Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Topic started by: Caitlin on November 18, 2012, 11:59:37 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Ways to pay for Transition
Post by: Caitlin on November 18, 2012, 11:59:37 PM
Post by: Caitlin on November 18, 2012, 11:59:37 PM
As I am brainstorming my own, I just thought I would see what some of the other ways that were used to transition. Kinds of Jobs, Insurance, Odd Jobs, Credit, Loans, Student Loans, etc?
Caitlin Nicole
Caitlin Nicole
Title: Re: Ways to pay for Transition
Post by: Cindy on November 19, 2012, 02:22:02 AM
Post by: Cindy on November 19, 2012, 02:22:02 AM
Well a job that is in an area that is accepting of different types of people is a good start. Or your own business.
You may have problems in heavy industry type positions that are 'typically' male. Although I note that in Australia many of the drivers of those giant dump trucks at the mines are female; better drivers :laugh:.
But to be honest, live your dreams, just because you need SRS to make you appear more like your true gender doesn't really change anything, life is life.
Once you have been there you are just another woman, it's no big deal, in fact it is no deal at all. It's just life.
OK I'm a lot happier, but my life hasn't really changed, my work hasn't changed, my jokes are as bad as ever, I wear far nicer clothes and get my hair done and the woman's toilets at my work are a lot cleaner. But otherwise, no big deal.
Cindy
You may have problems in heavy industry type positions that are 'typically' male. Although I note that in Australia many of the drivers of those giant dump trucks at the mines are female; better drivers :laugh:.
But to be honest, live your dreams, just because you need SRS to make you appear more like your true gender doesn't really change anything, life is life.
Once you have been there you are just another woman, it's no big deal, in fact it is no deal at all. It's just life.
OK I'm a lot happier, but my life hasn't really changed, my work hasn't changed, my jokes are as bad as ever, I wear far nicer clothes and get my hair done and the woman's toilets at my work are a lot cleaner. But otherwise, no big deal.
Cindy
Title: Re: Ways to pay for Transition
Post by: Lucky Peach on November 19, 2012, 02:33:01 AM
Post by: Lucky Peach on November 19, 2012, 02:33:01 AM
Quote from: Cindy James on November 19, 2012, 02:22:02 AM^This is incredibly well said
But to be honest, live your dreams, just because you need SRS to make you appear more like your true gender doesn't really change anything, life is life.
I've always looked at transition as being true to myself. You have to do the things you love, with the people you love, as the person who you were meant to be
Title: Re: Ways to pay for Transition
Post by: Tristan on November 19, 2012, 02:14:55 PM
Post by: Tristan on November 19, 2012, 02:14:55 PM
health care job. you can moonlight to make the cash in under a year
Title: Re: Ways to pay for Transition
Post by: Hikari on November 19, 2012, 02:39:10 PM
Post by: Hikari on November 19, 2012, 02:39:10 PM
I have cut out lots of stuff to save up the money, I no longer pay rent or own a car for example. I am finding the sacrifices a bit hard, but I am not one to be discouraged easily.
Title: Re: Ways to pay for Transition
Post by: Jamison on November 19, 2012, 03:00:31 PM
Post by: Jamison on November 19, 2012, 03:00:31 PM
If it's an option or fits well with your future plans, I believe all UCs (Universities of California) cover the bulk of trans related surgeries. Just a though.
Title: Re: Ways to pay for Transition
Post by: JenniL on November 19, 2012, 10:26:34 PM
Post by: JenniL on November 19, 2012, 10:26:34 PM
I cut out a lot of unnecessary stuff as well. I paid off my credit cards, got rid of my truck,. So no more insurance to pay, no more gas, nor more upkeep. Wow that thing was expensive:) Only thing I pay for is well except the rent, utilities, food, and such. My employer pays for my bus pass so I take the bus everywhere. To work, to the doctor, to the electrolysis, etcetera.
It really depends on what you want to sacrifice as in terms of money. What you can live without essentially.