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Title: Hello
Post by: Xander2009 on December 02, 2012, 11:47:19 AM
Post by: Xander2009 on December 02, 2012, 11:47:19 AM
Hello my name is Katie and I have been thinking for a while that I am a transgender ftm but then there are times that I am not so sure anymore. I am extrely confused and would aprreciate any advice I could get part of me is ready to take the next step but another part would prefer if I just stayed this way I am uncomfertable with either decision and wouldlove that extra advice on y next step
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on December 02, 2012, 12:23:18 PM
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on December 02, 2012, 12:23:18 PM
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Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Devlyn on December 02, 2012, 12:32:18 PM
Post by: Devlyn on December 02, 2012, 12:32:18 PM
Hi Xander, welcome from Boston! Just hang around and soak up the atmosphere if you like until you sort yourself out. Glad you found the site, hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: gennee on December 02, 2012, 09:08:37 PM
Post by: gennee on December 02, 2012, 09:08:37 PM
Hi Xander and welcome. Read all that you can and feel free to ask any questions that you may have.
:) :)
:) :)
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: Jamie D on December 03, 2012, 04:20:00 AM
Post by: Jamie D on December 03, 2012, 04:20:00 AM
Hi Katie. Welcome to Susan's Place.
I went through a questioning phase - it lasted for decades.
A gender therapist might be able to help you sort of your feelings.
Interacting with the FtM community here may help you figure some stuff out too.
Good luck to you.
I went through a questioning phase - it lasted for decades.
A gender therapist might be able to help you sort of your feelings.
Interacting with the FtM community here may help you figure some stuff out too.
Good luck to you.
Title: Re: Hello
Post by: spring0721 on December 03, 2012, 02:08:09 PM
Post by: spring0721 on December 03, 2012, 02:08:09 PM
I would just give yourself time & not start in any course of action; hormones or surgery wise until you are 100% without any doubts. If you are still young, you have time to grow into the person you truly are.