude or a chick??", and then "OHDUDE IT'S A GIRL" and laughing at me. I felt like a freak, and I really wish I had something better to handle my chest with. any suggestions? :C
Title: Re: Passing help?
Post by: MadelineB on September 10, 2012, 12:47:27 AM
Quote from: Burento on September 09, 2012, 11:15:53 PM
So, I have a really well...to put it bluntly, LARGE chest. It makes it IMPOSSIBLE for me to, as much as I hate the word, "pass". I've tried binding, I've tried sports bras, baggy shirts, etc., I've tried everything. I feel pretty hopeless at this point. I mean, I was at a church picnic today with my family, and some people a couple years younger, a group of them, were pointing at me, and loudly saying, "Is that a dude or a chick??", and then "OHDUDE IT'S A GIRL" and laughing at me. I felt like a freak, and I really wish I had something better to handle my chest with. any suggestions? :C
Burento I'm no expert here since I have the opposite problem. But you are going to need a well constructed and well fitted binder that is designed for large chests.

Here's a link to a couple of good threads on Susan's discussing the same subject:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=89184.0 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=89184.0)
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=124636.0 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=124636.0)
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=87171.0 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=87171.0)
Title: Re: Passing help?
Post by: Dan G. on September 10, 2012, 11:18:22 AM
Quote from: MadelineB on September 10, 2012, 12:47:27 AM
Burento I'm no expert here since I have the opposite problem. But you are going to need a well constructed and well fitted binder that is designed for large chests.

Here's a link to a couple of good threads on Susan's discussing the same subject:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=89184.0 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=89184.0)
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=124636.0 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=124636.0)
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=87171.0 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=87171.0)

Oh! Thank you so much! I'll check those out.
Title: Re: Passing help?
Post by: ShaunaNinjagirl on September 13, 2012, 07:23:30 AM
I would say save for surgery ASAP, work two jobs if you have too. It makes life hard in the short term, but be strong and your dreams will come true.