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Amahzing!!! :)

Lets have a KiKi!!!

Me and my friends had some fun cross dressing yesterday...although for me and "d" it was more like "just dressing". And "k" found out that they are a cross dresser. Yep...we had a sexy party lol.

I also found out a few things about myself too...

-I want to have breasts, before it tried dressing I didn't want breasts all that much...but 1) they make me pass for a girl very well/look really sexy and 2) I would love to have sensitive breasts. :)

-For me it didn't feel like cross dressing...it was just like I was dressing as the real me.

-Wearing more masculine shirts and having breasts made me feel like I was cross dressing to look like a guy O.o, female clothing just felt like regular clothing to me.

-My self esteem increased about ten fold...I have never really liked my masculine body...but with breasts...I actually look nearly almost like a cisgender female. And I like looking/presenting female and being treated that way.

I've also started noticing that I have a lot of female mental and emotional (as well as sexual) traits. And a fair bit of events from my past show these things off. I've been an overly masculine girl for far too long...it's time for me to be a slightly masculine rocker girl :D

I figured I would post this as an update for people who have helped me/care about me...

This is also for those who haven't cross dressed yet and are unsure of their identities...seriously try it out. I went to the Salvation Army for my clothing. My experience clarified a lot of things for me.

[note- this is posted in transgender talk because that is my target audience for what I say at the end as well as about myself at the beginning]

-Skye

That's awesome, Skye! I'm happy to hear you had such a good experience; sounds like progress!

I find that when I'm feeling down, dressing up really cheers me up, even if I'm just at home by myself. It's ties and jackets for this guy but I bet the feeling is similar. It's great to look in the mirror and think 'aha, there you are!'

Quote from: ford on April 21, 2013, 11:44:59 AM
That's awesome, Skye! I'm happy to hear you had such a good experience; sounds like progress!

I find that when I'm feeling down, dressing up really cheers me up, even if I'm just at home by myself. It's ties and jackets for this guy but I bet the feeling is similar. It's great to look in the mirror and think 'aha, there you are!'

Yeah, that's totally my experience as well. I'm going to start doing this whenever I can.

When I looked in the mirror a few times I was like..."Wow, I look so cute!" :)

I still can't stop thinking about how I could go full time right now if I wanted to/could without adding stress to my life... :)

Btw...sexy parties are awesome.

This post really just made my night! I am glad to see that everything is getting better and you are starting to feel more confident and sure of yourself.  Keep us updated on all the other positive developments :)

I'm on the left, no make up and a little bit of stubble. My hair is also a bit out of control at the moment.

http://i1298.photobucket.com/albums/ag60/Keira150/C421CB61-93AD-4550-87EA-D6D3F871B776-762-0000016FBA993EAC_zpsdbcdc2fc.jpg

One of my first things I did when I first explored my TSness...was put on breast forms and a bra.

"And that's all she wrote", as the saying goes.

And yes, they feel as good as they look...even better.

Quote from: Beth Andrea on April 22, 2013, 12:14:59 AM
One of my first things I did when I first explored my TSness...was put on breast forms and a bra.

"And that's all she wrote", as the saying goes.

My counsellor suggested that I try cross dressing...so I did and it just felt like dressing/looking like me...the way I should look.

I didn't even use breast forms...I just got a padded bra and stuffed it...I do need to get some breast forms if I plan on going full time though...

Quote from: Sky-Blue on April 22, 2013, 12:18:20 AM
My counsellor suggested that I try cross dressing...so I did and it just felt like dressing/looking like me...the way I should look.

I didn't even use breast forms...I just got a padded bra and stuffed it...I do need to get some breast forms if I plan on going full time though...

It took me awhile to relax in girl clothes...but once there, I cannot stand wearing guy stuff.

The forms were a gift from a CD friend...I passed them on after using them for just a couple-3 times. I knew I'd have to have my "own", and didn't want to get too attached to the forms. But for just a general shape, yeah stuffing works just fine.

Quote from: Sky-Blue on April 22, 2013, 12:08:31 AM
I'm on the left, no make up and a little bit of stubble. My hair is also a bit out of control at the moment.

http://i1298.photobucket.com/albums/ag60/Keira150/C421CB61-93AD-4550-87EA-D6D3F871B776-762-0000016FBA993EAC_zpsdbcdc2fc.jpg (http://i1298.photobucket.com/albums/ag60/Keira150/C421CB61-93AD-4550-87EA-D6D3F871B776-762-0000016FBA993EAC_zpsdbcdc2fc.jpg)

Good to finally see you.

Apart from the lack of the smile, you look pretty fine to me.

Quote from: Beth Andrea on April 22, 2013, 12:22:06 AM
It took me awhile to relax in girl clothes...but once there, I cannot stand wearing guy stuff.

It took me a couple of tries to get used to it, too.  I think I went into it with my expectations set too high, and it didn't help that the clothes I ordered online were too big :(

I work from home in the mornings and now I can't do it in guy clothes.  I've tried as recently as last week, I get distracted way to easily and then nothing gets done.  I'm much more productive as a girl :)

Quote from: Skye-Blue on April 22, 2013, 12:08:31 AM
I'm on the left, no make up and a little bit of stubble. My hair is also a bit out of control at the moment.

http://i1298.photobucket.com/albums/ag60/Keira150/C421CB61-93AD-4550-87EA-D6D3F871B776-762-0000016FBA993EAC_zpsdbcdc2fc.jpg (http://i1298.photobucket.com/albums/ag60/Keira150/C421CB61-93AD-4550-87EA-D6D3F871B776-762-0000016FBA993EAC_zpsdbcdc2fc.jpg)

Cute photo :)  I think you have lots of potential, so don't worry too much.  I am really excited for you and glad you are taking the steps you need.

Quote from: learningtolive on April 22, 2013, 01:16:17 PM
Cute photo :)  I think you have lots of potential, so don't worry too much.  I am really excited for you and glad you are taking the steps you need.

Thank you for the compliment, and for the support :)

I'll keep posting every once and awhile if any new developments should emerge.

Why not just do it everyday? I don't consider it crossdressing though i consider it finally wearing cute clothes that fit. I wear women's clothes 24/7 and no one says anything.