Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: itachihoover on April 13, 2013, 11:01:00 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Awesome Experience
Post by: itachihoover on April 13, 2013, 11:01:00 AM
Post by: itachihoover on April 13, 2013, 11:01:00 AM
Lmao! I was walking in my apartment courtyard a moment ago and a kid rides up on his bike. He asked me, "Are you a boy or a girl?" This was awesome! He actually thought i was a girl. Guess i am doing Something right! I told him im a boy only because i have facial hair. He then said, "because you sound like a girl." I have been trying to change my voice, but was not really trying to then. This was awesome!
Also, when my Fiance and I went to Olive Garden the other day for our anniversary, the server came up and said, "Hello there ladies, i mean,... Hi guys." It was so funny and SO ironic! I later wrote on the back of the bill saying, you know when you called us ladies, well Im actually transgender(MtF). SO wish i could have seen his face! These were Awesome experiences that I really didnt expect. I am glad to be called a girl, but it is SO new! I dont even look like a girl (only from the back with my long hair). Just had to share my experience. ^.^
Also, when my Fiance and I went to Olive Garden the other day for our anniversary, the server came up and said, "Hello there ladies, i mean,... Hi guys." It was so funny and SO ironic! I later wrote on the back of the bill saying, you know when you called us ladies, well Im actually transgender(MtF). SO wish i could have seen his face! These were Awesome experiences that I really didnt expect. I am glad to be called a girl, but it is SO new! I dont even look like a girl (only from the back with my long hair). Just had to share my experience. ^.^
Title: Re: Awesome Experience
Post by: JulieC. on April 13, 2013, 11:24:24 AM
Post by: JulieC. on April 13, 2013, 11:24:24 AM
Isn't that just the best feeling? I got ma'amed twice in the last week. I wasn't presenting as a female either time. I hope it's just the vibe I give off cause it happens to me quite a bit. I'm not sure how far you are along but this probably won't be the last time.
Title: Re: Awesome Experience
Post by: itachihoover on April 13, 2013, 04:19:46 PM
Post by: itachihoover on April 13, 2013, 04:19:46 PM
It really was great! :) I have not shaved in a while, so i had alot of facial hair and was not trying to be feminine at all. Guess i am just giving off an aura or something. I dont mind! ^.^
Title: Re: Awesome Experience
Post by: Kade1985 on April 13, 2013, 04:34:10 PM
Post by: Kade1985 on April 13, 2013, 04:34:10 PM
That's awesome. I get called sir sometimes when I'm out in public, and I just dress the way I normally do. I'll admit I wear men's clothes and they're baggy and have a short haircut and so forth and it always makes me smile slightly when it happens
Title: Re: Awesome Experience
Post by: Lesley_Roberta on April 14, 2013, 06:59:19 AM
Post by: Lesley_Roberta on April 14, 2013, 06:59:19 AM
So little can go so far.
Yesterday, I decided why not just ask the girl if she can match this scent (had some perfume with me).
It was fairly clear it was for me I suppose, standing there wearing jewellery and all and I had gotten the vial of perfume out of a purse right in front of her.
She talked to me casually, and talked to me as if it was me buying it for me, not my wife or another female. She showed me a couple of choices and I mentioned I liked one. I got the name of the one I liked written down for later and commented I likely would get it soon. She mentioned it could be ordered if out of stock.
Over all the conversation was just plain ordinary.
It made me feel over all very comfortable as a whole.
Yesterday, I decided why not just ask the girl if she can match this scent (had some perfume with me).
It was fairly clear it was for me I suppose, standing there wearing jewellery and all and I had gotten the vial of perfume out of a purse right in front of her.
She talked to me casually, and talked to me as if it was me buying it for me, not my wife or another female. She showed me a couple of choices and I mentioned I liked one. I got the name of the one I liked written down for later and commented I likely would get it soon. She mentioned it could be ordered if out of stock.
Over all the conversation was just plain ordinary.
It made me feel over all very comfortable as a whole.