Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Post operative life => Topic started by: Gone on April 29, 2013, 07:50:38 AM Return to Full Version
Title: X
Post by: Gone on April 29, 2013, 07:50:38 AM
Post by: Gone on April 29, 2013, 07:50:38 AM
X
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: milktea on April 29, 2013, 08:28:56 AM
Post by: milktea on April 29, 2013, 08:28:56 AM
it is to prevent infection...condoms are supposed to be sterile.
and it is way easier to slide in without. i was being very careful and used condoms even in the 3rd month, but it just got too hard. i think it is okay to go without condoms after the first mth!
and it is way easier to slide in without. i was being very careful and used condoms even in the 3rd month, but it just got too hard. i think it is okay to go without condoms after the first mth!
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: Elainagirl59 on April 29, 2013, 09:10:09 AM
Post by: Elainagirl59 on April 29, 2013, 09:10:09 AM
Hi Cherrie,
I use a product called Surgilube. It feels just like the QC lube provided in Chonburi.
It doesn't seem like the Surgilube dries out, but then again I am extremely generous
with the lube.
I stopped using condoms as soon as I returned home.
Best Wishes,
Elaina
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: JennX on April 29, 2013, 10:18:54 AM
Post by: JennX on April 29, 2013, 10:18:54 AM
I don't use condoms. My surgeon never mentioned them. I just put lube (mineral oil) directly on the dilator and insert. I'm pretty wet in there to begin with... but if I wanted extra lubrication, how about putting some lube on a q-tip and inserting. They make longer handled q-tips like these:
(https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSZSfaewjIBWdXAb8GlQm7dVxn950LDO727d8VxL1yl1Yzm71umDw)
(https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSZSfaewjIBWdXAb8GlQm7dVxn950LDO727d8VxL1yl1Yzm71umDw)
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: Catherine Sarah on April 29, 2013, 11:52:38 AM
Post by: Catherine Sarah on April 29, 2013, 11:52:38 AM
Hi Cherrie,
Check out the following link and see if this is the type of applicator you want.
http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Vibes-Lubricant-Applicator-Grey/dp/B002SKNJ7G (http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Vibes-Lubricant-Applicator-Grey/dp/B002SKNJ7G)
Huggs
Catherine
Check out the following link and see if this is the type of applicator you want.
http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Vibes-Lubricant-Applicator-Grey/dp/B002SKNJ7G (http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Vibes-Lubricant-Applicator-Grey/dp/B002SKNJ7G)
Huggs
Catherine
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: JennX on April 29, 2013, 01:25:23 PM
Post by: JennX on April 29, 2013, 01:25:23 PM
Quote from: Catherine Sarah on April 29, 2013, 11:52:38 AM
Hi Cherrie,
Check out the following link and see if this is the type of applicator you want.
http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Vibes-Lubricant-Applicator-Grey/dp/B002SKNJ7G (http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Vibes-Lubricant-Applicator-Grey/dp/B002SKNJ7G)
Huggs
Catherine
Now those look intriguing... never seen something like that before.
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: Jenna Marie on April 29, 2013, 05:58:09 PM
Post by: Jenna Marie on April 29, 2013, 05:58:09 PM
My GP recommended Vagisil lube (it's the same as KY Silk-E, but a bit cheaper off Amazon than that is), and I've found that I can use a LOT less of it and get the same effect, and it doesn't dry out on me like standard KY.
I never used condoms, though... instead we were told to soak our dilators in sterilizing solution afterward. I also bought some of those yeast infection cream applicators (and just discarded the cream itself) and it was a huge help in terms of getting enough lube deep inside; when I was using those, I soaked them in the same sterilizing hibiclens mix as the dilators. Now I just wash my dilators with antibacterial soap, and stopped needing the applicators. If I did use an applicator now, I think I'd probably soak it again, b/c those have more hard-to-clean crevices than a dilator.
I never used condoms, though... instead we were told to soak our dilators in sterilizing solution afterward. I also bought some of those yeast infection cream applicators (and just discarded the cream itself) and it was a huge help in terms of getting enough lube deep inside; when I was using those, I soaked them in the same sterilizing hibiclens mix as the dilators. Now I just wash my dilators with antibacterial soap, and stopped needing the applicators. If I did use an applicator now, I think I'd probably soak it again, b/c those have more hard-to-clean crevices than a dilator.
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: brianna1969 on September 12, 2013, 10:05:43 AM
Post by: brianna1969 on September 12, 2013, 10:05:43 AM
JennaX......... Wondering if it was your surgeon who recommended using Mineral Oil?? McGinn?? anyway ..wanted to ask if that helped during Dilation??.. I am 9 months post and have used Surgilube, and Sliquid, but always find that It's difficult to remove dilators ( Vapor Lock )..lol... and tried a very thin smear of Mineral oil for the first time along with some surgilube on my dilator and that seemed to help..and was able to get a little deeper with it as well..
So wondering if anyone has heard anything about using an oil type lube in conjunction with their normal lube. anyine heard about using Vitamin E instead of mineral oil???
So wondering if anyone has heard anything about using an oil type lube in conjunction with their normal lube. anyine heard about using Vitamin E instead of mineral oil???
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: Kate G on September 13, 2013, 07:02:10 AM
Post by: Kate G on September 13, 2013, 07:02:10 AM
I found it was easier and less painful to do it without the condom. I just washed the stents with anti-bacterial dish washing soap, dried them and put them back in the box. I ordered a ton of Surgilube and it was cool that it came in tin tubes instead of plastic but K-Y or generic K-Y type lube works fine too. The tin tubes were nice because they don't spring back like the plastic tubes and suck in a bunch of air making it more difficult to dispense. Just store your tubes of lube upsidedown if you are stuck with plastic.
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: JennX on September 14, 2013, 11:17:20 PM
Post by: JennX on September 14, 2013, 11:17:20 PM
Quote from: brianna1969 on September 12, 2013, 10:05:43 AM
JennaX......... Wondering if it was your surgeon who recommended using Mineral Oil?? McGinn?? anyway ..wanted to ask if that helped during Dilation??.. I am 9 months post and have used Surgilube, and Sliquid, but always find that It's difficult to remove dilators ( Vapor Lock )..lol... and tried a very thin smear of Mineral oil for the first time along with some surgilube on my dilator and that seemed to help..and was able to get a little deeper with it as well..
So wondering if anyone has heard anything about using an oil type lube in conjunction with their normal lube. anyine heard about using Vitamin E instead of mineral oil???
Yep. I went to McGinn. She recommends straight mineral oil... Not to mix it with anything. I've never tried anything else for comparison... But I have no complaints either. ;D
Not tried Vitamin E oil either.
Title: Re: Dilating condoms & lube & apllicator questions
Post by: Flan on September 15, 2013, 06:10:50 AM
Post by: Flan on September 15, 2013, 06:10:50 AM
Quote from: Cherrie on September 15, 2013, 05:05:04 AMBoth premarin and estrace vaginal cream are prescription only substances.
I also read about Premarin cream to make the tissue softer. Can someone tell me how and where to use it exactly? And can you buy it without prescription somewhere? Online?