Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 12:39:07 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 12:39:07 PM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 12:39:07 PM
Well i have felt like i was born in the wrong body since i was little. I loved playing with the girls things and dressing all cute. I have been married twice with two kids and it doesnt matter i always feel like a empty shell as a guy. So i talked to my wife and told her i need to be the person i am so we are no longer together, but my family and friends are 100% on bored. I know i need a ton of work still and everything else to get the look but thats why i am here since all of you have been here before. Ill post some pics and let me know what you think...:)
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Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: Shantel on December 23, 2012, 01:09:24 PM
Post by: Shantel on December 23, 2012, 01:09:24 PM
Quote from: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 12:39:07 PM
Well i have felt like i was born in the wrong body since i was little. I loved playing with the girls things and dressing all cute. I have been married twice with two kids and it doesnt matter i always feel like a empty shell as a guy. So i talked to my wife and told her i need to be the person i am so we are no longer together, but my family and friends are 100% on bored. I know i need a ton of work still and everything else to get the look but thats why i am here since all of you have been here before. Ill post some pics and let me know what you think...:)
3 WEEKS AGO
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NOW
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Wow, Impressive already, you're looking pretty girly to me!
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 01:34:33 PM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 01:34:33 PM
Quote from: Shantel on December 23, 2012, 01:09:24 PM
Wow, Impressive already, you're looking pretty girly to me!
Well thank you... ;D I am still working on my voice and getting myself together. I still need to look into hormones and i am still stumped on where to go for that. I am trying my best and i look forward to talking and getting to know all of you.
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: justmeinoz on December 23, 2012, 03:08:59 PM
Post by: justmeinoz on December 23, 2012, 03:08:59 PM
Hi. You have already taken the biggest step of coming out to yourself, then family. It does get easier each time.
Great progress to date, looking good. Have a great Christmas, girl.
Karen.
Great progress to date, looking good. Have a great Christmas, girl.
Karen.
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: gennee on December 23, 2012, 06:04:26 PM
Post by: gennee on December 23, 2012, 06:04:26 PM
You look great, Ashley. Give your family time. They may come around. At least you have proceeded forward towards your transition.
:)
:)
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 09:06:24 PM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 09:06:24 PM
Thank you for all the warm welcomes. I have so many questions so ill have to start posting some of them up.
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: Cindy on December 23, 2012, 09:22:52 PM
Post by: Cindy on December 23, 2012, 09:22:52 PM
Good for you Ashleylynn. You are looking good.
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 09:47:34 PM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 23, 2012, 09:47:34 PM
Quote from: Cindy James on December 23, 2012, 09:22:52 PM
Good for you Ashleylynn. You are looking good.
Thank you cindy>>>> ;D
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: Jeanette Marie on December 24, 2012, 10:36:55 PM
Post by: Jeanette Marie on December 24, 2012, 10:36:55 PM
You are in the best place you could hope to be for support and guidance. I commend your progress. I'm still moving in and out of it all trying to find my comfort. I see your smile is there are your eyes are bright when in girl mode. You look awesome. Welcome to the family.
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 25, 2012, 08:55:59 PM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 25, 2012, 08:55:59 PM
Quote from: Shantel on December 23, 2012, 01:09:24 PM
Wow, Impressive already, you're looking pretty girly to me!
Quote from: Maelan on December 24, 2012, 10:36:55 PM
You are in the best place you could hope to be for support and guidance. I commend your progress. I'm still moving in and out of it all trying to find my comfort. I see your smile is there are your eyes are bright when in girl mode. You look awesome. Welcome to the family.
Well thank you and yes my eyes are brighter and i am so much happier. I had a blast for Christmas this year to. I will be working on makeup and getting my brows done and such then ill post some new pics.
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: spx_1112 on December 25, 2012, 10:18:01 PM
Post by: spx_1112 on December 25, 2012, 10:18:01 PM
Ashley. Hi its Shannon. Good luck hugs
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 26, 2012, 07:58:41 PM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 26, 2012, 07:58:41 PM
Quote from: spx_1112 on December 25, 2012, 10:18:01 PM
Ashley. Hi its Shannon. Good luck hugs
Well thank you shannon. I went shoe shopping and i love my little feet now....size 8 1/2 and they fit perfect.
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 27, 2012, 11:02:42 AM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 27, 2012, 11:02:42 AM
Well since i have been unemployed i have been gaining some weight. This is me today getting ready to start my day
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Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: spacial on December 27, 2012, 01:02:05 PM
Post by: spacial on December 27, 2012, 01:02:05 PM
You're looking amazing.
But try to be a bit more careful with that weight. The key is, small amounts, think yourself full. Also keep moving, just find things to do.
But that's a nice smile.
But try to be a bit more careful with that weight. The key is, small amounts, think yourself full. Also keep moving, just find things to do.
But that's a nice smile.
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 27, 2012, 03:23:49 PM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 27, 2012, 03:23:49 PM
Thank you. i dont know if i wanna stay with the color of my hair now or go dark brown
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Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 29, 2012, 01:00:41 PM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 29, 2012, 01:00:41 PM
Well today was my first day tanning and it was amazing. The girl was so sweet and helpful and i can already see a tan...:)
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: spacial on December 29, 2012, 04:11:23 PM
Post by: spacial on December 29, 2012, 04:11:23 PM
Quote from: ashleylynn on December 27, 2012, 03:23:49 PM
Thank you. i dont know if i wanna stay with the color of my hair now or go dark brown
That's one of the pluses. :D
Title: Re: Just starting my change into womanhood.
Post by: ashleylynn on December 29, 2012, 05:25:11 PM
Post by: ashleylynn on December 29, 2012, 05:25:11 PM
yes it is but i want to stick to a style or color so when my hair grows out i can stick to it.