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Title: I supposed i will too
Post by: Sydneyblue on November 26, 2012, 02:30:09 AM
Post by: Sydneyblue on November 26, 2012, 02:30:09 AM
Im saying hi obviously im new.Ive been on other support sites actually only one.I found it to be helpful in the being but didnt agree with alot of the stuff going on and the people asociated with that site so i left.I stubled apon this site so far the people seem real and i like that.Im not really too happy at the moment.to sum it up for me real fast ive been transitionin for over 2 years and just think its a big fail.Maybe i can get some support because this is it for me i cant keep doing this.
Title: Re: I supposed i will too
Post by: justmeinoz on November 26, 2012, 04:48:14 AM
Post by: justmeinoz on November 26, 2012, 04:48:14 AM
Hi from the other side of the pond. This is a great site and I am sure you will find it a big help and support. I know I have, and also made some great friends. Post away!
Karen.
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Title: Re: I supposed i will too
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on November 26, 2012, 08:13:04 AM
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on November 26, 2012, 08:13:04 AM
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Welcome to our little family. Over 9051 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)
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Title: Re: I supposed i will too
Post by: Catherine Sarah on November 26, 2012, 09:56:15 AM
Post by: Catherine Sarah on November 26, 2012, 09:56:15 AM
Hi Sydney,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
Transition is a very diverse landscape, and is different things for different people. Where do you feel it's all a big fail?
You may be pleasantly surprised when you talk about it, just how common and normal your issue may be. i'll even go so far to say, it's realistically repairable.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine.
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
Transition is a very diverse landscape, and is different things for different people. Where do you feel it's all a big fail?
You may be pleasantly surprised when you talk about it, just how common and normal your issue may be. i'll even go so far to say, it's realistically repairable.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine.
Title: Re: I supposed i will too
Post by: Devlyn on November 27, 2012, 08:21:09 PM
Post by: Devlyn on November 27, 2012, 08:21:09 PM
Hi Sydney, it's nice to meet you! I live near Boston. You meet lots of new friends here, see you around the site! Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: I supposed i will too
Post by: Jamie D on November 29, 2012, 11:13:45 PM
Post by: Jamie D on November 29, 2012, 11:13:45 PM
Quote from: Sydneyblue on November 26, 2012, 02:30:09 AM
Im saying hi obviously im new.Ive been on other support sites actually only one.I found it to be helpful in the being but didnt agree with alot of the stuff going on and the people asociated with that site so i left.I stubled apon this site so far the people seem real and i like that.Im not really too happy at the moment.to sum it up for me real fast ive been transitionin for over 2 years and just think its a big fail.Maybe i can get some support because this is it for me i cant keep doing this.
Sydneyblue, glad to meet you. I don't want you to get down on yourself. Everybody's path is unique. I have been on my own journey for over 50 years.
You haven't said whether you have seen a therapist, or were under any sort of medically supervised HRT, but if so, you should have been advised that these things can take time.
Anyway, hope to see you on the boards, and we can talk some more.
Title: Re: I supposed i will too
Post by: Epoch on November 30, 2012, 10:58:50 AM
Post by: Epoch on November 30, 2012, 10:58:50 AM
Welcome. As Catherine mentioned, I believe it is important to manifest why you feel that transitioning was a fail. What negativity has occurred as a result of your decision? Do you feel like you are getting anything good out of it? What were your long term goals before starting? Have you put yourself out into the world for new experiences as a new you? I feel these are important questions to ask yourself.