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Title: Dating
Post by: HayleyVera on September 24, 2012, 05:07:54 PM
Post by: HayleyVera on September 24, 2012, 05:07:54 PM
Hey everyone, so I've been single for about 5 years now and living full time as a female for 3. Does anyone know of any good dating sites for transwomen or where to meet people in real life?
Thank, Hayley.
Thank, Hayley.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Alainaluvsu on September 24, 2012, 05:33:17 PM
Post by: Alainaluvsu on September 24, 2012, 05:33:17 PM
I use OKCupid, its free! But its not trans per se.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Rita on September 24, 2012, 06:07:02 PM
Post by: Rita on September 24, 2012, 06:07:02 PM
If you can I would venture into the open, tbh I would avoid anything trans like a plague.
In all honesty most people you pick up from there are gonna be nasty pervs.
In all honesty most people you pick up from there are gonna be nasty pervs.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: HayleyVera on September 24, 2012, 07:43:10 PM
Post by: HayleyVera on September 24, 2012, 07:43:10 PM
I'm pretty sure I've been on every dating site on the internet lol. And yes, everyone I've met is a nasty perv.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Annah on September 24, 2012, 07:45:26 PM
Post by: Annah on September 24, 2012, 07:45:26 PM
I did OKcupid...then once I established myself here in my area I just went out with people I met at various places I am part of
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: HayleyVera on September 24, 2012, 07:53:15 PM
Post by: HayleyVera on September 24, 2012, 07:53:15 PM
That's my problem, im not working at the moment and not in school so I never meet anyone to go out with.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: UCBerkeleyPostop on September 24, 2012, 08:49:55 PM
Post by: UCBerkeleyPostop on September 24, 2012, 08:49:55 PM
Quote from: HayleyVera on September 24, 2012, 07:53:15 PM
That's my problem, im not working at the moment and not in school so I never meet anyone to go out with.
Get involved with something! Volunteer. Obama and Romney need campaign workers. I wish I could go to Nevada or Colorado to work on Obama's campaign like in 2008. Lot of opportunity to meet like-minded people. Of course, amazingly, there are some people here who are Republicans. So you could also meet really cool Romney campaign workers. How cool would that be? ::) ::) ::) ::) >:-) >:-) >:-) >:-) >:-)
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Ave on September 24, 2012, 09:21:58 PM
Post by: Ave on September 24, 2012, 09:21:58 PM
Quote from: UCBerkeleyPostop on September 24, 2012, 08:49:55 PM
Get involved with something! Volunteer. Obama and Romney need campaign workers. I wish I could go to Nevada or Colorado to work on Obama's campaign like in 2008. Lot of opportunity to meet like-minded people. Of course, amazingly, there are some people here who are Republicans. So you could also meet really cool Romney campaign workers. How cool would that be? ::) ::) ::) ::) >:-) >:-) >:-) >:-) >:-)
Yes girl, throw that shade ::)
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Jamie D on September 24, 2012, 09:29:41 PM
Post by: Jamie D on September 24, 2012, 09:29:41 PM
Quote from: UCBerkeleyPostop on September 24, 2012, 08:49:55 PM
Get involved with something! Volunteer. Obama and Romney need campaign workers. I wish I could go to Nevada or Colorado to work on Obama's campaign like in 2008. Lot of opportunity to meet like-minded people. Of course, amazingly, there are some people here who are Republicans. So you could also meet really cool Romney campaign workers. How cool would that be? ::) ::) ::) ::) >:-) >:-) >:-) >:-) >:-)
In the 2010 general election, based on exit polling data, 31% of those who self-identified as GLBTQ cast a Republican vote. That was up from 19% in 2008.
Given the current state of the economy, I would be amazed it that figure did not increase.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: eli77 on September 24, 2012, 09:38:21 PM
Post by: eli77 on September 24, 2012, 09:38:21 PM
I told someone recently that friends are a factor of proximity and shared interests. Finding people to date kind of works the same way. If you go do things you like to do with a group of people who also like the same thing the chance of meeting someone you like is fairly high. That can be volunteering or a hobby or whatever.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Kevin Peña on September 24, 2012, 09:53:47 PM
Post by: Kevin Peña on September 24, 2012, 09:53:47 PM
Ladies and gentlemen, let's leave the politics out of this, please.
Yes.
I'd say that you don't need school or work to be doing something. That seems to be a bit boring. I'm in school, but I wouldn't date anyone there. Then again, I wouldn't date anyone, but that's irrelevant. My point is that you should find something that you enjoy and meet people doing those things. For me, that would be being a volunteer firefighter. Heck, you could even just walk around your neighborhood or along the beach and talk to random people. I do it all of the time. Talking to strangers is a lot more fun than just being a stick in the sand. You never know what someone is like until you meet them. Try to be more outgoing. Life's more fun that way.
Quote from: Sarah7 on September 24, 2012, 09:38:21 PM
I told someone recently that friends are a factor of proximity and shared interests. Finding people to date kind of works the same way. If you go do things you like to do with a group of people who also like the same thing the chance of meeting someone you like is fairly high. That can be volunteering or a hobby or whatever.
Yes.
I'd say that you don't need school or work to be doing something. That seems to be a bit boring. I'm in school, but I wouldn't date anyone there. Then again, I wouldn't date anyone, but that's irrelevant. My point is that you should find something that you enjoy and meet people doing those things. For me, that would be being a volunteer firefighter. Heck, you could even just walk around your neighborhood or along the beach and talk to random people. I do it all of the time. Talking to strangers is a lot more fun than just being a stick in the sand. You never know what someone is like until you meet them. Try to be more outgoing. Life's more fun that way.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Devlyn on September 25, 2012, 09:29:39 AM
Post by: Devlyn on September 25, 2012, 09:29:39 AM
I'll date you, Haley, but rule one is "love me, love my dogs." Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Ave on September 25, 2012, 10:43:18 AM
Post by: Ave on September 25, 2012, 10:43:18 AM
Some of those Republicans are actually cute! And never mind how many of them I've seen on Grindr :).
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: HayleyVera on September 25, 2012, 10:08:43 PM
Post by: HayleyVera on September 25, 2012, 10:08:43 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on September 25, 2012, 09:29:39 AM
I'll date you, Haley, but rule one is "love me, love my dogs." Hugs, Devlyn
Sounds good, I love dogs.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Brooke777 on September 25, 2012, 10:27:58 PM
Post by: Brooke777 on September 25, 2012, 10:27:58 PM
If you were in the Seattle area, we could hang out. I am really good at meeting people. I seem to meet someone new almost every day.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Devlyn on September 26, 2012, 12:33:06 PM
Post by: Devlyn on September 26, 2012, 12:33:06 PM
Woohoo! See kids, it's as easy as just asking! I knew having those dogs would pan out someday! Seriously, that is the common interest factor at work. It is a great way to meet people. Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Jamie D on September 26, 2012, 12:36:56 PM
Post by: Jamie D on September 26, 2012, 12:36:56 PM
Dog lovers of the world unite!
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: twit on September 26, 2012, 04:01:56 PM
Post by: twit on September 26, 2012, 04:01:56 PM
Quote from: HayleyVera on September 24, 2012, 07:43:10 PMGuys in real life are often nasty pervs too.
I'm pretty sure I've been on every dating site on the internet lol. And yes, everyone I've met is a nasty perv.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Brooke777 on September 26, 2012, 04:05:25 PM
Post by: Brooke777 on September 26, 2012, 04:05:25 PM
Every guy that has hit on me has given me the creeps.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: JennX on September 26, 2012, 05:37:52 PM
Post by: JennX on September 26, 2012, 05:37:52 PM
Quote from: Brooke777 on September 26, 2012, 04:05:25 PM
Every guy that has hit on me has given me the creeps.
There are a lot of creepers... but you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. There are a few good ones left out there. Not many though.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Kevin Peña on September 26, 2012, 05:41:39 PM
Post by: Kevin Peña on September 26, 2012, 05:41:39 PM
Quote from: JennX on September 26, 2012, 05:37:52 PM
There are a lot of creepers... but you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. There are a few good ones left out there. Not many though.
Tell me about it. There aren't many good ladies left either, so I guess no one has an advantage...
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Brooke777 on September 26, 2012, 05:46:55 PM
Post by: Brooke777 on September 26, 2012, 05:46:55 PM
Quote from: JennX on September 26, 2012, 05:37:52 PM
There are a lot of creepers... but you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. There are a few good ones left out there. Not many though.
This is another reason I prefer women. They are not creepy, and they are better kissers. But, if a non-creepy guy hits on me, I would not turn him away.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: twit on September 26, 2012, 09:27:20 PM
Post by: twit on September 26, 2012, 09:27:20 PM
Quote from: JennX on September 26, 2012, 05:37:52 PMI can actually picture a few guys that have hit on me saying "hey honey, you wanna kiss my frog?" lol
There are a lot of creepers... but you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. There are a few good ones left out there. Not many though.
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Devlyn on September 27, 2012, 06:01:30 PM
Post by: Devlyn on September 27, 2012, 06:01:30 PM
Looks like we got a live one!
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,127396.new.html#new (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,127396.new.html#new)
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,127396.new.html#new (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,127396.new.html#new)
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Sly on September 27, 2012, 09:08:36 PM
Post by: Sly on September 27, 2012, 09:08:36 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on September 27, 2012, 06:01:30 PMHello ladies...
Looks like we got a live one!
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,127396.new.html#new (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,127396.new.html#new)
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Kevin Peña on September 27, 2012, 09:11:25 PM
Post by: Kevin Peña on September 27, 2012, 09:11:25 PM
Quote from: Sly on September 27, 2012, 09:08:36 PM
Hello ladies...
I swear, this thread made several mention of creepy guys, and I couldn't help but think that this fit the bill. :laugh:
Title: Re: Dating
Post by: Brooke777 on September 27, 2012, 10:11:59 PM
Post by: Brooke777 on September 27, 2012, 10:11:59 PM
Quote from: DianaP on September 27, 2012, 09:11:25 PM
I swear, this thread made several mention of creepy guys, and I couldn't help but think that this fit the bill. :laugh:
Yes, that intro does fall within the realm of creepy. However, after reading some of Sly's posts I would have to say that he is not creepy. Hopefully he does not prove me wrong.