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Title: Form a line, I'm accepting congratulations today!
Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 06:22:26 AM
Today makes twenty seven years since I quit drinking. Alcohol nearly killed me, as any addiction will. If you are having substance abuse issues, please take whatever steps are necessary to take your life back. You will thank yourself for it. Hugs, Devlyn
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Post by: Adam (birkin) on March 04, 2013, 06:46:27 AM
That's amazing Devlyn, and truly inspirational. :) I have a number of people in my family who have struggled with alcohol addiction (most of them aren't alive anymore), so it's always wonderful to hear how someone else has managed to overcome.
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Post by: kira21 ♡♡♡ on March 04, 2013, 06:49:06 AM
congratulations :-) :-) :-)
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Post by: bethany on March 04, 2013, 07:18:28 AM
 :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap:


Hugs
Bethany
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Post by: JenniL on March 04, 2013, 07:19:50 AM
congratulations :)
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Post by: Anna++ on March 04, 2013, 07:20:00 AM
Congratulations!  Keep up the good work :)
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Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on March 04, 2013, 08:23:00 AM
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Congratulations, Hon
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Post by: bojangles on March 04, 2013, 09:29:18 AM
Congrats!
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Post by: Sarah Louise on March 04, 2013, 09:34:39 AM
Its been 38 years for me since I quit both alcohol and smoking.  I started around 12 quit at 30.

I was raised around alcoholic parents, they went to the Moose Club every night, I went there with them about 3 nights a week, so I was always exposed.  One night I found myself waiting for my kids to go to bed so I could have a drink. 

For some reason due to my upbringing, I didn't like to have a drink until after they were in bed.

When I realized I was trying to get them to go to bed early one night I said, Thats Enough.

I brought them into the kitchen and had them watch me pour all my alcohol (beer, vodka and Bourbon) down the drain and have never taken a drink since.
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Post by: peky on March 04, 2013, 09:52:17 AM
You are a true inspiration to all of us!!!

Congratulations Dear Devlyn, may you see many years fill with joy and prosperity!!!
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Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 10:14:31 AM
Thanks, everybody! Your support means a lot to me.
@Sarah, I started at 12 and quit at 24. Congratulations to you on your success!
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Post by: Nero on March 04, 2013, 10:16:38 AM
Congrats hon! That's awesome!
Quit at 24! Wow!  :o
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Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 10:18:18 AM
Thanks, hon!
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Post by: Shantel on March 04, 2013, 10:19:27 AM
Congratulations from one former drunk to another! My ethnicity is Finnish/Norwegian, that should tell you something.
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Post by: EmmaS on March 04, 2013, 10:19:35 AM
Congrats!!!
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Post by: Sara Thomas on March 04, 2013, 10:21:01 AM
Here's to another day - Congratulations!!  :laugh:
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Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 10:21:37 AM
Thanks, ladies!
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Post by: Beth Andrea on March 04, 2013, 11:05:18 AM
Congratulations!

:)
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Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 11:07:36 AM
Thank you, hon! Hugs, Devlyn
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Post by: Jamiep on March 04, 2013, 11:25:40 AM
@Devlyn,

A year ago my bro-in-law almost succeeded for the 3rd time as an alcoholic in losing his life Dec 2011, it was gut wrenching to see him on life support, but over three months the hospital staff worked there tricks & got him back a year ago in March. It was awful seeing what he did to himself, emotional ups and downs for the family.

So, for you Dear Devlyn, you saw your way through the haze, had the courage to take control of your life. You must be proud of yourself for staying sober and I am proud of you too, and for posting to help others, that is not easy to admit. Bless you for giving yourself another day and look at yourself, if you hadn't made it you wouldn't have gotten to live your other gender as Devlyn, that is something to live for & Honor.

@Sarah Louise & everyone's Aunty Shan, congratulations for seeing life for what it is, coming back from the brink, you have my respect and appreciation.

For all of you, I am Happy you are here & in my life, you are of value to everyone here. Fortunately I have never let the demon Rum get to me, only have one or two on Saturday night & rarely anything else the rest of the week.

My fav song that is a theme for my life is "I Will Survive."
Love
Jamie
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Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 12:04:53 PM
Aw, thanks, Jamie! You have a way with words. Hugs, Devlyn
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Post by: Jamiep on March 04, 2013, 02:33:00 PM
Hi Devlyn,

Thank you, I think I am too wordy and should learn to be more concise.

I have never been in an alcoholics shoes but may have the sense of what it takes to stay clear of alcohol. From about 1993 to about 2007 I had acid reflux, my GP didn't tell me food diet may be a factor & didn't mention alcohol could trigger my throat constriction & inhalers could dilate the air passage open. After a year and half I stopped taking a medication. I figured out the triggers on my own, alcohol was one, so I stopped alcohol until the symptoms went away & I very carefully worked my way back to alcohol from 2007 on. This takes a lot of will power to not drink when out with friends that are drinking. So I have been in your shoes briefly to have the courage to not take that drink.

Keep strong.
Hugs
Jamie
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Post by: Cindy on March 04, 2013, 04:59:19 PM
Congratulations my friends.

Devlyn and Sarah Louise you are both an inspiration that have kept me going in some dark times.

My younger sister drank herself to death after a sexual assault.

I had a pretty good go at it.

I will never be cured but I hold you with me when I need strength.

Love and Congratulations

Cindy
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Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 05:19:06 PM
Thanks, Cindy! It's a shame that addiction is wired into some of us, it turns life into a minefield. Hugs, Devlyn
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Post by: Shantel on March 04, 2013, 06:58:55 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on March 04, 2013, 05:19:06 PM
Thanks, Cindy! It's a shame that addiction is wired into some of us, it turns life into a minefield. Hugs, Devlyn

If it isn't alcohol, it's food, drugs, tobacco or sex just to touch the tip of the addiction-berg.
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Post by: RachelH on March 04, 2013, 07:05:46 PM
Congratulations! x
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Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 07:50:52 PM
Thanks, Rachel! Hey Shan, I'm a food addct from way back! Can't shake the stuff! Hugs, Devlyn
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Post by: Shantel on March 04, 2013, 08:13:01 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on March 04, 2013, 07:50:52 PM
Thanks, Rachel! Hey Shan, I'm a food addct from way back! Can't shake the stuff! Hugs, Devlyn

Me too besides being a recovering drunk, I am an eataholic, love everything that isn't good for me. You don't suppose that our basic nature is self destructive do you?  ;)
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Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 08:14:17 PM
I resemble that remark!
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Post by: Shantel on March 04, 2013, 08:16:51 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on March 04, 2013, 08:14:17 PM
I resemble that remark!

Don't tell anyone but....Hugs and a big smoochie for the Devmeister!
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Post by: kelly25 on March 04, 2013, 08:17:19 PM
Congrats
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Post by: Devlyn on March 04, 2013, 08:19:41 PM
Thanks, Kelly! I appreciate your support, hugs, Devlyn
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Post by: DirtyFox on March 05, 2013, 01:33:56 AM
Congrats Devlyn! =)
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Post by: Heather on March 05, 2013, 01:47:21 AM
Congratulations! overcoming an addiction is something to be very proud of. :eusa_clap:
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Post by: kelly_aus on March 05, 2013, 02:28:28 AM
Congrats DM!

12 years clean from a meth addiction for me.
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Post by: Shantel on March 05, 2013, 07:26:51 AM
Quote from: Kelly the Trans-Rebel on March 05, 2013, 02:28:28 AM
Congrats DM!

12 years clean from a meth addiction for me.

Good going Kelly, glad you survived!  :eusa_clap:
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Post by: Devlyn on March 05, 2013, 07:35:04 AM
Thanks, ladies! Kelly, keep up the good work! Hugs, Devlyn
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Post by: Jamiep on March 05, 2013, 10:17:41 AM
@Kelly,

That is a powerful chemical to wrestle out of your life. Congratulations. Enjoy breathing. Stay clean.

Jamie
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Post by: Jamie D on March 11, 2013, 04:32:36 AM
I cannot tell you how proud I am of everybody who has posted their trials and tribulations in this topic.

Dev, you especially, for being open and brave enough to set the tone.  You are someone I look up to, even if you are a few years younger!
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Post by: Shantel on March 11, 2013, 07:55:20 AM
Quote from: Jamie D on March 11, 2013, 04:32:36 AM
I cannot tell you how proud I am of everybody who has posted their trials and tribulations in this topic.

Dev, you especially, for being open and brave enough to set the tone.  You are someone I look up to, even if you are a few years younger!

Dev is a definite keeper and a bud on many levels!