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Yo so this feels kinda weird to post but my girlfriends best friend has a baby...i am jealous of his childhood already and of the fact that he has baby bits...if you get me...i feel really bad and weird for this

You're jealous of just him or of every cis male?

I had a lot of jealousy when I was in school of cis males. They always had the best group of friends, could play football, etc. As I grew up the jealousy lessened. I just look at it as some men are privileged enough to be born male and some have to work at it. I still wouldn't give up being trans to have been born cis. We get a unique perspective on the World and I guarantee none of us would be the same people if we had been born cis. I like having a unique perspective that the cis World will never know.

Every cis male and yea i get your perspective, i think/hope that will happen for me

Quote from: Simon on January 30, 2013, 06:20:37 PM
You're jealous of just him or of every cis male?

I had a lot of jealousy when I was in school of cis males. They always had the best group of friends, could play football, etc. As I grew up the jealousy lessened. I just look at it as some men are privileged enough to be born male and some have to work at it. I still wouldn't give up being trans to have been born cis. We get a unique perspective on the World and I guarantee none of us would be the same people if we had been born cis. I like having a unique perspective that the cis World will never know.

I feel the same way. Though oddly, I was never very jealous of cis guys. Okay, I take that back. Reeeeally early on I was. Like in kindergarten and the early grades. Especially if they resembled me or had the name I would have had if I'd been born male. Then I wanted to kill em.  :laugh:

But yeah, now I'm only jealous of the fact they don't have to disclose anything before getting it on. I miss spontaneous sex.

Well it's just a feeling (which I've had) and I think all feelings are okay. It's what you do with them that counts.

--Jay

I understand your feelings man.  I am jealous of almost every cismale on the planet, especially young cisboys.  I can not even be in the same room with a baby boy when he is getting his diaper changed.  It has gotten to a point to where my dreams are even affected from the jealousy.

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I think it is natural for you to be jelous. I think everyone is jelous of something. I was jelous of other guys (especially my brother) when i was growing up. But he was jelous of others and i think we are all jelous or at least we kind of envy others no matter what. Now, as a pretty much completely transition guy, lots of people are jelous of me. Especially in the locker room! They think my 6.5 inch flaccid penis is 10 when its hard, or they are jelous of my muscle mass. They have no idea how hard i worked for both of those things. So I can be jelous of them for being born with everyhing in the right place, and they can be jelous of me thinking i won the genetic lottery.

That baby will grow up and see someone else and be jelous of them for something. penis size, hair line, money, teeth.... etc. just try to keep in perspectiv that everyone has something that makes them feel inferior.


I hope that makes sense or helps or gives you some insight. 

I feel really jealous around baby boys too  :-\ When I see a pregnant women I secretly hope that the baby will be a girl.

Quote from: harlee on January 31, 2013, 06:50:28 PM
When I see a pregnant women I secretly hope that the baby will be a girl.

Geez, it's like you're saying being a girl is a lesser state of being. I don't see anything wrong with being female. It's just not right for me but I'm sure there are billions of others who are fine with their genitalia.

im envious of my 8 year old brother because he has a great lot in life. he is the most attractive athletic and popular out of the 4 of us. he also has abs...