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Title: Sex life after Mtf girlfriend is castrated
Post by: Splinter on May 11, 2013, 10:38:28 AM
Post by: Splinter on May 11, 2013, 10:38:28 AM
Hey everyone I'm new to this forum. I'm wondering if there are any guys here who have a mtf girlfriend who is castrated and how has she and your sex life changed since then. My girlfriend is getting her testicles removed in a couple months and I'm worried after she loses them her affection will decrease even more and she will have no interest in sex and never want it ever. As a 19 year old guy i have an extremely high sex drive so this is a big problem for me.
As she transitioned she became less and less affectionate, and we've been having less sex, its still amazing it's just not as amazing. I'd also like to know if anyone here has any solutions to get her sex drive back if it does completely disappear.
As she transitioned she became less and less affectionate, and we've been having less sex, its still amazing it's just not as amazing. I'd also like to know if anyone here has any solutions to get her sex drive back if it does completely disappear.
Title: Re: Sex life after Mtf girlfriend is castrated
Post by: spacial on May 11, 2013, 10:55:01 AM
Post by: spacial on May 11, 2013, 10:55:01 AM
An orchiectomy.
Simple answer is, it wil make no real difference other than your girlfriend will probably be a lot happier.
We have a large number of girls who have had this. Hopefully some will be answering really soon.
In the mean time, Welcome to Susans'
Simple answer is, it wil make no real difference other than your girlfriend will probably be a lot happier.
We have a large number of girls who have had this. Hopefully some will be answering really soon.
In the mean time, Welcome to Susans'
Title: Sex life after castration
Post by: Splinter on May 11, 2013, 11:06:56 AM
Post by: Splinter on May 11, 2013, 11:06:56 AM
I'm just wondering how has your sex life changed to those who have been castrated. I've posted something kind of similiar to this in the significant other section but I want to hear as many experiences as I can especially from trans women.
1) Since you've had your testicles removed do you still have desire to have sex?
2) Do you still get erect easily or is it really hard to have/maintain an erection
3) how much harder is it to orgasm and how does it feel compared to before being castrated
4) Do you still wish you had your sex drive from before HRT?
I'm really curious about this as my loving girlfriend of one year is about to be castrated soon so it got me thinking on how our sex life going to change once that happens. I'm being as supportive as I can but at the same time I have my worries that surgery there won't be any more intimacy
1) Since you've had your testicles removed do you still have desire to have sex?
2) Do you still get erect easily or is it really hard to have/maintain an erection
3) how much harder is it to orgasm and how does it feel compared to before being castrated
4) Do you still wish you had your sex drive from before HRT?
I'm really curious about this as my loving girlfriend of one year is about to be castrated soon so it got me thinking on how our sex life going to change once that happens. I'm being as supportive as I can but at the same time I have my worries that surgery there won't be any more intimacy
Title: Re: Sex life after Mtf girlfriend is castrated
Post by: Splinter on May 11, 2013, 11:11:35 AM
Post by: Splinter on May 11, 2013, 11:11:35 AM
That's good to hear. Guess I've been worrying for nothing
And thank you
And thank you
Title: Re: Sex life after Mtf girlfriend is castrated
Post by: Devlyn on May 11, 2013, 11:16:29 AM
Post by: Devlyn on May 11, 2013, 11:16:29 AM
Quote from: Splinter on May 11, 2013, 11:06:56 AM
I'm just wondering how has your sex life changed to those who have been castrated. I've posted something kind of similiar to this in the significant other section but I want to hear as many experiences as I can especially from trans women.
1) Since you've had your testicles removed do you still have desire to have sex?
2) Do you still get erect easily or is it really hard to have/maintain an erection
3) how much harder is it to orgasm and how does it feel compared to before being castrated
4) Do you still wish you had your sex drive from before HRT?
I'm really curious about this as my loving girlfriend of one year is about to be castrated soon so it got me thinking on how our sex life going to change once that happens. I'm being as supportive as I can but at the same time I have my worries that surgery there won't be any more intimacy
Hon, I've merged your topics. TOS Rule #12 prohibits crossposting. Your thread can be viewed by everyone, there's no need to post all over the Forums. Hugs, Devlyn