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Title: It finally happened.... Finally!
Post by: Reagan on October 02, 2012, 07:57:21 AM
Post by: Reagan on October 02, 2012, 07:57:21 AM
Okay so my wife and I were shopping for our new dresses for Pride weekend so we went to the mall. I was having a bad day and decided to dress more masculine. I just didn't wan to bother with getting all done up. So at the department store my wife and I found some dresses for her to try on. So she was off to the fitting room. After a few moments she came out and asked me to join her. I did, but at fist I was a little nervous walking past the Department store employee. She didn't even give me a second look. So I thought great!
We then finished up and went to dinner. At dinner the server kept asking if you ladies need anything else or what can I get you ladies. I was beaming. Here I am in blue jeans, tee-shirt, hoody, ball cap and no make-up. I'm getting clocked as girl. So that's why the lady at the store didn't give me a second look. Now I'm passing with out even trying to pass. I thought this day would never come.
I told myself that when this starts to happen then I will go full-time. Not that I would have much choice. So I have set a date to go full-time.
For what started out to be a very crappy dysphoric day turned out to be pretty meaningful.
We then finished up and went to dinner. At dinner the server kept asking if you ladies need anything else or what can I get you ladies. I was beaming. Here I am in blue jeans, tee-shirt, hoody, ball cap and no make-up. I'm getting clocked as girl. So that's why the lady at the store didn't give me a second look. Now I'm passing with out even trying to pass. I thought this day would never come.
I told myself that when this starts to happen then I will go full-time. Not that I would have much choice. So I have set a date to go full-time.
For what started out to be a very crappy dysphoric day turned out to be pretty meaningful.
Title: Re: It finally happened.... Finally!
Post by: Beth Andrea on October 02, 2012, 09:06:47 AM
Post by: Beth Andrea on October 02, 2012, 09:06:47 AM
That sounds great! I'm happy for you!! :)
Title: Re: It finally happened.... Finally!
Post by: MadelineB on October 03, 2012, 03:20:10 AM
Post by: MadelineB on October 03, 2012, 03:20:10 AM
Quote from: Reagan on October 02, 2012, 07:57:21 AMCongratulations Reagan! On setting a date, and on realizing that not only are you a woman every hour of every day, but that it is becoming obvious to the whole world. It sounds like if you wait any longer, people will just be seeing you as that beautiful woman with the mannish clothes and the male sounding name. :)
Now I'm passing with out even trying to pass. I thought this day would never come.
I told myself that when this starts to happen then I will go full-time. Not that I would have much choice. So I have set a date to go full-time.
For what started out to be a very crappy dysphoric day turned out to be pretty meaningful.
Title: Re: It finally happened.... Finally!
Post by: Cindy on October 03, 2012, 03:40:49 AM
Post by: Cindy on October 03, 2012, 03:40:49 AM
Me thinks someone had better stop pretending and blossom into the beautiful lady that she has been hiding :-*
Nature does have a way of saying 'go for it'
Nature does have a way of saying 'go for it'
Title: Re: It finally happened.... Finally!
Post by: Reagan on October 03, 2012, 06:34:49 AM
Post by: Reagan on October 03, 2012, 06:34:49 AM
Thanks Ladies....
I've always been a bit of a procrastinator and it seem that it is time to let go and feel free to finally be free. That night my wife was kinda snickering at me before we he went out. She was telling me that there is no way you pass as a guy anymore (not that I really cared). She went on to ask me if I could find the male side in me anymore. I thought about it and we both looked at each other and laughed. It's gone, gone for good. We both are prepared for the finality of the transition and are welcoming it. She tells me now that she only see a woman when she looks at me now. We have been much happier and I can only see things getting better.
I've always been a bit of a procrastinator and it seem that it is time to let go and feel free to finally be free. That night my wife was kinda snickering at me before we he went out. She was telling me that there is no way you pass as a guy anymore (not that I really cared). She went on to ask me if I could find the male side in me anymore. I thought about it and we both looked at each other and laughed. It's gone, gone for good. We both are prepared for the finality of the transition and are welcoming it. She tells me now that she only see a woman when she looks at me now. We have been much happier and I can only see things getting better.
Title: Re: It finally happened.... Finally!
Post by: justmeinoz on October 03, 2012, 07:32:16 AM
Post by: justmeinoz on October 03, 2012, 07:32:16 AM
Good news all round then. It's heartening to hear from someone whose partner truly does want to stay married "till death do us part" and can see you and love you for who you are.
Karen.
Karen.
Title: Re: It finally happened.... Finally!
Post by: Jenny_B_Good on October 04, 2012, 07:24:43 AM
Post by: Jenny_B_Good on October 04, 2012, 07:24:43 AM
Posts like this, always make me smile :angel:
Thank you soo much!!
Jenny
OXOXOX
Thank you soo much!!
Jenny
OXOXOX