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Title: Questions about straight guys
Post by: LadyRaven87 on October 09, 2012, 12:42:09 AM
Post by: LadyRaven87 on October 09, 2012, 12:42:09 AM
Well for awhile i have been doing the transition from mtf and i have been noticing that a few of my straight guy friends have been challenging any guy that shows interest. One have been doing it badly lately. A lot of the guys have been asking advice and stuff in life. and they listen. Unlike before when i was a guy to them. Should i expect this behavior from them? Should i worry about the one straight friend that wont let me go to clubs, food places, or even for a walk by myself without him near me?
Title: Re: Questions about straight guys
Post by: judithlynn on October 09, 2012, 02:58:17 AM
Post by: judithlynn on October 09, 2012, 02:58:17 AM
Hi LadyRaven87;
Although I am not into men, your straight friend sounds very protective to me. I would if I was you get into a more of a relationship with him. He sounds as though he wants to look after you as a woman. Enjoy it, in fact revel into. It can be very fulfilling to you, if you want it. I have a friend who transitioned, had a male friend through that period that she was close to, started dating, then fell in love and got married. She is now very fulfilled as a housewife with a very protective and loving man. They make a great team.
Best of luck
Hugs
Judith Lynn
Although I am not into men, your straight friend sounds very protective to me. I would if I was you get into a more of a relationship with him. He sounds as though he wants to look after you as a woman. Enjoy it, in fact revel into. It can be very fulfilling to you, if you want it. I have a friend who transitioned, had a male friend through that period that she was close to, started dating, then fell in love and got married. She is now very fulfilled as a housewife with a very protective and loving man. They make a great team.
Best of luck
Hugs
Judith Lynn