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Title: Wife's cloths
Post by: janis on November 14, 2012, 11:24:53 AM
Post by: janis on November 14, 2012, 11:24:53 AM
Hi.
I have a question about my wife's cloths? She passed away two and a half
years ago, and I would like to know if I should start getting rid of her cloth's
And just have my own? When I hold them I can still feel her presence with me
knowing she understands what I am going through being TG and all, it's like saying
everything is all right.I Miss Her So Much, Sometimes I Just Can Not Bear It.
I think the only thing that keeps me going is my 2 Daughters witch I Love so
much. I have 1 grandson and another on it's way
Thank You All For Listening,
Janis
Title: Re: Wife's cloths
Post by: peky on November 14, 2012, 12:03:12 PM
Post by: peky on November 14, 2012, 12:03:12 PM
After both of my parents died, I went through their cloths, and kept some of them. Some I gave them to my teen boys and girls. My girls were fascinated by some of my Mom's old dresses. We took them to a seamstress and had them fit for the girls, it is hoot.
My boys got coats and jackets that were my dads. It makes me s=mile when I see them wearing them
After my ex left, I asked my daughters if they wanted their Mom's cloths, they said: "no, just donate them," and so it went.
I keep a sweater that belonged to my dad, and an scarf that belong to my Mom, I like to smell them every know and them.
My boys got coats and jackets that were my dads. It makes me s=mile when I see them wearing them
After my ex left, I asked my daughters if they wanted their Mom's cloths, they said: "no, just donate them," and so it went.
I keep a sweater that belonged to my dad, and an scarf that belong to my Mom, I like to smell them every know and them.
Title: Re: Wife's cloths
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on November 14, 2012, 12:05:44 PM
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on November 14, 2012, 12:05:44 PM
If you keep a few for that connection, that could help.
Do any of her things fit you or your daughters?
And remember we hold our loved ones in our heart. She shall always be with you, every time you remember a good time.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-5.gif&hash=cfc7a68438be4575d8493dfbe65d1b3586f10b81) , Janis
Do any of her things fit you or your daughters?
And remember we hold our loved ones in our heart. She shall always be with you, every time you remember a good time.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-5.gif&hash=cfc7a68438be4575d8493dfbe65d1b3586f10b81) , Janis