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Title: Introduction
Post by: lil t on May 27, 2007, 01:14:48 PM
Post by: lil t on May 27, 2007, 01:14:48 PM
Hello. My name is Theresa and this is the first time I have stumbled across this website so I wanted to introduce myself. I am 26 yr. old bi female very happily married to a 30 yr old bi/cross dressing man. We understand and love one another's sexuality in a way I never thought possible during my awkward teen years of trying not to stare at the other girls breasts in the locker room. He was honest with me from the start about everything so it was easy for me to accept him just the way he is. But when we found out we were expecting our son, he backed off of the dressing. Now that he (the baby) is a little older, he has been dressing again. We love to go out together and a part of me enjoys being with the beautiful man in a dress. I am ashamed to admit though that sometimes I feel a little bit jealous. It's horrible, I know, but I am used to being the one who gets attention when we go out not dressed. I don't want to compete with him, but sometimes I feel like I am dealing with a full blown diva! I guess I was hoping that some of the other SO's here could maybe relate. We're getting ready to go out and he's constantly asking me to help with his lipstick, and what should he wear and could I tie this for him and how should he do his hair. And by the time I am done getting him ready, it's late and I barely have time to fix myself up. I want to help him. I want to learn with him and I want to make sure he feels beautiful. I just sometimes wish I had friends who could relate that I can vent my frustrations to. So I guess that's what I just did. Thank you, total strangers for providing me with that opportunity. And if anyone else feels this way sometimes, feel free to vent to me!
Title: Re: Introduction
Post by: rhondabythebay on May 27, 2007, 02:59:03 PM
Post by: rhondabythebay on May 27, 2007, 02:59:03 PM
Theresa, welcome to Susans. You'll find sympathetic ears here. :) No shame in feeling jealous. Why not get yourself ready first. ;) Sounds like he needs to take on more of the primping duties.
Hugs,
Rhonda
Hugs,
Rhonda
Title: Re: Introduction
Post by: HelenW on May 27, 2007, 08:47:25 PM
Post by: HelenW on May 27, 2007, 08:47:25 PM
Hi, Theresa! Welcome!!
I'm glad you stumbled in - I hope you didn't hurt yourself though! :D
I think, instead of doing for him, that you give him instruction and then make him practice, which is probably the same way you learned. Only by doing will he master the skills he needs.
As far as we're concerned, hon', vent away! This is a good place to do it, the members here are very friendly and supportive. If you haven't already, please make sure you know and follow our terms or service, https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html, they are really not complicated and boil down to "be nice and be decent." And please don't forget to check out the other parts of the site. The Wiki and the links sections will point you towards lots of information and Chat is a fun place to hang out and/or ask questions.
I hope we'll see more of you real soon,
again, WELCOME ! ! :)
helen
I'm glad you stumbled in - I hope you didn't hurt yourself though! :D
I think, instead of doing for him, that you give him instruction and then make him practice, which is probably the same way you learned. Only by doing will he master the skills he needs.
As far as we're concerned, hon', vent away! This is a good place to do it, the members here are very friendly and supportive. If you haven't already, please make sure you know and follow our terms or service, https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html, they are really not complicated and boil down to "be nice and be decent." And please don't forget to check out the other parts of the site. The Wiki and the links sections will point you towards lots of information and Chat is a fun place to hang out and/or ask questions.
I hope we'll see more of you real soon,
again, WELCOME ! ! :)
helen
Title: Re: Introduction
Post by: tinkerbell on May 27, 2007, 09:05:48 PM
Post by: tinkerbell on May 27, 2007, 09:05:48 PM
Hi Theresa and welcome to Susan's!
Thank you for your introduction. Please take a few moments to get familiar with the site, review the site rules, and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page. We look forward to your future posts and participation. Enjoy your stay!
tink :icon_chick:
Thank you for your introduction. Please take a few moments to get familiar with the site, review the site rules, and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page. We look forward to your future posts and participation. Enjoy your stay!
tink :icon_chick: