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i am very interested in the ability to achieve a female-type orgasm, i am aware of people born physically male, being able to achieve an orgasm that is either similar or pretty much identical to one a woman would have, what is the technique to achieving it? and will my being started recently on E help me with it?

Angel, I PMed you with how to do this. Please let me know how it works for you.

I haven't noticed any difference after SRS and 20 months of hormones.

Quote from: DrillQuip on September 11, 2012, 11:16:37 PM
I didn't realize orgasms felt different. Maybe how the genitals feel, but I mean a good orgasm takes over the whole body. I thought it was that way with the male body too. Hmm...

I've had some good ones as a guy, but never ever a full body until my mind uncovered the female within...

OMG what a difference...

Short version of female "O" (there are several types of orgasm, btw):

While sitting on a chair, (tucked), clench thighs together...release. While doing that, do "Kegels". Together, apart, randomly...work out a rhythm that feels good to you.

Start rocking slowly front and back while clenching/Kegeling. It takes a bit of practice, but once you get the hang of it... :P ...and don't do this while driving.  :police:

ETA: I think a "full body" orgasm requires full-body stimulation...a partner's leg caressing your leg, "spooning", arms entwined, etc. Just let yourself go, in the pleasure of the other person...that's the only times I've had one.

Damn, did the temp just go up...? I need some fresh air... :-X

I would comment but don't want to get in trouble for being too graphic XD

So we are talking about pre-op "female orgasms?"

Quote from: UCBerkeleyPostop on September 15, 2012, 02:32:13 PM
So we are talking about pre-op "female orgasms?"

Sounds like it...

Quote from: AngelofthePlains on September 10, 2012, 07:19:27 PM
i am very interested in the ability to achieve a female-type orgasm, i am aware of people born physically male, being able to achieve an orgasm that is either similar or pretty much identical to one a woman would have, what is the technique to achieving it? and will my being started recently on E help me with it?

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Angel, I PMed you with how to do this. Please let me know how it works for you.

agfrommd, I want to know too! 

I've had some incredible orgasms.  I didn't know they could be better or even different.

Not being a ciswoman, I don't know if what I experience comes close to a female orgasm, and I suppose I never will. But being handicapped, imagination is a powerful tool for me and I find the pleasure originates in the prostate and then rolls through my body.

There were two specific things which finally allowed me to admit and settle my trans status:

- My sexuality didn't have to change if my gender identity did.
- Upon viewing myself in the 'correct' gender within the realm of sexual fantasy I awakened my nearly completely dormant sexuality, experiencing a female sexual arousal exactly as I've read it described and achieving a very powerful and different kind of orgasm.  I was completely blown away mentally by this experience because it was truly new to me and was also the first time that the idea of sex became anything more than undesirably mechanical and dull.

  This response even occurred once without any ejaculation or associated contractions which also came (no pun intended) as a great surprise.  It tensed up different muscles, covered a larger area and also lasted longer.  Mood is very key and fantasy imagery or writing has a big impact on success.  It's harder to achieve but the same can be said for cis women.  I also found that an erection was almost completely counter-productive and generally short-circuited the whole process.

  I won't get any more graphic as I'm sure how you get there is different for everyone, but to be clear I'm describing this in terms of masturbation.  (No real world sex for me so far.  In case you're wondering though I generally have to imagine myself with a dominant female for this to work.)

As I transition, I find that they are more focused on my entire body. And now truly last much much longer. Let us know...

You have 7 chakra points. Find them, focus on them. Practice feeling them on a regular basis. Then have an orgasm. It will be a full body thing. Shoot the pleasure up and down your spine. At first you'll get it up to your abdomen, then the solar plexus and for some reason it bounces round to the back of my head. If you've seen an Egyptian ankh, the energy moves in the same shape. Its quite easy but it takes some practice.  It is quite exhilarating.

Quote from: CRTS on September 17, 2012, 02:27:01 PM
As I transition, I find that they are more focused on my entire body. And now truly last much much longer. Let us know...

Every cis-woman I've talked to about orgasms know *exactly* what I mean when I say, "OMG! Women can have *gasps* full-body orgasms!"...they all have nodded and said, "Oh yeaaaaahhh..." Multiple types of orgasms, the importance of various touches (light, strong, etc), a breath into the ear, the back/spine, the collarbone...

They know of these things.  :) And I recall women trying to tell me (when I was a guy) about them, but I was only interested in *one* thing..."tab A into slot B"

When will men ever learn!?!